Im such a pratt!

[Marcg868]

Done something majorly stupid last night a gf's party, could tell it was going to be one of those awful days starting at football getting thrown out for excessive swearing

Then got to gf's & Sisters party, all was fine up untill 11, gf kept dissappearing, so went to look for her and go bog see her with brothers mate, fort fair enough! she dint even let on to me when i walked by, not a problem too busy talking i thought. goes bog, comes back up, still talking, doesnt let onto me again, goes sits down talks to her bro, she comes back, so does he, he starts sitting nearer to her now. She dissappears again, he follows 2 mins later. Goes looking again, same thing happens talking at bar but this time his hand is on her arse ! So this really annys me, i didnt say a word, but a shouldnt of done what i did next, gets into bog, and punch the nearest thing i see, being a window!

Oh lovely lots of bloody and skin

Then im in a fould mood, wi her she's being all nicey nicey etc, and she keeps asking whats up so i tell her and starts crying.

You reckon i should of controlled myself a bit better, or instead of cracking a window cracked him?
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[Skunkcap Freddie]

probably been a better idea to wait for him to go home before you wacked him.

[White Noise]

should of told him to get his hand off her arse and asked her what she was playing at.
WN
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[ash t]

Yep, it would have been better wasting your energy on him rather than a window mate. Are things OK now between you and your Missus?
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[Handsome]

I can understand your reaction in the given situation, but it would have been easier to have asked them both at the time you saw it 'What's going on, anything I should know about'.

At least then you could have seen if they were lieing and he would have gotten the message.

Deal with situations as they arise, it gives less chance for lies and bullshit and the thoughts in your head that screw you up.
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[RickHolt]

Yea the window probably wasn't the brightest idea. Hitting him would have been better, but just walking away is usually best I think. If he knew you was going out with her, you should maybe sort him out because he's taking the piss out of you, but the problem is with the girl not him.

Had sort of similar problems recently, would have loved to have caught the guy directly and taken it out on him, but it was my girlfriend I was more dissapointed with. Got over it though and she shouldn't be seeing him at all again.

Rick.

[J.K.R]

Been in a few teeth gritting situations, I find picturing what you want to do takes away the actual need to do it

Supress your anger
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[nrml76]

It takes 2 to tango. If she did not fend him off, she must have been enjoying the attention.

[Flip]

[Marcg868]

Its just constand hardwork this relationship! Im in two minds what to do, yes i love her, and i thought she loved me, but really not sure now

When i questioned her later about it, she said he kept coming talking to her, and she was being friendly, i admit i was being stubbourn with her when she tried explaining her side. And she kept saying she loves me and crying on me.

But why let some lad stroke your arse? he knew i was with her, and had the cheek to go "ARITE MATE" it was only a 1 second brush, but he knew damn well i was with her.

And to be honest, she's taking the piss she wont even come and explain things now, she's going out in Manchester!!!! Obviously doesnt love me that much eh?!
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[RickHolt]

Go with her to Manchester. Have fun. If she makes some stupid excuse as to why you can't go, dump her, go to Manchester anyway and find someone new

It's all win/win.

Rick.

[Marcg868]

Nar i cant, last time i did that, we argued again, because she thought i didnt trust her! And if she wants this relationship, she can come to my end for once in a fucking while! Sick of having to treck up Manchester from Bolton allt time! She says she trys what a load of pish!

Its a oki relationship, nothing more! I see her 2wice a week which i find rather pathetic and so do alot of other people! 2wice a week, she only lives 10 miles away!
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[RickHolt]

Where abouts in Manchester does she go to/live? You should come down for a BCF night out, we can just happen to bump into her

Naa shouldn't be encouraging the spying, if it's got that bad you should be thinking about getting rid of her.

Come down to Manchester for a night still though? Do you know the area quite well?

Rick.

[Marcg868]

She lives in Blackely, and she's going out round Anal Street tonight (Gay Village) id happiley come out for a few pints if you mean tonight???
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[RickHolt]

If she's out around that area I wouldn't worry too much. Mostly decent guys/girls around there.

I can't tonight (early start tomorrow, second week of new job, don't want to be turning up rough), but either next weekend or I've got plans to be in town just after valentines day? Could maybe get a few BCFers together.

Gay village is a great night out if you've not been there before Some things you might not want to see if you go in the wrong places but at least it's relaxed and has much less trouble.

Rick.

[White Noise]

[Marcg868]

[RickHolt]

Heh should be going to fifth ave just after valentines day. Everyone goes on about how good it is, I have my doubts.

I'm 20 too.

Rick.

[yambabe]

[Marcg868]

I wouldnt call it living together! id say it was more i used to sleep at hers because it was easy for me to get to work. But now i just live back home in Bolton with Mum n her bf.
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[The View Askew]

I would have asked him what in the name of something rude was going on. if he tried any monkey business, pound his face. simple.
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[Marcg868]

I wouldnt call it living together! id say it was more i used to sleep at hers because it was easy for me to get to work. But now i just live back home in Bolton with Mum n her bf.
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[gammamanuk]

Happy days, of being young, of going to a party with your bird and coming home without her and with sore knuckles, only to wake up next morning and feeling such a prick, what it is to be young.

IT will get worse, trust me

[The View Askew]

[Marcg868]

Ill be fine, had worse in my life just going to be stubbourn now. Im not apologising, ive not done anything wrong!
She wants to be with me and loves me, she can contact me!
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