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Misc
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PostPosted: 07:53 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Etiquette Reply with quote

When you're reading a book or watching something on your phone during a lunch break, why do people not have the common sense to see that you are doing so? The amount of people at work who sit next to me at lunch, speak to me even though they've seen headphones and start a Convo before I've even take them out?

I wouldn't interrupt someone reading a book unless it was important, I don't get it.

The other thing is when I'm eating, burping internationally in my direction or yawning without covering your mouth is fucking horrible, and like above, people don't seem to anything wrong with this.


I try to sit alone at lunch as much as possible. Nothing worse than having someone who's loud, leaning on me whilst eating all whilst talking utter nonsense and the getting offended when told not to do so. It makes me look like an uptight cunt as everyone just excepts it.



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PostPosted: 08:06 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

I never cover my mouth when I yawn.
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PostPosted: 08:24 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Re: Etiquette Reply with quote

Misc wrote:
burping internationally


I don't usually pick people up on their spelling but that's brilliant!

It works both ways, I get pretty fed up seeing everyone staring at those things rather than engaging in the real world - you can't blame people for wanting to talk to you either. Maybe they like you!

It's a very new thing, and clear rules of etiquette are just not there.

I find it supremely annoying when speaking to a friend and their phone rings halfway through a conversation - they're like 'hang on' and suddenly you're on hold while fucking stood right there! Sometimes in your own home!
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PostPosted: 08:41 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree. I don't like most people talking to me. I've recently found the best thing to do, is eat in one of the meeting rooms or prayer room!
If someone asks if they can sit with me, I say, yes. But warm them not to talk to me!

Of course, this all depends on who it is!! Wink
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PostPosted: 08:47 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Flatbadger wrote:
Misc wrote:
burping internationally


I don't usually pick people up on their spelling but that's brilliant!

It works both ways, I get pretty fed up seeing everyone staring at those things rather than engaging in the real world - you can't blame people for wanting to talk to you either. Maybe they like you!

It's a very new thing, and clear rules of etiquette are just not there.

I find it supremely annoying when speaking to a friend and their phone rings halfway through a conversation - they're like 'hang on' and suddenly you're on hold while fucking stood right there! Sometimes in your own home!



It's The spell check on the phone, kinda awkward.


The type 'conversations' they have are usually talking about nonsense or taking the piss out of someone, so not exactly engaging.

But the question still remains why someone would happily interrupt someone else who is reading.


I agree about the phone. Especially when someone tries talking to you when they can clearly see your on he phone. A guy at work was trying to give me instructions but was oblivious to the object pressed against my ear. Try that with them, however and they're not so nice about it.

Your example is a good one. Sometimes it just amazes me.
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PostPosted: 08:50 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Get on the pooter and print up a dust jacket for your book with the words 'I WILL FUCK YOU UP IF YOU DISTURB ME AT LUNCHTIME' on it in very large letters.

Let me know how that goes, might try it myself.
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PostPosted: 08:52 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

fatjames wrote:
I agree. I don't like most people talking to me. I've recently found the best thing to do, is eat in one of the meeting rooms or prayer room!
If someone asks if they can sit with me, I say, yes. But warm them not to talk to me!

Of course, this all depends on who it is!! Wink


We only have one canteen here, and it feels like work mates seek me out, even if I'm in the corner. :d at the old job I would just sit in the car, can't think of anything better


yen_powell wrote:
Get on the pooter and print up a dust jacket for your book with the words 'I WILL FUCK YOU UP IF YOU DISTURB ME AT LUNCHTIME' on it in very large letters.

Let me know how that goes, might try it myself.


I feel like it sometimes! Surely the next best thing is having a book in hand, says it all really. Don't disturb me I'm reading. You can't read and have a Convo at the same time.
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PostPosted: 09:46 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Eti...qu...ette? What's that? Thinking
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PostPosted: 12:12 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

On lunch break now, found a table alone whilst everyone was also seated:eating somewhere else.......then they choose to go out of ther way to come over and sit next to me????

I do not understand. I'm not an entertaining type of person, I'm quiet and I sit with headphones in.

I shouldn't get so worked up over something so trivial but it doesn't make any sense. I'm sitting here now and no words have even spoken since they made the move from across the room.
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PostPosted: 12:14 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: 12:24 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a slightly similar problem. Parking.

