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| Everything... Cook me dinners, buy and prepare fruit, arrange the fridge, wash everything up, put your clothes away in your cupboard, arrange your stuff, do your shopping, washing, ironing |
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| Clean the main areas, leave my room alone, do my washing and ironing but leave me to feed myself |
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| Clean my room, do my washing and ironing... leave me to feed myself |
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| Just prepare me some food and do some shopping, as locals will get stuff cheaper |
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| JUST washing and ironing... leave it in a common place for ME to get it... fuck the mopping and making it look like you've been in etc |
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| The idea of having someone in MY house messing with my stuff while I'm out makes me far more uncomfortable than preparing meals or taking my clothes elsewhere to be washed. I don't want a maid! |
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So, my new apartment is shared with an American friend of mine, who works a lot of hours. So, wants a maid.
It's only $25 p/person p/month, so no real monetary issue. And when working, they never see her. So not a big issue that she gets under foot (I, however, don't have day work for a while, so she's getting on my pecs).
However, even when I do work in the day, I will be locking my room and sorting my own stuff out. If I get the ensuite room, especially. She will just be my clothes washing/ironing woman.
Everyone thinks I'm odd for this mindset, and I am the only brit in a group of Canadians/Yanks... So, I was just seeing if it was a British thing...
I should also point out the current one doesn't speak a word of English, and thinks we are all fluent in Vietnamese. ____________________ China traffic/travel bike vid - When I make a sweeping statement, please add the word 'statistically' in to the sentence before you bitch...
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Got to agree with you on this: Maids are ten a penny over here as well, apparently the locals see it as some sort of status symbol, the maids are treated like slaves.
No, couldn’t have one in the house, the only Brits I know who employ one, as a cleaner, end up cleaning the house, so it’s not too scruffy for her, WTF!
If you’d like to know how the expat, middle classes treat these people have a read of this, obviously not Cyprus, but I imagine it’s the same the world over.
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| Suntan Sid wrote: | Got to agree with you on this: Maids are ten a penny over here as well, apparently the locals see it as some sort of status symbol, the maids are treated like slaves.
No, couldn’t have one in the house, the only Brits I know who employ one, as a cleaner, end up cleaning the house, so it’s not too scruffy for her, WTF!
If you’d like to know how the expat, middle classes treat these people have a read of this, obviously not Cyprus, but I imagine it’s the same the world over.
https://www.independent.co.uk/opinion/commentators/johann-hari/the-dark-side-of-dubai-1664368.html |
Jesus wept. I knew Dubai was bad but that was mind-blowing. All the vile evil of humanity consensed into one disgusting shithole. ____________________ "There's the horizon! Ride hard, ride fast and cut down all who stand in your way!" |
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| Suntan Sid wrote: | Got to agree with you on this: Maids are ten a penny over here as well, apparently the locals see it as some sort of status symbol, the maids are treated like slaves.
No, couldn’t have one in the house, the only Brits I know who employ one, as a cleaner, end up cleaning the house, so it’s not too scruffy for her, WTF!
If you’d like to know how the expat, middle classes treat these people have a read of this, obviously not Cyprus, but I imagine it’s the same the world over.
https://www.independent.co.uk/opinion/commentators/johann-hari/the-dark-side-of-dubai-1664368.html |
Just spent ages reading that .
Shocking reading, I knew it was a cesspit but JEEEEEZZZZZZZ! |
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| Hetzer wrote: | Have you seen the ad for Dubai that plays before every trailer at the movie-review site (IDMP or something)? My god, I feel the blood pulse in my temples. |
No haven't seen that, but my satellite TV comes via the UAE and Saudi, (got it for the footy), the adverts on there have to be seen to be believed!
Mainly it’s US fast food, US cars, and skin whitening cream, , quite an eye opener when you cotton on that other than the oil, which they pay outsiders to extract from the ground, they produce absolutely nothing.
