Dumped by text?!!!!!!

[Marcg868]

Well story goes, I'm having my Sunday Dinner after a gash night at work and get a text off the now ex of 4 years. That her heads fecked and she needs a break!!!!!

Now, I'm not even upset not even angry. And it just shows that the words of I love you she spouted is absolute bollocks.

So anybody else been dumped by text.

I remember back in 2006 making various threads on here regarding an ex. But this feels alot different. It feels as if i have had a weight lifted off my shoulder.

After the 2006 incident i spent 2 years meeting new people and just shagging about. And made some great mates.

But hey ho life goes on shitty way of breaking up with someone tho! cowards way out.
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[haroman666]

Not by text... A couple of times over MSN... But that was when I was like 14/15 so the relationships werent exactly involved or deep. Text sounds about the same low level though. I've never dumped anyone, but I know for a fact if I was going to i'd arrange to meet... Perhaps something cliche like a park bench or Starbucks
Hope you keep well dude! The only healer is time.
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[woll]

I have done it
In my defence i couldn't get to see her in person and she wouldnt pick up the phone.
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[Marcg868]

Got a feeling it was going to happen anyway, but still think a text. When we are both in our mid 20's is a bit childish. But back in Uni in September after a year out. Plenty of new fanny there!

To be honest, I'll be glad to have my full wage after bill to myself instead of taking her out all the sodding time. And I filled her car up with petrol the other day. Cheeky bitch

Time will heal i know, but thanks for the words of encouragement.
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[Im-a-Ridah]

Bad luck, though you seem to be taking it well

On the plus side, enjoy two years of fun and shagging about, I hope it goes well

[Marcg868]

I think seeing one person at work having a massive seizure at work at 2200 and then holding someones hand while they take their last breath at 0530 in the morning puts things into perspective for me. One life nearly ended and another one did, whereas I still have my family and friends and i have just had a brick thrown at me and took a stumble in my life.

So pick myself up, dust myself off and crack on Plan to finish my Nursing degree, get a lifelong career behind me and enjoy life and if another girl comes along, smash her back doors in
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[WildGoose]

You aren't making a great deal of sense. An ex of 4 years dumps you via text? Lol wut?


Generally people will take whatever they can to make it sound worse in tales to their friends. Being a victim eases the conscience.

You might say to someone "i'm off" to their face, they might not believe you, you might say the same thing later in an email, confirming some details.

Guaranteed they will tell all their friends about the email as it makes it sound worse on your part.

Is there really any easy or humane way to do it? Welcome to the age of communication. Would you have felt any better had she had 'courage' to say it to your face. It's still the same bullet.

The words "I love you". There aren't enough divisions of the word 'love' in the english language. She probably meant it at the time. Things change, and there is no such thing as a contract for life in terms of the fragility of the human condition.
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[Marcg868]

[flat spot]

My mate was dumped by text. He was pretty cut up about the way the relationship finished, so you're not alone.

[MORTON]

sadly people lack real balls as there are so many ways to tell people stuff now

Cowardly way out to finnish anything in writing, should be done face-t-face unless you really cant get them to lissten

Just say to yourself that if they are that spineless to do that then you are best of out

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[Rogerborg]

First, check that it's not one of her mates having a laugh with her phone.

Then, post your wank bank pictures of her.

She sounds like a bit of a precious princess, you're well out of it.
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[Louise]

Yes ive been dumped by text - was quite mortified at first - Laughable now

[pinkyfloyd]

If she does not have the decency to break up with you face to face after 4 years together then she sounds like a right cnut.

Chances are its because some other blokes flashing his bollocks at her and she cant face you because of it because she knows you'll see right through her. That or shes just a weak person.
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[duhawkz]

I could understand it if you had just started seeing her, a few weeks or something but 4 years i think that demand a face to face and proper explanation

Any way Tits > Gary job done
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[Redoko]

I've dumped someone over the phone.

Now before the karma brigade comes she was shagging someone behind my back and I had very good reasons to give her the formalities of splitting up.

Crazy b!tch.
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[MORTON]

its better to explain something like dat as otherwise you left with lots of wondering and stuff not knowing why how and stuff - texting such a short text just means no backbone, not sure wat she wants...or attention seekin, sounds bit immature to me to. Mostly immaature people will end it with textm, msn, email etc.

people alaways think the grass is greener, give her 6-t-12 mnths and by time you are well over her, she will actually realise too late that you were what she probs wanted

you will then bve right off into the sunset with someone better

Some poeple are just plain horrible when they leave, there are betterer ways of splititn up

[Skudd]

I sometimes text while I'm having a dump.
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[chris-red]

It makes it easier I think, you know if they can't say it to your face they ain't worth piss.

You're doing what I would do, cut them out of your life, don't even bother responding to them. 2/1 she will be begging you back soon, ignore her.
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[superstacker]

I remember when I was about 15, text messaging was a very new thing.

Text my then girlfriend: "Hey, What are you doing?"

She text back "U R DUMPED"

I look back and laugh now...Can I get a "Cool Story Bro?"

[AngelGrinder]

I find breaking up with them in as civilised matter as possible (if circumstances allow), as they then mention to their friends how awesome and nice you were.

Then you shag their friends.
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[Nick__C]

Siphon your go-go fuel back at least
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[Marcg868]

[Clanger]

Yes. And I lived with him too. Went home to face the gutless bastard and he kicked off, saying he'd wished I'd not come home.

Later I found out he felt he'd made a huge mistake...(it was drug & drink fuelled text message).

Actually did me a huge favour...as looking back I know I had a lucky escape!!! I have since gone on and achieved bigger and better things without him in my life.
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