Drive into a car park, I usually avoid the stramash closest to the stairs, store entrance or whatever the *focus* of the car park is, and stick the car further away in a bit of the car park with loads of empty spaces, on its own. Then I return to the car to find that despite acres of empty spaces, someone has stuck a car in at least one of the spaces directly adjascent to mine, sometimes one on each side.

What's up with that? </Seinfeld>

My car is a recluse, a loner who doesn't want to associate with other cars, but they still stick themselves next to her when she's parked up.
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PostPosted: 13:57 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like you have aspbergers to me...
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PostPosted: 14:22 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Misc wrote:
On lunch break now, found a table alone whilst everyone was also seated:eating somewhere else.......then they choose to go out of ther way to come over and sit next to me????
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Being nice maybe? They probably think your some sort of social recluse...
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PostPosted: 14:32 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

I love chatting with people, providing its interesting. Housewife, soccer mum, soaps, womens stuff etc all counts as boring! Also not particularly interested in hearing about depressing things, I'm quite happy and positive and don't really need the depression karma Wink
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PostPosted: 15:42 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

You sound a bit anti-social to me.

They sound like they are just wanting to be friendly, i would do the same.

Marjay is right, you could have Aspergers.

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Individuals with AS experience difficulties in basic elements of social interaction, which may include a failure to develop friendships or to seek shared enjoyments or achievements with others (for example, showing others objects of interest), a lack of social or emotional reciprocity, and impaired nonverbal behaviors in areas such as eye contact, facial expression, posture, and gesture.

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PostPosted: 20:03 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not everyone who dislikes their co-workers has a medical condition.

I admit that I do chat to my lot on breaks these days, but at a lot of places I just wanted a bit of peace from them on my breaks. In summer this is easy, as you just go for a walk. In winter, you have to find somewhere to go where you can get away from people for a bit.
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PostPosted: 20:11 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

colin1 wrote:
Not everyone who dislikes their co-workers has a medical condition.


I dislike a fair few of my colleges Colin, but i still join in a conversation and be assertive.
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PostPosted: 20:21 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

What is a lunch break?
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PostPosted: 20:22 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

I usually have lunch alone in my car (often en-route to the next client's house). So when I'm at the centre with colleagues to chat to, I will happily natter to them during the course of lunch. Thumbs Up

That said, I don't speak in the mornings (when I'm getting ready for work) so if someone in the house comes down they will invariably get ignored completely. Cool Laughing
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PostPosted: 20:23 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ariel Badger wrote:
What is a lunch break?


Remind me, how many weeks holiday do you have a year ?
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PostPosted: 20:24 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

It annoys me too, used to happen a lot at my old work work, I'd go into the crew room and sit down with my lunch and my book, and most people would respect that you're doing something and not distract you.

I didn't mind a quick "hi, how ya doing?" rhetorical question acknowledgement, but when someone keeps talking, annoying as hell.

Worse was when I was taking a quick nap... if you work 5am-5pm, sometimes even earlier (had to do 3.30am-3.30pm once) you need a bit of shut eye to get through the afternoon. Quite blatantly sleeping, or trying to, and someone sits next to you and tries to strike up a conversation... bloody annoying.
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PostPosted: 20:36 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

stuff like this annoys me too.

my girlfriend does my "favourite" one though. she'll be on the phone to me. we live 200 miles apart, so phonecalls are a lot of our relationship. and when any prick talks to her, she'll not even say "hang on a minute, some wanker is talking to me", she'll just have a full conversation with them.

a) theyre rude as fuck for walking in and starting a conversation with someone who's blatently on the phone.

and b) she's a cock for joining in.

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PostPosted: 20:51 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

angryjonny wrote:


Drive into a car park, I usually avoid the stramash closest to the stairs, store entrance or whatever the *focus* of the car park is, and stick the car further away in a bit of the car park with loads of empty spaces, on its own. Then I return to the car to find that despite acres of empty spaces, someone has stuck a car in at least one of the spaces directly adjascent to mine, sometimes one on each side.



Not only that, but I find they have invariably parked so close that I can't get the fucking doors open to get in - and I know that they have banged their doors against my car because there is not enough room for them to have got out of their car.



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PostPosted: 21:13 - 17 Oct 2012    Post subject: Reply with quote

I went to a leaving do on Sat night. I was the only one that knew no one (well aside my partner and a couple of his male friends).

Only ONE of the girls said hello . the others . nothing.. No - Hi, and only said goodby because I made the effort.

However bad I am feeling.... I'll always make others feel comfortable.
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