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PostPosted: 14:01 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Looking after friends dog Reply with quote

Long story short - agreed to look after a friends dog as he can't keep it at his place full time.

Fecking thing is pissing me off. The thing never chills out - it's always jumping up at me or the missus and never sits down. Whenever I open a door it's just standing there waiting to play/jump at me. It's an Akita - 7 months. So medium/big but still playful and stupid and needy. Plus it's on heat.

Not sure what advice I'm asking for - just feel I need to rant, last night it was left unattended and it destroyed everything it could get in the hallway and shat pissed. fair enough since it was new years and unattended, but still annoying

p.s. Live in a 1 bed flat, no garden.
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PostPosted: 14:26 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Erm why agree to look after a dog when you live in a place hardly suitable for it, and then hate it and leave it to shit and piss everywhere. Sounds more like a case of you committing animal cruelty to me. If your mate doesn't want it full time, and you don't want it either, give it to the RSPCA or something. Middle Finger
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PostPosted: 14:38 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

That dog needs to go somewhere where it's welcome and can be given the attention and training that it needs.

I'm sure you already know this.
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PostPosted: 15:15 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

If it's jumping up, just turn your back on it and say in a low voice 'no' or 'down'

eventually you'll get through to it.

you're giving no attention to behaviour you don't want.
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PostPosted: 15:22 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

How long are you supposed to be looking after it for. If it's more than a few weeks I don't think its going to work
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PostPosted: 15:38 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

7 month old Akita in a 1 bed flat! Good luck with that. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 15:40 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Akita, 1 bed flat, no garden. How often are you walking that beast?

It is a dog I've always wanted... a lot of effort to look after, but loyal as hell.
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PostPosted: 15:42 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

How many times are you walking it and what kind of training are you doing with it?

You wanna knacker the fucking thing out, physically and mentally otherwise it is going to go batshit mental and wreck your flat/life.

I feel you have probably made a serious error.
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PostPosted: 16:29 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's only a week - this morning I took it out for a walk and then got my bike and cycled around the local park a bit to give it a nice run - and take it out when I go to the shops etc.

It's only for a week - But a sleep deprived hungover me couldn't deal with it this morning haha. (thb the poor thing probably shit itself at midnight with fireworks etc)

The thing is I really like the look and the idea of having this breed myself, but am aware that it's really not the right match for me - even if I did live somewhere bigger.
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PostPosted: 17:31 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Walk the hell out of it until it calms down Thumbs Up

Going to be a long week Wink
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PostPosted: 17:33 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

open wrote:
(thb the poor thing probably shit itself at midnight with fireworks etc)


Left alone in a completely new place with no safe area to hide in and no company, and then loud scary noises all around it - it was probably stressed to fuck. Wouldn't be surprised if it never gets over it, I wouldn't want to be the fosterer or adopter that ends up with it after it inevitably goes through rescue in the near future.
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PostPosted: 21:25 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

if its not yours and your not overly bothered about it go to pets at home and buy the calming tablets or drops (cant remember name). They are basically mild tranqs your supposed to give them before long car journeys or on bonfire night to chill em out. We had to give our jack russell them years ago at fireworks night because she would literally piss all over the house and bark / yelp all night - no amount of "fussing" or petting would distract her from it, tranqs were great she layed on her bed watching tv and came over for the odd pet and buggered off back to bed haha
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PostPosted: 21:41 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

gavcarter wrote:
she would literally piss all over the house and bark / yelp all night - no amount of "fussing" or petting would distract her from it


Fussing and petting reinforces the fear, it's the worst thing to do to a frightened dog (except, maybe, giving it tranquilisers Rolling Eyes ).
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PostPosted: 21:53 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

tbourner wrote:
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she would literally piss all over the house and bark / yelp all night - no amount of "fussing" or petting would distract her from it


Fussing and petting reinforces the fear, it's the worst thing to do to a frightened dog (except, maybe, giving it tranquilisers Rolling Eyes ).


