Marriage

[killa]

So I’m watching TV with Liz and on some comedy show or something a women made reference to the no blow jobs after marriage, so I asked her, “Will I still get them if we marry?” she said “Of course hun, I like it” kool

Working in an office you come across all types of people, many of which I must say seem dreadfully unhappy with their marriages, one guy gets phone calls from his wife a lot, from what I hear she is a bit strange and these phone calls are to check up on him, at fuc*ing work!!. He was having a conversation with his mate next to him saying that he feel he is only with her because of the two kids! That’s horrible!
Out of seven guys in the drawing office 4 are married one is divorced and the other 2 are with partners, they all seem really miserable about their relationships especially the ones still married, talking about their wives and how annoyed they get at home.
Most of them say “You wait till your married boy” or something to that effect to me, older guys have explained many things to me I didn’t want to believe and now I’m older I see they were right in some ways.
IMO I am very different to this lot, my dreams, goals and way my of life. They are older generation and I doubt many of them were like me when they were younger. I hope when I marry it won’t go pear shaped like these examples but some things just pan out like this….

Thoughts?
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[Walloper]

1) Partner??? Is that not for gays? I would say Wife, Girlfriend, Burd etc. That's used to appear PC. Pish. if you ask me. You asked.

2) The checking wife maybe loves her husband dearly and can't show him any other way or thinks he doesn't love her as much/at all.

3) Getting married. Great party. guaranteed sex. ( ). And a pal around all the time. Tip CHOOSE WISELY AND TAKE CARE OF eachother.
What do you need to know?

Cool about your girl. I like her already
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[HerbalDayZ]

Blow job after the wedding ? i wish i got one bloody befor it .Altho i spose i accepted that beings the misses is a size 8 pretty little thing an more clever then ill ever emagine to be .So missing out on the sucky sucky doesn't really compare to what i have gained .

Altho theres allways a £49 flight to holland that can sort my needs .

I been engaged for 2 years now an its finding the £££ to get married she wants the dress the church the cars etc etc .To which i actualy find very pointless .Buy a £500 dress for 1 day makes sence "Not" church also very pointless as neither of us beleave in god .An i also dont agree with having to pay to use a church .

Isnt it christian to be married befor children sex blah blah .An theres the church trying to rip us off for hundreds just to do the "Right thing".

I am not against being married but ide rather pay a priest to come to some where an marry us outside on a lovely hot day .At some kind of mantion in a garden for example ,..

If my misses rang me constantly ide change my mobile number .I seriously dont know how he can put up with that .Thats why only i have a mobile in my name on contract .If she goes out i let her take it but apart from that im sure the number isnt even in our phone book .
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[owdamer]

[HerbalDayZ]

An how do you know she hasn't agreed ?

Jumping to conclusions shes very happy i would say gets showerd with gifts taken out all the time an has everything she needs .

i mena you don't know me was a comment from me .If i said i could allways cheat on her then maybe what you say has fair point .A man has needs an if she doesnt want to do it what makes you think she wouldnt agree to the above ?
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[carlnicholson...]

I've been engaged for 4 years, and I'm marrying her on the 22nd of July.

And no, she doesn't like blow jobs.

As time goes by in a relationship, you learn to accept more about each other, that's what I've found anyway. This is probably due to the fact that you learn more about each other all the time. Sometimes it can get shit if you just aren't getting along but this is nearly always due to neither of you making an effort.

Every now and again, this happens to us, and the Mrs will mention it. I then realise I've not been making an effort and normal, happy service presumes.

You have to have EVERYTHING out in the open. It's when one of you hold something inside, and the other person knows that it gets shitty. Just make a vow to yourselves to always be open to each other. Or at least learn to become a really good liar!!!!!

You just have to really get to know each other, and be able to speak openly with each other and life will be bliss.
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"THOSE WHO RISK NOTHING, DO NOTHING, ACHIEVE NOTHING, BECOME NOTHING."

[Mary Jane]

You know... I never liked giving BJs until I met my fiance. he's the only man I've ever wanted to do that with...not just wanted to, but actually enjoyed it.

And I fully intend to keep it up once we've been hitched.

[carlnicholson...]

Unfortunatley, I dont have that effect on my fiancee.

Should that be telling me something?
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"THOSE WHO RISK NOTHING, DO NOTHING, ACHIEVE NOTHING, BECOME NOTHING."

[lozzypop1]

so.... what about all the women stuck with blokes that can't get it up any more???

oh and...

[TL666]

I call it being pussy struck. A lot of men marry the first thing that shows them a bit of attention.
Sad really. I know loads that don't have anything in common with their wives and can't wait to get to the pub to be away from them.
Your wife should be your best mate. If not your not going to be happy for very long.

[xlizx]

I don't see why some women see giving head as such a big deal. I mean, so long as it's CLEAN, what's the problem?
Pfeh. And I bet these women expect oral sex from their partner too. Damn feminists

[HerbalDayZ]

[lozzypop1]

[HerbalDayZ]

Ha ha ha yea well funny aint you ..Loz you problem ? have i ever made comment to you or towards you ?.

But then ay your welsh what can be expected .
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[lozzypop1]

not maybe directly towards me.... but still...

hey what can i say? i'm only welsh
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[HerbalDayZ]

As i said ill allow it as you come from a very lonely place .

I mean wales can become very strange an lonely to some .They need to reach out make themselfs noticed !!

Just dont say you come from some where like monmouth wales or brecon beacons please ..
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my sepllnig is bad i udnretsand taht so i aolpisge.
dys?lex?i?a (A learning disorder marked by impairment of the ability to recognize and comprehend written words.dyslexia (impaired ability to learn to read)

[lozzypop1]

nope about 1/2 way in between
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Funny, I used to hate being spanked as a child!
Tell me and I'll forget; show me and I may remember; involve me and I'll understand.

[HerbalDayZ]

Ah its jsut i have family in both so i feel i can make the comments i did ...

Wow see we can be civil
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my sepllnig is bad i udnretsand taht so i aolpisge.
dys?lex?i?a (A learning disorder marked by impairment of the ability to recognize and comprehend written words.dyslexia (impaired ability to learn to read)

[lozzypop1]

who's being fucking civil you jumped up wank puddle ???
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Funny, I used to hate being spanked as a child!
Tell me and I'll forget; show me and I may remember; involve me and I'll understand.

[Reevo8]

Blokes at work keep having a whinge about the married life too!

So I asked the question the other day and only 2 are recently married they are quite happy. All of the 5 years plus people seem fairly pissed off!
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[Fortuna]

My girlfriend enjoys giving head, and she swallows!

[Walloper]

[tokarev]

I remember talking about blow jobs with my mates back in sixth form...as you do ... then one of them said "But then she is going to kiss your children with those lips that have been sucking cock".

I had a laugh at the time but it does seem a bit nasty when you think of it that way!

[Walloper]

Just like if you are 'last on' with a girl who is 'popular'. You'll get an idea wot most of your mate's cocks tastes like. yukky
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[HerbalDayZ]