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PostPosted: 19:16 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: marriage annulment Reply with quote

wondered how easy it would be to get a marriage annuled, not me Im happy as a pig in shit.

bride is on antibiotics for a bad chest infection and ends up with a really rotten thrush problem which is very common when on antibiotics, sex is out the question until its cleared for obvious reasons.
New husband moans like fuck and goes off to dip his dick in some other woman who since finding out that the bullshit he told her about being divorced etc has given the wife all the evidence she needs to prove that hes commited adultery four weeks into the marriage. Doctor can vouch that the wife was being treated for a very stubborn thrush problem just from the week before the wedding.

I reckon that the non consumation route is pretty cut and dried but having the adultery crap on top means she will get it anulled pretty quickly even though the husband is saying he wont agree.

Am I right? I told her not to spend a fortune on a solicitor without getting decent advice from the CAB first as I dont think she will need a solicitor for this.
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PostPosted: 19:27 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

In here somewhere maybe? https://www.preservearticles.com/2012030224316/everything-you-need-to-know-about-non-consummation-of-marriage.html

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2. Your marriage is defective - ‘voidable’ marriages
You can annul a marriage if:

it wasn’t consummated (you haven’t had sex with the person you married since the wedding)
the other person had a sexually transmitted disease when you got married

from https://www.gov.uk/how-to-annul-marriage/when-you-can-annul-a-marriage

Sounds legit then, especially as she was carrying an STD.... Smile

I now consider myself educated in this, how little I knew Mr. Green
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PostPosted: 19:31 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kind of.

She certainly has grounds for an anullment (non-consumation, the adultery is not a valid voidable although it would be grounds for divorce) but once she's filed the request at court and paid the fee he can still contest it.

Not sure what happens if he does, I assume it would be the same as a divorce from that point with solicitors and much expense involved.
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PostPosted: 19:39 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

thrush isnt an STD sloan Rolling Eyes ive told her to check the internet and seek advice as thats what ive seen yam, all I want is a week free of other peoples drama,

Im sure I have agony aunt tattooed on my forehead that only others can see Confused
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PostPosted: 19:44 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

scorps wrote:
thrush isnt an STD sloan


You are right of course, it's an STI, me and my out of date lingo eh Rolling Eyes https://www.std.co.uk/thrush.html

BTW I was only jesting initially, more to do with the context and the info in the link maybe? Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 19:46 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sload wrote:
scorps wrote:
thrush isnt an STD sloan


You are right of course, it's an STI, me and my out of date lingo eh Rolling Eyes https://www.std.co.uk/thrush.html

BTW I was only jesting initially, more to do with the context and the info in the link maybe? Thumbs Up
Second sentence in that link:
On the subject of thrush, some STD site wrote:
Although not considered a sexually transmitted disease,

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PostPosted: 19:52 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

nowhere.elysium wrote:
Although not considered a sexually transmitted disease,


Hence the "I" for infection, as meaning can be transmitted sexually, good off topic semantics though for a bit of meaningless jest that actually has no point to what she was asking.
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PostPosted: 20:22 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

sounds like a plot from Eastenders or hollyoaks ...
next instalment tomorrow same time ???
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PostPosted: 20:53 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

sod that copycat, i think I shall have a teeshirt that says fuck off im not interested printed on it. I used to think when I was younger, emotional fuckwittery lessened when people got older, alas I was very wrong Doh!

I can not fathom out why people mess with each other so much. I imagine my life must appear very boring to most people.
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PostPosted: 20:54 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

scorps wrote:
thrush isnt an STD


Even if it was, it wouldn't help, since it specifies that the other person must be the one with an STD. So it would be grounds for him to get an annulment, but not her.
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PostPosted: 20:56 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sload wrote:
nowhere.elysium wrote:
Although not considered a sexually transmitted disease,


Hence the "I" for infection, as meaning can be transmitted sexually, good off topic semantics though for a bit of meaningless jest that actually has no point to what she was asking.


I suppose that it could considered that if you look at it like that, sort of like,. I dont want sex darling you may get my thrush and Id hate for you to have an itchy bellend and the desire to relieve the itch with wire wool.

