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Added some pretty crucial advice if he wants to reach the last step ____________________ I'm autistic. That means I'm smarter than you. |
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Lord Percy wrote: | When I'm nervous I drink my way through it. As long as I'm 'doing something' I feel a little less insecure, like the fact that I'm drinking means that I don't feel awkward about any silences, because at least I still have a drink to sip at, so at least I can have that action on my mind so I don't feel like a total antisocial type.
Maybe she's the same? Bask in her nervousness, it means she likes you. |
The whole thing is interesting. As I said, she's an even bigger geek and introvert than I am. I am very nervous and shy around new people, but if I find we have common topics to discuss I tend to relax quickly. This hasn't happened yet for her. I think she thinks I'm out of her league, and so all demonstrations of affection have to be initiated by me. Arm around her, holding hands, a kiss, I have to make the move but then it's like the switch has been flipped and it's okay for her (from her perspective) to reciprocate with all the pent up energy she has.
It just makes for an awkward nervousness that I am beginning to sense more of. Wanting to go further again on Thursday night but again needing me to make the move. Openly admitting she has a crush (what are we, 10?) on me via text.
Last night I was on my way home and felt bored and so texted her to see if she felt like maybe picking up where we left off on Thursday, now that we didn't have to worry about going to work tomorrow. She said yes, she felt like doing something but was too tired to get in her car and drive over. To be fair, it was 10:30pm, but I think she's kicking herself for overdoing the booze on Thursday because she apologized or rebuffed herself several times for it. ____________________ Previous: 2002 Honda CB500 (sold), 2007 Suzuki SV650SK6 (crashed), 2005 Yamaha FZ6 Fazer (sold). Currently bikeless
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When I was on POF my headline was, "Mr Left", to make up for all the girls whose profiles said "Looking for Mr Right".
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Anybody willing to post a first message they usually send that isn't cheesy or awkward? After long I'll probably end up slagging off the site and agreeing with everyone else on here |
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I usually either comment or ask a question about something in their profile... if nothing jumps out, I just ask if they are having a good week so far and what they're looking forward to on the weekend.
I likewise get no responses, even from women who have viewed me and clicked the "want to meet" option on whichever site it is, or that I have a high level of compatibility/shared interests with.
Only if they message you first do you seem to stand much chance, in my experience.
I enjoy sending someone a nice, personalised message and seeing "StupidFuckingCow78 viewed your profile" a few moments later... and then nothing else. I can almost hear the snorts of derision when they see the likes of me *dared* speak to them! ____________________ Previous: 2002 Honda CB500 (sold), 2007 Suzuki SV650SK6 (crashed), 2005 Yamaha FZ6 Fazer (sold). Currently bikeless
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Going for a kiss in a bit! It appears to be the right moment...we shall see how it goes...
Well it didn't go too badly...however I'm still on the sofa...
Friend zoned again I think .
Back on POF tomorrow! ____________________ Snow rider wrote: I'm far to annoying to be near for long periods of time |
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Has this actually worked for anyone all that has happened so far with a couple that have replied is hardly any words in the reply yet they still reply |
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nathandennison wrote: | Has this actually worked for anyone all that has happened so far with a couple that have replied is hardly any words in the reply yet they still reply |
Yeah, it's like extracting blood from a stone with some girls on there. When I start getting short replies, I just take it that they're not really interested and move on. You will (might) eventually get talking to someone who actually puts effort into replying and shows some interest. Don't get stuck sending endless messages though, they'll lose interest when you don't ask them out.
Of course, every girl is different, some want dozens of messages and ages of talking before you try and ask them out. Others will give you their number after a few and expect to be asked out soon. That's up to you to work out.
I have actually met some really nice girls on there, a couple ended up being girlfriends who I saw for a number of months. Last girl I dated was in December, but I kind of lost interest. Haven't been out with anyone since and deleted my account a month or so ago.
Keep at it, it can work, but it certainly takes a bit of effort, a lot of disappointment and a lot of hope, haha! |
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https://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=71635715
"My most recent ex, as you would call it, was a keen motorcyclist, so any hunks out there with a motorcyclist, you do have the upper hand wink wink "
Might be of some interest to someone, haha |
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JFK wrote: | Going for a kiss in a bit! It appears to be the right moment...we shall see how it goes...
Well it didn't go too badly...however I'm still on the sofa...
Friend zoned again I think .
Back on POF tomorrow! |
Er? You went in for a kiss and it 'didn't go too badly' but you're friendzoned? Only in exceptional circumstances does the friendzone include snogs, so which is it? ____________________ Previous: 2002 Honda CB500 (sold), 2007 Suzuki SV650SK6 (crashed), 2005 Yamaha FZ6 Fazer (sold). Currently bikeless
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 10 years, 87 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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