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Stalk
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PostPosted: 17:14 - 22 May 2014    Post subject: For all you parents.... Reply with quote

..... that sick feeling you get when the phone rings and a stranger tells you that they have just picked your child up and have called an ambulance.

Daughter threw her ped down the road due to a combination of late braking, wet roads, and some nice rainbow pattens leading up to the junction, a low speed lowside. Ambulance attended, broken finger and bruises to leg. Police turned up, breathalyser. Bike OK, Got her to ride home so she did not loose her confidence.

Scared me, and I will admit to getting a bit tearful, as its my kid after all

Just thought I would share
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PostPosted: 17:16 - 22 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've woken up with my parents in tears after being put into a coma for 3 days.

I don't know how they felt, but I did ask about getting another bike Laughing

Hope she is ok mate Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 17:19 - 22 May 2014    Post subject: Re: For all you parents.... Reply with quote

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Daughter threw her ped down the road... Ambulance attended, broken finger and bruises to leg... Bike OK, Got her to ride home so she did not loose her confidence.


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PostPosted: 17:46 - 22 May 2014    Post subject: Re: For all you parents.... Reply with quote

Az wrote:
Stalk wrote:
Daughter threw her ped down the road... Ambulance attended, broken finger and bruises to leg... Bike OK, Got her to ride home so she did not loose her confidence.


https://www.spacetimestudios.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=61101&d=1391703729


Could have been her left hand? Smile
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Stalk
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PostPosted: 17:46 - 22 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, that does sound a bit harsh, but it was not like that, I asked her if she was ok to get the bike home, and she was fine with it. It would have been easy to chuck it in the back of the van if needed.

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PostPosted: 17:50 - 22 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stalk wrote:
I asked her if she was ok to get the bike home, and she was fine with it.


She's 'arder than Fisty and Pyro then. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 18:46 - 22 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Glad she is not so hurt that she cannot still ride, important to get "back on the horse" before it becomes something of a bigger deal than it really is.

A friend of a friend had a slow low side on a roundabout the day before going on holiday, then came back a month later and didn't go out on the bike for another few months whilst getting it fixed up. Finished sorting it and checked it was running, but didn't take it out for another couple of months. Before he realised, it had become quite a big psychological deal. Had the bike been ride-home-able he'd probably have jumped back on and nothing more of it.


Not a parent myself so can't begin to imagine the worry of receiving a phone call like that. My parents used to get really worried if I went out with friends and just didn't call or text them to let them know the plans had changed and I'd be back home later than planned. And they must have known the chances of something being wrong were very slim just because I hadn't called. So actually getting a call from someone telling you something is wrong, that must be pretty rough.
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PostPosted: 19:33 - 22 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

When I first had a ped 22 odd years ago we didn't have a phone at home. Phones were only just becoming a viable portable device if you had big enough pockets and tbh I rarely went home at the weekends from the age of 15 so it would have been a fair while before my mother knew if anything had happened to me.

I can't imagine not being in signal range these days!.
Getting her back on was the best way. I do it with my kid and the horses. Keeps em confident and I'm pretty sure it doesn't hurt much if you don't make a fuss!
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PostPosted: 19:41 - 22 May 2014    Post subject: Re: For all you parents.... Reply with quote

Stalk wrote:
Daughter

X-rays or GTFO.
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PostPosted: 08:00 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

good shout on encouraging her to ride home. My sister fell off a push bike years ago and has never got on a bike since.....
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PostPosted: 08:06 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Re: For all you parents.... Reply with quote

Stalk wrote:
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broken finger and bruises to leg. Got her to ride home so she did not loose her confidence.



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PostPosted: 08:12 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

woo yay etc that she didn't have to go in the amberlamps.

Hate to think what went through my parents minds when the police turned up on their doorsteps to tell them I was in hospital after a crash. At least they didn't find out until later why a family liaison officer had been assigned. Shits me up thinking about it ten years after the event. Neutral
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PostPosted: 08:59 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Re: For all you parents.... Reply with quote

Az wrote:
Stalk wrote:
Daughter threw her ped down the road... Ambulance attended, broken finger and bruises to leg... Bike OK, Got her to ride home so she did not loose her confidence.



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PostPosted: 09:04 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know the feeling.little one fell down some steps once.face all covered in blood.so I rush her to hospital only to find out it just a bit of blood been smeared from a little scratch. Embarassed .
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PostPosted: 09:12 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

And people wonder why A&E is always really busy!
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PostPosted: 11:38 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ste wrote:
And people wonder why A&E is always really busy!


"85% of patients who visited A&E were there appropriately"


Although that is down to the healthcare infrastructure and not the patients themselves.
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PostPosted: 12:26 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Re: For all you parents.... Reply with quote

Rogerborg wrote:
Stalk wrote:
Daughter

X-rays or GTFO.

Laughing

Same thing a couple of months back with my lad (posted in spill counter 2014), stranger called after picking him up.

Went up with the van, chucked the bike in the back, lad in the front and off to A&E.

HE wanted to ride home from there after being given the all clear on breaks (apart from nose), but the bike needed a check out first and he needed a new lid, but back on it the following day after big bro gave the bike the thumbs up and nicking my lid for an hour.

Personally, I think it does them good to have a slow speed off at some point (as long as injuries are minimal and confidence does not take a kicking), just to show them that they are not invincible and pain is a direct product of falling off, makes them better and more careful riders IMHO (awaits slating for that comment)
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PostPosted: 12:47 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Had this last year when a stranger called & told me that my mrs had a car crash & the ambulance was on its way !!!

It was all OK after a couple of days in hospital, but you sh1t yourself at the time..
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PostPosted: 13:26 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

without sounding 'orrible, i think id does people good to have small "off" (as someone else said)

obviously nothing that damages them too much, a bruise or something is enough....

it slowed me down in my car after my crash - an i use to drive like it was stolen

hope everything is ok Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 13:35 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

My youngest daughter does stunt riding on horses, rides motorbikes and is an adrenaline junkie. Just about anything goes. Shocked

I got specialist insurance for her incase the worst happens but I would never try and stop her doing what she wants because a) she's 20 and b) she would hate me for it.
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PostPosted: 14:43 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

mudcow007 wrote:
without sounding 'orrible, i think id does people good to have small "off" (as someone else said)

obviously nothing that damages them too much, a bruise or something is enough....

it slowed me down in my car after my crash - an i use to drive like it was stolen

hope everything is ok Thumbs Up


Not sure I'd agree necessarily with that. I suppose it depends what caused the off...

If it was because they were being less than careful, or even reckless, then maybe a bruised body and ego will sharpen them up for the future.
The number of people I hear of having small offs though tend to have a great many of them... one person I know hit double figures of crashes in less than a year. Doesn't seem to be doing them any good.


Got a friend who races though, and he said after his first "off" on track he had much more confidence because he knew what it felt like to crash, and that it hurt, but not for long, and didn't injure him, and so he was less scared of crashing after that. Meant he was more comfortable trying to ride at the limit.
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PostPosted: 14:56 - 23 May 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Polarbear wrote:
My youngest daughter does stunt riding on horses, rides motorbikes and is an adrenaline junkie. Just about anything goes. Shocked


Where do you draw the line Shifty
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