She kept running to us looking to hide, we just tried to re-assure her then put her back on the floor, the stuff we give her was similar to this https://www.petsathome.com/shop/homeopet-dog-anxiety-relief-15ml-by-the-company-of-animals-26856 wasnt something i got from the shady bloke in the corner of the pub lol
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PostPosted: 22:34 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

You can get that spray Feliway for cats, there must be a dog equivalent...ask at the local pet shop or vets and see if you can get something (a plug-in, or spray) to calm the dog down.

It's a very young dog in a strange situation, it's gonna have teething problems. A week won't be enough time to iron them out. Imagine how you'd feel aged 7, suddenly being at the mercy of some stranger and his strange place...not understanding what happened. Now give a little empathy to that poor pooch.
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PostPosted: 22:35 - 01 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

gavcarter wrote:
She kept running to us looking to hide, we just tried to re-assure her then put her back on the floor, the stuff we give her was similar to this https://www.petsathome.com/shop/homeopet-dog-anxiety-relief-15ml-by-the-company-of-animals-26856 wasnt something i got from the shady bloke in the corner of the pub lol

They run to you looking for reassurance yes, but canids don't have any understanding of comforting one another, so the owner stroking, fussing, making cooey noises as you would to a child isn't understood, in fact it's assumed by the dog that you're scared because of the way you're acting, so the master is scared that makes the dog even more scared! The best way to reassure the dog is to act normal and ignore them completely, tell them off if they jump up/paw etc. but otherwise lead by example, any fuss you make just reinforces their anxiety.
I've heard of those anxiety diffusers before actually, never felt the need to use one on our 2 or any of our foster dogs though.
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PostPosted: 01:20 - 02 Jan 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

You've got the equivalent of an inquisitive kid full of energy.
As others have suggested for the dogs and your sake, if you can't or don't want to put the time in (and the owner obviously isn't that bothered), it might be best to see if someone that can and does will look after the dog.

There's is absolutely loads of stuff about training dogs online - generally Caesar Milan is looked down on and current thinking doesn't like dominating/punishment, so may be best to avoid people advocating such.

Oh and of course, New Year's Eve with fireworks and the like may not be great.

J4mes wrote:

You wanna knacker the fucking thing out, physically and mentally otherwise it is going to go batshit mental and wreck your flat/life.

Youn need to be careful - often giving young dogs of larger breeds the sort of exercise they WANT can damage various bits of the body, causing serious problems later in life.
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PostPosted: 15:28 - 10 Jun 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey guys just to let ppl know.


I still have this bloody dog. However I got into a routine pretty quick and am fully in love with the bitch!

Owner basically can't take her back and I can't keep her forever (as much as I would like too).

If anyone is interested in owning the friendliest Japanese akita ever, PM me if serious. Looking for a new home for her. I would be lying by saying that getting rid of her wouldn't hurt haha.

She is a girl, just over a year old and not been spayed.

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PostPosted: 15:51 - 10 Jun 2014    Post subject: Re: Looking after friends dog Reply with quote

open wrote:

Fecking thing is pissing me off. The thing never chills out - it's always jumping up at me or the missus and never sits down. It's an Akita - 7 months… Playful and stupid and needy. Plus it's on heat.

Last night it was left unattended and it destroyed everything it could get in the hallway and shat pissed.


open wrote:
If anyone is interested in owning the friendliest Japanese akita ever, PM me if serious. Looking for a new home for her. I would be lying by saying that getting rid of her wouldn't hurt haha.


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PostPosted: 16:13 - 10 Jun 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

IIRC Cartman's dog training program is super effective to sort out dog behaviour. pic related


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PostPosted: 18:09 - 10 Jun 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: 19:09 - 10 Jun 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Meef wrote:
IIRC Cartman's dog training program is super effective to sort out dog behaviour. pic related

Paddy, of course, is the expert Wink.
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PostPosted: 21:29 - 10 Jun 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

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