What needs done?

[Kwaks]

Clearing up my life, passing things on so I don't leave issues behind.

So far I have sorted the cars and bike, transferred all the bills into joint names, lawyer coming to draw up living will and normal will.Docs have a DNR.

What else? I really don't want to forget anything as I have spent a lifetime avoiding this stuff when I can, last chance so want to et it all sorted in good order. Kids will be looked after long term, just need to make the transition as smooth as possible for partner etc,

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[silky666]

why the urgency now ? (ie: your comment "last chance" )
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[Kwaks]

Hopefully not my last chance but so far none of the consultants are taiking past a couple weeks, seems best to get this all sorted then dont have to worry about it
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[silky666]

I am notoriously bad at reading more than the last 2 posts in a thread ... so have no idea of your illness.
Have you posted in other threads about ? if so I will go look up rather than you post here.
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[silky666]

Are you talking just financials ?

How about passing on your thoughts / memories / experiences etc.
Video ? Written ? Recording ?
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[Kwaks]

tumour on the brainstem.


Yeah did think of that silky, but its damn hard to do, and dont want it to end up like some cheesy hollywood film lol


Trying to do the practical stuff whilst I still can, already eyesight has suffered so need this stuff done or will get harder, just cant help thinking I will forget something....
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[TheSmiler]

To be honhest going on experience of missing my dad, you have said you have children so from a child's point of view here are my suggestions.

So maybe something to do with these;

Things that I miss is the voice, simple voice is beginning to go wish I could hear it again. << something to do with that.

Photo's can't have enough I've only got 3 at max of my dad one with me but when really young. So they are a great thing to think about.

Go out with your kids and wife have fun at different places if possible give them some memories.

If you are creative maybe write a story or song, I found one of my dad's and It's the most precious thing that I've got in my life.

Other than that it's finance, wills, funeral arangements make sure thats sorted but thats later date with information on songs and security of your family.
Try to think about it from different points of view, sorry to hear the bad news hope it doesn't come to it though .

EDIT: Have you also thought of listing down medical family history problems this will be helpful if dread the worst but your children become ill in the future. You know most of them ask this question, this feels bad asking but just popped into my mind.
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[Kwaks]

gave the passwaords for banking etc already, went onto william hill to lose the money I had there, won another eighty



Good idea on the passwords, but some secrets I will take with me lol
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[Marmalade]

Really, do a short vid.

In this age it's so easy and will mean so much to your kids in the future

Really sorry to hear this, hope the docs are wrong and you get to spend a lot more time with your loved ones
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[Kwaks]

will do some vids once I get the drain out and hair sorted a bit, plan to spend as much time ith them as possiblr
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[ThoughtContro...]

Sorry to hear about it mate.

Like Silky and others have said, passing on memories and thoughts can be huge.

Dunno what age your kids are. I lost both parents fairly young. I can't remember much about my Mum, and the main thing that I can remember about my Dad was a pair of legs in blue overalls sticking out from underneath whatever car he was fixing, usually accompanied by a clang of some spanner and an expletive, "Jesus Christ and bastard", sticks in the mind particularly well. He spent his working life building cars, and the rest of it fixing em AFAICR. What I missed out on was the later in life going out drinking with him, where you bond, share thoughts, ideas, experiences and views on the world. I've been out with all my mate's dads when they've gone out for a social pint, but never got to do it with my own. I never got on with the rest of the family, so missed out on any shared info. Very few photos either.

All the above sounds like over sentimental crap, but when your kids get older, they'll want to know what their Dad was about. Some photos are one thing, but the sound of a voice, thoughts, ideas, experiences, whatever, gives a huge 3D experience to remember someone by, that if you don't do, just can't be replaced.

Memories fade, things you play and re-watch help refresh them. Video and audio recording are dirt cheap nowadays, so you would be crazy to to leave em something. It doesn't have to be profound or some Hollywood schmaltz, just a lasting record of you, the man, in your own words, for them to remember you by.
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[AndyB1989]

if your kids are young record yourself reading some bedtime storys so dad can still read tyhem a bedtime story.

my friends dad died when she was 8 or 9 she is now 35 and on her wedding day his old best m8 gave her a letter he had written for her on her wedding day i dont know what it said but it made her very emotinal (in a good way)

so maybe think about milestones in your kids lives to come and make sure there is something there from you.


really sorry to hear about your illness dude.

[Kwaks]

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[The Disapproving Brit]

If the whole video diary thing isn't your thing, do something with the family that you can catch on video - a day out at the seaside or whatever would be good for them to remember you by - lots of photos, videos etc.
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[iooi]

TBH. I would have transfered bills to partners name only. Save them having to change it all again.

Close your bank account and put the money into their sole account again saves work for them, so long as you trust them to do as you ask.
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[Jodie]

Any news on Kwaks op went?
I keep looking for updates but I'm not a member of the scots section and wondered if he's updated anyone?

[Kwaks]

Update for Jodie
3 weeks and 6 ops from when it started, I finally got out the hospital.

2 drains fitted, 2 shunts fitted, 1 biopsy and one cleaning infected wound and tying off shunt.

Due to start radiotherapy treatment on wednesday, they are hoping to slow the growth of the tumour. My neurosurgeon said he would hope for 1 or 2 yesrs for me.

He has confirmed s surgicsl interventon is out of the question, so radiotherapy is best hope of delaying the inevitable.

Good news is I went to GP today and got a prescription for the drugs I wsnt, not bad as they are not on the NHS approved trstments,

I dont expect a miracle cure, however they have other benefits

https://www.youtube.com/user/TheLDNresearchtrust#p/u/2/x1Mqjl0RMeI
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