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You're doing the correct thing in discussing it. Tell people, talk it over. The 100% worst thing you can do with a potentially traumatic situation is experience it then never re-visit it.
How it affects you will all be down to how you rationalise it.
Dead bodies are totally normal, they are totally rational and are garaunteed to happen. Every person you meet will eventually become one.
Doesn't sound like there was foul play involved from the circumstances you describe so someone who enjoys going out for a walk suddenly drops dead while doing so. There are worse ways to go.
Don't feel bad that you have no emotional response. You didn't know this person. They are outside what The Shaggy D.A. referrs to in his signature as your "monkeysphere". ____________________ “Rule one: Always stick around for one more drink. That's when things happen. That's when you find out everything you want to know.”
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Came across a RTA once where the car had flipped and drivers head had ended up between the asphalt and the top of the right hand window, a mate slid under to check if he was alive but unsuprisingly he was a gonner. Shook us up for a day or so afterwards, I think more because it was sad than anything else. More so when said mates dad who is a paramedic told us that the guy had been speeding home because his wife had phoned up saying their baby had stopped breathing, which it turned out it hadn't stopped breathing after all.
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| J.M. wrote: | | stinkwheel wrote: | They are outside what The Shaggy D.A. referrs to in his signature as your "monkeysphere". |
If you haven't read this yet, read it, it's interesting!
I think that in today's age we're less sensitive to death than a hundred years ago or so. It's everywhere now. We see torture in films like saw, murder in films like halloween and at least 1 dead person in every single cop show on tv... csi... ncis... law and order.
I think that if you saw a body in which you had no emotional attachment to and the body looks to have passed (relatively) peacefully, I think that not having an emotional response to it is almost normal.
The only instance I could really expect an emotional response is if the body died painfully or you witnessed it happen.
Although I've never came across a dead body, so I can't comment on how I would react to verify whether the above is true or not. |
I disagree I think we have become desensitised to violence, but 100 years ago death would have been an everyday occurrence, the average life expectancy was only about 50
Anyway back on topic, when I was doing my work experience I was on my way home, I had to cut through the frenchgate centre in Doncaster to get to the train station, I arrived about 5 minutes after some women had thrown her self off the roof.
There were people there around the body, with phones and they said an ambulance was on the way so I went home.
At work the day after I was mentioning it to one of the blokes I was working with and he said she was a nurse and worked on one of the wards up stairs, that feel a bit weird
I can't say it really had any real effect on me, it wasn't nice to see but shit happens ____________________ "The guy is a worthless cunt and I honestly believe I would be a slightly happier person if he died." - Chris-Red |
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| stinkwheel wrote: | You're doing the correct thing in discussing it. Tell people, talk it over. The 100% worst thing you can do with a potentially traumatic situation is experience it then never re-visit it. |
Say therapists. Double blind study says...?
I've read - on the intardtubes, so you know it's true - that "pull yourself together and think about something else" is far more effective for all but the most extreme, prolonged causes of trauma. Problem is, how do you show it either way? What are you comparing it to, per individual?
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| J.M. wrote: | I think that in today's age we're less sensitive to death than a hundred years ago or so. It's everywhere now. |
I'd argue the opposite, sure we 'see' lots of pretend death on the telly, and the occasional not-to-disturbing-for-public-viewing corpse on the news. I suspect very view of us nowadays actually ever witness a death or view a dead body first hand. To the Victorians it would have been commonplace, watching your own young children die from disease, being at elderly relatives death beds, even the poor dying in the streets and the occasional execution. ____________________ They're coming to take me away, ho-ho, hee-hee, ha-haaa, hey-hey,
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 13 years, 58 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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