For sheer sycophancy, there's a particular ad where a little girl is drawing a picture, when she's finished, she picks it up and kisses it. Guess what it's a picture of the "King" of Saudi, arghhhhh, makes me want to vomit every time. ____________________ "Everybody needs money, that's why they call it money!"  |
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Jesus wept. I knew Dubai was bad but that was mind-blowing. All the vile evil of humanity condensed into one disgusting shithole. |
There was a undercover series on Dubai a few years ago, they followed the Indian migrant workers to and from their digs to work each day. They are trapped in the system, and can barely afford to get out, so end up just sending money home to their families.
The problem is, that their families would have spent life savings sending their men to Dubai to work in the first place, and so to go back with their tail between their legs just cannot be done...so they are forced through shame purposes to stay and work.
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| Suntan Sid wrote: | | Hetzer wrote: | Jesus wept. I knew Dubai was bad but that was mind-blowing. All the vile evil of humanity consensed into one disgusting shithole. |
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Christ. That's an eye-opener.
That said, when I was doing some cruise ship work, the laundry wallahs (quite literally!) would steward for the western officers as a bit of money earner on the side. I didn't have the heart to cut the chap who did for the previous guy's pay simply because I wasn't as lazy as the chap I was depping for. I think he got the better end of the deal when I halved the amount of times he should come in (seriously, I'm quite happy to sleep in the same sheets for more than a night!), but ended up paying him the same...
I've no problem with domestic staff, provided they're paid a fair wage and treated with respect. I do think ex-pats in poorer countries, when they're earning orders of magnitude more than the locals (and this is a general thing rather than aimed at the OP!) should pay something above and beyond, not necessarily to the staff, then at least to some sort of social fund or community necessity (clinic, school, whatever). ____________________ '11 CBF1000A, '99 C90, '98 CB500
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| multijoy wrote: | I do think ex-pats in poorer countries, when they're earning orders of magnitude more than the locals (and this is a general thing rather than aimed at the OP!) should pay something above and beyond, not necessarily to the staff, then at least to some sort of social fund or community necessity (clinic, school, whatever). |
I have a friend who does this, he has a cleaner come in once a week, he pays her what he thinks is fair for the hours.
Unfortunately, well off expats, being well of expats do not like this and my mate gets a lot of stick for paying, what is, in effect, four times the going rate.
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Wow, there I was wanting just some back up on 'I don't want strange women waking me up in the morning or messing with my underwear/hiding my stuff'...
... Then we had to go all deep about Dubai. I shall remember this article, as plenty of people I meet keep harping on about it like it's the promised land. Bah. 3 years in prison for eating a poppy-seed bagel before flight... fuck you Dubai. ____________________ China traffic/travel bike vid - When I make a sweeping statement, please add the word 'statistically' in to the sentence before you bitch...
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| Suntan Sid wrote: | | Hetzer wrote: | Have you seen the ad for Dubai that plays before every trailer at the movie-review site (IDMP or something)? My god, I feel the blood pulse in my temples. |
No haven't seen that, but my satellite TV comes via the UAE and Saudi, (got it for the footy), the adverts on there have to be seen to be believed!
Mainly it’s US fast food, US cars, and skin whitening cream, , quite an eye opener when you cotton on that other than the oil, which they pay outsiders to extract from the ground, they produce absolutely nothing.
For sheer sycophancy, there's a particular ad where a little girl is drawing a picture, when she's finished, she picks it up and kisses it. Guess what it's a picture of the "King" of Saudi, arghhhhh, makes me want to vomit every time. |
Of course if you point out these minor issues to a white liberal in Britain they go into denial mode and call you a racist. They are also the ones that say "racists" don't know about other people's cultures... quite ironic really!
In any case, I refuse to go to Islamic countries due to their laws
| G wrote: | Was watching something about India - there home-help is very common for your average middle class people. Some surprise was shown that similar people in England (earning a lot higher salaries in absolute terms) wouldn't even have a maid. |
55% of Indians defecate outside (pissing and sh!tting). Feel free to check youtube. Also, you might want to avoid the Ganges sewer, err I mean "river". |
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