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SlimRick
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PostPosted: 11:21 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: How quickly things change.... Reply with quote

Just over 12 months ago I bought my first "proper" boat. I was living in land-locked Sheffield and rarely managed the journey from home to North Wales where she was moored. I'd been settled with my girlfriend of nearly 10 years and our son (my step son). I worked in Sheffield in a reasonably well paying job as an IT Manager for large company.

Fast forward to today and I've been separated from my girlfriend for 6 months, and in that time I've handed my notice in at work, told the landlord of the house I've been renting for 4 years that I'm leaving at the end of September, secured another job much closer to the coast and will be living aboard from the beginning of October.

Whilst it's not a "cruising lifestyle" as yet, it's either the beginning of one, or one hell of a mid-life crisis

I plan on living aboard and working full time for a few years, and should be able to save enough to complete my early retirement fund in 5 years when I hope to cast off the mooring lines and travel further afield.

The journey starts next week with a trip from N. Wales to her new berth on the Bristol Channel, then back to work for 3 weeks in Sheffield before starting the new job.

I thought I'd start a new thread so I can look back over time and see how reality matches up to the expectations.
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PostPosted: 11:34 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

All I can think of to say is good luck to you sir! Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 11:34 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just curious, with living abroad...assuming you are going to be using the boat 90% of the time...what happens with post and the like?
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PostPosted: 11:36 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Post will either be delivered to my work address, or to my parents house and I'll pick it up when I visit.
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PostPosted: 11:50 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Best of luck to you and a big thumbs up for grabbing life by the 'nads and doing it your way Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 11:58 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

From living on a canal cruiser, I can say it will be a complete culture shock. It's one thing to take a weeks holiday on a boat, another to live on it.

At the time I did this there was no high speed phone internet and the only communication I had with people was text and speak on a mobile. I had the radio and a small B&W TV.

I felt really really cut off from everyone and used to spend much more time in pubs just to try and have a person to talk to.

I found all really hard, and I'm not a gregarious person by any means. Maybe it would have been better with mobile internet, I don't know.

Summer was bad enough but winter, ffs i was bloody freezing. I either used a fortune in fuel keeping the diesel heater working or a stupid amount of calor gas keeping the stove on to heat the boat.

I'm not trying to put a downer on what you are doing, just telling you how I found it. Good luck and I hope it all goes well for you Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 13:04 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

The boat's pretty well kitted out for liveaboard - it has a diesel heater, shower, TV and xBox. It will be based in a marina with WiFi, showers and a laundry so I'll not be without the comforts of home.
Damp in the winter is the only concern at the moment, but with a dehumidifier running it should take care of things.
I lived on a small cabin cruiser many years ago on the Thames near Oxford and really enjoyed it - winter was hard though especially when the showers freeze up!
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PostPosted: 13:46 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good for you and thanks for sharing! Thumbs Up

Let's face it what's the worse that can happen? You don't enjoy it after a cold winter and decide to do something different again? Like everything, there'll be good days and bad days, but the best bit is you're following your dream and doing something for you with a plan in mind.

It's all too easy to get stuck in a rut and watch life pass you by.
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PostPosted: 13:51 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

What do you need to be able to take your boat anywhere? Say one day you say... OK I'm in Cornwall, I fancy visiting Spain. Then from there saying, South Africa sounds good.

I assume by default a passport but any specific licences etc?
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PostPosted: 14:05 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good luck! Have you got any pics of the boat?
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PostPosted: 14:20 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like a great plan and you have no ties!
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PostPosted: 14:47 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

When will you see your step son?
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PostPosted: 15:05 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

MissEd wrote:
When will you see your step son?


Alternate weekends, either at his house or down on the boat, plus holidays afloat. By the time I'm ready to retire he'll be old enough to decide if he wants to come with.


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PostPosted: 15:06 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Omega wrote:
Good luck! Have you got any pics of the boat?


Will take some more pics next week on the trip down there and update the thread.
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PostPosted: 15:09 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kradmelder wrote:
Sounds like a great plan and you have no ties!


.. though hopefully a mooring rope and an anchor Wink
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PostPosted: 15:25 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

##Paddy## wrote:
What do you need to be able to take your boat anywhere? Say one day you say... OK I'm in Cornwall, I fancy visiting Spain. Then from there saying, South Africa sounds good.

I assume by default a passport but any specific licences etc?


For most of the world (including the UK) you don't need any licenses. For some areas such as the inland waterways in the rest of Europe, an ICC is necessary:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Certificate_of_Competence
Not too difficult to get, I think it costs around £300 to do the course. Will cross that bridge when I need to.
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PostPosted: 15:38 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

SlimRick wrote:
##Paddy## wrote:
What do you need to be able to take your boat anywhere? Say one day you say... OK I'm in Cornwall, I fancy visiting Spain. Then from there saying, South Africa sounds good.

I assume by default a passport but any specific licences etc?


For most of the world (including the UK) you don't need any licenses. For some areas such as the inland waterways in the rest of Europe, an ICC is necessary:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Certificate_of_Competence
Not too difficult to get, I think it costs around £300 to do the course. Will cross that bridge when I need to.


Everyone here going to sea must have a skippers licence. Not sure if that will aplly to a foreigner arriving here. They vary by the distance you are allowed to go offshore.
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PostPosted: 15:51 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Where on the Bristol Channel??
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PostPosted: 16:08 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

SlimRick wrote:
I think it costs around £300 to do the course. Will cross that bridge when I need to.


Or go through it Wink

Ah well, best of luck with it all Thumbs Up Karma
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PostPosted: 16:19 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

SlimRick wrote:
MissEd wrote:
When will you see your step son?


Alternate weekends, either at his house or down on the boat, plus holidays afloat. By the time I'm ready to retire he'll be old enough to decide if he wants to come with.


Ah cool.. No one seemed to give much a thought about the poor lad involved.

It's shit being a mother with a child where men can just come and go as they please. Glad your doing a good thing.
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PostPosted: 18:09 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

mr_fisty wrote:
Where on the Bristol Channel??


Portishead
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PostPosted: 18:12 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

MissEd wrote:

Ah cool.. No one seemed to give much a thought about the poor lad involved.

It's shit being a mother with a child where men can just come and go as they please. Glad your doing a good thing.


No chance of that - he's sailing down with me next week, and knows he's welcome down there whenever he likes. Would have him full time if his mum would let me and his mates wouldn't take the mickey out of him being a sea pikey Very Happy
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PostPosted: 18:46 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

SlimRick wrote:
mr_fisty wrote:
Where on the Bristol Channel??


Portishead


Smile not far from me at all. I can see maina from my house.
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PostPosted: 18:50 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Best of luck Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 18:54 - 28 Aug 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

mr_fisty wrote:

Smile not far from me at all. I can see maina from my house.


Nice! Keep an eye out for Miss Moneypenny arriving next week, and take pity on it's occupants Smile

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