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joe g
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PostPosted: 09:16 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: How would you deal with this? Reply with quote
So someone my partner knows sent her a dick pic. Fair enough the first time, this shit happens plus he didn’t know about me. She told him she wasn’t interested and that she was with me and not to do it again. Few hours later, he’s sending videos of himself.
So do I:
1. Tell his wife
2. Punch him
3. Blackmail him
4. Put a brick through his window

Any other ideas?
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notbike
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PostPosted: 09:20 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Why didn't your partner block him after he sent the first dick pic?

Sounds like you need to have a chat with her.
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Ste
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PostPosted: 09:23 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Bombard him with nobcat.jpg for starters.
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arry
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PostPosted: 09:35 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Re: How would you deal with this? Reply with quote
joe g wrote:

Any other ideas?


All of your ideas centre on him and not her. Are you sure your anger / outrage / vulnerability is coming all from his actions and not in some way linked to her?

My idea would be to think through carefully the answer to that question. Someone my partner knows is too vague to draw inference on why the relationship would have built up to a stage where a random bloke feels comfortable enough sending her things like that. Ask yourself the question why he felt that comfortable.
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joe g
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PostPosted: 09:40 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Meef wrote:
Why didn't your partner block him after he sent the first dick pic?

Sounds like you need to have a chat with her.


Because they had been friends since childhood, she gave him the benefit of the doubt, told him how inappropriate it was etc you would think he’d understand. He has a wife and kid but no, so now he is blocked and I want to make him regret it.
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Riejufixing
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PostPosted: 09:51 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Re: How would you deal with this? Reply with quote
joe g wrote:
do I:
1. Tell his wife
2. Punch him
3. Blackmail him
4. Put a brick through his window
Any other ideas?

1) Yes. If he's doing this she has a right to know.
2) If it comes to it.
3) No.
4) No.

Publicise it.
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Riejufixing
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PostPosted: 09:52 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Meef wrote:
Why didn't your partner block him after he sent the first dick pic?

Sounds like you need to have a chat with her.

She told him about it. That's good. Had he not, that would not have been good. People like this chap need to be dealt with.
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Ste
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PostPosted: 10:11 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
joe g wrote:
He has a wife and kid but no, so now he is blocked and I want to make him regret it.

I think that you know what to do with the videos if you're feeling vengeful...
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PostPosted: 10:25 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Its not the wife and kid's fault. Have a word the bloke, but leave the family out of it...
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PostPosted: 10:29 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Re: How would you deal with this? Reply with quote
Riejufixing wrote:


Publicise it.


That would do it. Tell him any further content he sends will be treated as having permission to upload for public viewing and tagging on his social media streams.

However it should be her, not you doing the telling. You should only need to step in if it's getting out of control. Mature adult women are generally very good at dealing with this kind of thing if it's unwanted. Replying to a dick pic with a "little pinky" gesture pic is generally enough.
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PostPosted: 10:35 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Re: How would you deal with this? Reply with quote
joe g wrote:
Fair enough the first time, this shit happens plus he didn’t know about me.

Out of interest, does anyone know if this has this ever actually been successful as a courtship strategy in the entire history of the internet?

(Asking for a friend, obvs.)
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PostPosted: 10:43 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Re: How would you deal with this? Reply with quote
joe g wrote:
So someone my partner knows sent her a dick pic. Fair enough the first time, this shit happens plus he didn’t know about me. She told him she wasn’t interested and that she was with me and not to do it again. Few hours later, he’s sending videos of himself.
So do I:
1. Tell his wife
2. Punch him
3. Blackmail him
4. Put a brick through his window

Any other ideas?


Forward Pic and Video to his wife, let her sort it out.
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wr6133
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PostPosted: 10:48 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
2 & 4

1 if he then rats you to old bill.
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gbrand42
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PostPosted: 10:52 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Send him a pic of a ladyboy from the waist down in return. That should curb his enthusiasm (hopefully!)
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Nobby the Bastard
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PostPosted: 10:58 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Get your wife to send a picture of your dick to him.
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Tracey Suntan-King
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PostPosted: 11:22 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
I'd have a quiet word with him and say , "You do know a normal penis doesn't look like that right? Go see a doctor. It's only going to get worse and probably drop off, but cheers for the lols." Very Happy

Don't publicise or forward the pic, that's revenge porn, you go to jail.

Oh and BCF, the default position is to NOT blame the victim/recipient. Why do you guys even do that? Rolling Eyes
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PostPosted: 11:28 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Send it to your mates then get them to send it his wife, and see if she shows him and if he recognises it or she might Laughing
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PostPosted: 11:33 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
I'd send to his partner because if hes sending to one, hes sending to another and thats not kosher in a relationship.
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PostPosted: 11:40 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Paddy. wrote:
I'd send to his partner because if hes sending to one, hes sending to another and thats not kosher in a relationship.


Depends on the relationship, his wife might be cool with it. Lots of people have open relationships these days.

Then again it might not be.

It's also an offence for him to be sending unwanted sexual images too.
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Riejufixing
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PostPosted: 11:44 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Tracey Suntan-King wrote:
Oh and BCF, the default position is to NOT blame the victim/recipient. Why do you guys even do that? Rolling Eyes

I agree with that. She did tell the OP too rather than connive. There's also another victim, this bloke's wife. At this stage, it's possible that she may be able to deal with what he did and stop it happening again. If nothing is done, it allows him to get away with it unnoticed, and likely try the same or more elsewhere, with results that will eventually be known, which could be worse. Give her a chance to help & be helped too.
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PostPosted: 11:51 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Nobby the Bastard wrote:
Get your wife to send a picture of your dick to him.


That sounds like something my wife would do Laughing

I do wonder if women spend their time in coffee shops laughing at dick pics they've been sent... "oh you think that's small? check this out!"

Sort of like Top Trumps in reverse Smile
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PostPosted: 12:18 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Easy-X wrote:


Sort of like Top Trumps in reverse Smile


No, that would be a farting competition... Laughing
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PostPosted: 12:23 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Did she save it to her wank bank for later?
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PostPosted: 12:24 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Easy-X wrote:

I do wonder if women spend their time in coffee shops laughing at dick pics they've been sent... "oh you think that's small? check this out!"

Laughing

Damn, I need to find new girlie friends who do this.
I just delete all dick pics
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PostPosted: 12:30 - 08 Jul 2020    Post subject: Reply with quote
Riejufixing wrote:
[There's also another victim, this bloke's wife. At this stage, it's possible that she may be able to deal with what he did and stop it happening again.


Yes BUT ... you do not know anything about the wife and her emotional make-up/strength.

She may be devastated even by that, thus ruining her self confidence as well as her marriage (for better or worse) ... it would seem to be more humane to deal with the perpetrator and see whether the scare of having someone pull him up about that behaviour is enough to stop him, or at least give him something to think about, rather than run to his wife with tales at this juncture and potentially destroy her emotional wellbeing.
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