Oh dont worry babe I shall just go and shag someone else in the interim. Thinking
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PostPosted: 21:06 - 21 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

scorps wrote:
i think I shall have a teeshirt that says fuck off im not interested printed on it.


when you mean it .. is when people will stop using you as an emotional suppository.
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PostPosted: 17:24 - 31 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had a yeast infection once after banging a skank with thrush, it looked like my knob had been rolled in couscous.
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PostPosted: 19:59 - 31 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

thats nice Pyro Shocked
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PostPosted: 22:10 - 31 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

What a slime. He can't wait a few weeks before dipping his dick somewhere?

What is on his wrists? Oven mits?

Hope she can divorce him quick. Luckily she learnt what he is quick
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PostPosted: 22:39 - 31 May 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pyro. wrote:
I had a yeast infection once after banging a skank with thrush, it looked like my knob had been rolled in couscous.


Pics at all?
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PostPosted: 05:04 - 01 Jun 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why do people get married?

It all seems so funny. You take something that's nice and simple and works well, and then get the legal system involved.

In all other areas of life people try to avoid law enforcement at all costs.
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PostPosted: 22:29 - 01 Jun 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

Derivative wrote:
Why do people get married?

It all seems so funny. You take something that's nice and simple and works well, and then get the legal system involved.

In all other areas of life people try to avoid law enforcement at all costs.


Just living together gets the legal system involved.

Kick her out after 5.5 months, you should be ok.
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PostPosted: 22:30 - 01 Jun 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

My wife just read this, grabbed my bollocks and said 'SCREAM'
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PostPosted: 14:07 - 02 Jun 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

Polarbear wrote:
Just living together gets the legal system involved.

Kick her out after 5.5 months, you should be ok.


Could you clarify on this?

I could be mistaken but the only relevant parts I could think of would be eligibility for out of work benefits, which are only hugely relevant if you have little savings.
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PostPosted: 14:10 - 02 Jun 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

Polarbear wrote:

Just living together gets the legal system involved.

Kick her out after 5.5 months, you should be ok.


Common law marriage is a myth, the only thing it affects is household income for benefit calculations.

Derivative wrote:
Why do people get married?

It all seems so funny. You take something that's nice and simple and works well, and then get the legal system involved.

In all other areas of life people try to avoid law enforcement at all costs.


Agreed today there is no real reason to get married other than being able to access info and make decisions about the other person should they be incapacitated or die


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PostPosted: 14:28 - 02 Jun 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

In Australia, living with someone as if married for longer than 6 months gave you pretty much the legal status of marriage. Was actually known as a common law marriage. Separation from something like that carried all the legal ramifications of a divorce, but the process could be more complicated if either party made it so.

To my mind, marriage isn't about getting the legal system involved, it's about formally declaring a commitment to another person. The law being involved in that is part of the formality - any formal commitment demands ramifications of you break that commitment. Firmly believe religion has no place being involved any more though.
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PostPosted: 14:32 - 02 Jun 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

Spudly wrote:
The law being involved in that is part of the formality - any formal commitment demands ramifications of you break that commitment.



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Except it isn't a contract, as there needs to be negotiation and specific performance to break it.

The fact that men get taken to the cleaners in every divorce means there are enormous ramifications if a MAN gets divorced and huge REWARDS to women who divorce
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PostPosted: 15:14 - 02 Jun 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

Spudly wrote:
To my mind, marriage isn't about getting the legal system involved, it's about formally declaring a commitment to another person. The law being involved in that is part of the formality - any formal commitment demands ramifications of you break that commitment.


The difference between 'a formal commitment' and 'getting the legal system involved' is purely semantic.

You're enforcing a relationship based on penalties upon withdrawal. I just don't see the appeal. It seems entirely set up to encourage negative behaviour.

Have an affair and not married? There's the door, out you go (or equivalently, out I go).
Have an affair and married? Awful lot of hassle, decisions about who will benefit financially.

Rather than 'we are a loving couple', it becomes 'we have to be a loving couple or it's the courts'. It seems terribly adversarial to me.
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PostPosted: 15:56 - 02 Jun 2013    Post subject: Reply with quote

Spudly wrote:
To my mind, marriage isn't about getting the legal system involved, it's about formally declaring a commitment to another person.


It really isn't though is it, that is the romanticised crap that is fed into you from childhood, especially the ladies.

That is not what marriage is really about and it isnt where it came from. What it has actually become is a bit abhorrent, just follow the £££s.
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