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| Eddie Hitler |
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 Posted: 18:55 - 25 Oct 2016 Post subject: Could use some advice from the wise.. |
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After a difficult year suffering various setbacks I'm starting to get my shit sorted. I'm at a crossroads and could use some wisdom from anybody who's had the same scenario.
I'm going to do a tldr version straight off the bat, partly because I'm on my mobile and my coffee is getting cold on my 4 hour journey.
I have an option of taking a "well paid" (by my standards) job in my hometown. I'd start on 25k, with the likelihood of it reaching 45k+ in the next couple of years. With this I can finally buy my house, treat myself more than I ever have been able to, be comfortable. Also in this economy I feel like I'd be mad to pass it up.
On the other hand I'm currently taking an access to university course. I've always been pissed off with myself for not pushing myself with my education, as I know I'm not thick. I'm 27, an old codger by uni standards. I'm in a relationship but not married or with kids. In my mind I'd like to go down the construction route, either management/surveying or even training as an architectural technician. This will consume four years, along with the debt. Plus side is being in a new city, new.people and sights, and broadening my mind.
It's almost a 50/50 decision. Money, security and the availability of going where I'd like during my time off, versus adventure, learning, new people and an ambition fulfilled.
Anyones input would be greatly appreciated
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| dydey90 |
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| Itchy |
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What is the job you're thinking about? If it is a job where once you leave your job is over or is it a job that you likely have to put in extra time (almost certainly unpaid). A thing that killed me in accountancy was I was paid from 9-5 but I found myself taking work home and still doing it at 9pm on a regular basis.
What killed me even more is at 9pm I would start studying for my accountancy exams.
I'd consider a third option. Do both do the day job and do your studies part time.
Or ask about the university time tables. Way way way back my university time table crammed all the lectures onto Monday and Tuesday. I managed to keep a full time job (two jobs) while studying.
Similarly when I did my masters degrees they happily spread it over 18 months and 6pm-9.30pm Monday and Tuesday allowing me to keep a full and part time job on the side too.
Granted doing it part time will quite easily stretch your degree to 6 maybe 7 years but in the end you have the best of both. Working so little to no debt and work experience AND a degree. So you get the best of both worlds. The weakest link in grads today is many don't do sandwich years and get work experience. ____________________ Spain 2008France 2007Big one 2009 We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will. In the end, your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it is worth watching. |
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| drzsta |
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| Rogerborg |
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31, saddled with loads of debt, and competing against new grads? No thanks, I'd leave that one to Percy.
Take the job, and immediately start looking for better one. The three big lies: the cheque's in the post, I won't jizz in your mouth, and we have a well defined career path. ____________________ Biking is 1/20th as dangerous as horse riding.
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| Chinaboy |
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I would take the job too, bit of a no brainer.  |
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Take the job and study in your own time if you want a change. Architectural Technicians can earn a decent whack if self-employed with an established client-base plus a network of other specialists on hand. Work for somebody else and you'll never see 45k doing that...
Land surveyors seem to be ten-a-penny at the moment round our way (West Yorkshire). The price of a typical 'topo' is around £200, which isn't good money when you consider that it takes two people, expensive kit, annual software upgrades and transport to do.
If you are keen on the surveying route I'd suggest Building Surveying as a better option - you need less kit and can charge more for your time.
Like all professions, it isn't just about passing a course at College - experience and contacts are essential so you may find that you have to work for somebody else for a few years before you begin to earn a decent wage... ____________________ Now - Speed Triple, old ratty GS550, GSXR750M
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| Lord Percy |
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If the job genuinely has the chance of progressing to 45k, I'd go for it. Seems like a potentially tall promise though. Before I started the uni thing I'd have even taken a job at 25k if it seemed like it had potential and was genuinely appealing to me. I took the uni option because it seemed more fruitful long term and partly because I deep down knew I was capable of learning and understanding the world of complex tech/sciencey things (rather than the customer service dogsbody shit I was used to) so I wanted a stab at it. Still in the 'gambling' stage right now as I haven't graduated but I have a feeling it'll pay off - even if earnings aren't higher, I'll be able to go for jobs that are much more appealing to me, hence better life.
In short:
Pros:
- opens up more opportunities
- if learning is your thing, then learning you shall do - "broadening the mind"
Cons:
- no guarantee of better life
- going into it at quite a late age (I'm 28 now, have one or two more years left but desperately want to start adulting again)
On the very much pro-university choice, I'll give you my dad's anecdote:
Worked his way up in the world of accounting and finance for a textile business, early 80s sort of time where he just did his job and was good at it. The sort of stuff all the naysayers talk about now - "You don't need education, just be good at your job!" - so that's what my dad did, and quite well. I think at best he was earning just short of 40k in the mid-90s, where at the time he was aged mid to late 30s. Then around 2001 his employer went bust and he was booted out. His lack of qualification meant he couldn't get back into a job and it was all the new students, accounting/finance grads etc who were beating him to most positions. I was early-mid teens at the time and saw our family go from middle class to living without heating for two or three winters, having to sell the house, downsize and rent a place instead, all money eaten up, desperate times until my gran died and the sale of her house paid for my parents to get themselves one again. My dad only just found stable secure work again in the last couple of years. Before that he was desperately on whatever he could find, doing odd consultant stuff here and there, even lowered his expectations considerably and was going for shop worker positions and stuff not at all related to his profession, which he was always rejected for because they knew full well that he would take flight if something more suited to him came along.
If only he'd got himself the bits of paper to prove he could do what he did!
I suppose this isn't as such a thing about university specifically, but more about getting qualified. Experience counts, but not always, and my dad learned that the hard way.
So I'd say the weigh up is between two things: The amount you truly think you can securely get out of this job long term, and the amount of broadening/foundations you could gain from the university route. |
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Take the job and do the degree through the O.U
27 is too old to be a full time student. The children will point and stare and this will make you sad.  ____________________ Current bike - 2018 H2-SX, 2004 SV1000s, 2016 Aprilia RSV4 RF, 2017 Sherco SERF 300, 2003 Suzuki DRZ400 (stolen - AY53 JUU) |
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27 is too old to be a full time student. The children will point and stare and this will make you sad.  |
My experience says otherwise, there were various courses with students of various ages, oldest in my course was early 50's. but I guess not all unis were the same.
But as a mature student, you've got different priorities.So who cares what the children think?
I wanted a first, and chose to build my contact base with those who appeared to be likely to do well after uni (I.e also getting firsts and who had similar level s of drive and determination) I was very selective and selfish who I would work with and socialise with on the above basis,
Admittedly, this probably led to a smaller social circle (especially as I was commuting), however it's no coincidence that all of that social circle picked up good opportunities (working for leading companies such as Rolls Royce, Intel, Airbus, Coca Cola as examples) with good prospects.
Retrospectively, going for a job in London would likely have been a more prudent financial decision, but I like the south west! ____________________ DanceLikeAMonkey says: "An infinte amount of web pages available
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 9 years, 132 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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