Now my boyfriend just broke up with me :(

[bindy]

Hello all,

After I wrote the stupid letter to my boyfriend asking him for more time he got all stressed and the next day said that he couldnt give me what I wanted and that he was always studying for school, and that I should be with someone else and all this shit. Then I said can we have a break for two weeks to sort out how he really feels and he said yes, but I cant stop being sad. I dont understand why this always happens to me! I try really hard, im pretty and not fat, my boobs arent awful, im nice, and its NEVER good enough.

[NSR Mick]

How much is more time, how much time where you spending together and how long have you been seeing him?
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[innominate]

Unfortunate.


You will know a good relationship when it happens, as niether of you will have to work at it.


Let them come to you, the least effort expended finding one, leads to the best relationships in the long run.


Imho, of course.
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[RobB]

[akaDAVE]

If his best excuse was that he was 'studying for school' then he must be a genuinely sad bastad. Better off rid of him.
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[Sparky]

At last good news!!!!!

i hate it when idiots like that treat women bad, this is good news im telling ya. It will be hard at first but you WILL get over him and eventually when your ready, you will meet a spot on lad who will love ya to bits! and you will look back on these posts and think how right we all were telling you your better off rid of him.
You wont believe how bad youve been treated "love is blind"


Good luck in finding a new fella! ah the fun you will have now! ha ha
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*Who ever said nothing is impossible never tried slamming a revolving door!*

[Zimbo]

Sounds like it's the best thing could have happened Bindy, go and find yourself someone who'll treat you better, you're worth more than that.

[G]

As has been explained to me before in relation to various people, especially as far as relationships go, not being able to have something makes you want it all the more.

This trait has led to an awful lot of human misery, I suspect.

As you've often complained about the way your relationship was, look at this as an opportunity rather than the lack of one .

[shellshock]

[DucatiEVO]

Don't think of it like you're losing someone, think of it that you're making room for someone better!
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[msgander]

best off out of it, tho it hurts now, put it down to experience, when you get alarm bells in another relationship about someone being a bit distant, you'll be out before you get hurt....

Dont look for someone, the right person will just turn up one day, and look after you and make you feel worth the person you really are.

Dont be too down, this guy obviously wasnt good enough for you, dont ever accept second best for yourself, blokes like that are not worth it.
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[spitfire]

[flat spot]

[Retro-Man]

Tend to agree with Shellshock, your trying too hard.


relax, take some time out, come to realise your own self worth and sure enough someone will come along that values you more than this guy has done.



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[ZRX61]

As I posted in the other thread, he wasn't your "boyfriend" at all, he was just a fuck buddy... & as others have said a bit of a sad twat as well.
At least now you don't have that shithead fucking with you.

I'm also thinking we need proof of these alledged "not bad" boobs you claim to have hidden up yer blouse.

Stop "trying" so bloody hard.



& get them pics posted FFS.

[colin1]

In the other thread, you mentioned this ultimatum letter.

You made it sound like that you wanted things to change or you were going to end it.

I dont think anyone thought he was going to change so Im surprised that you are now surprised and upset when he has ended it, because surely thats what you wanted if he didnt do things the way you wanted.

If you didnt want to end it you shouldnt have done the ultimatum letter.

You need to decided if you can learn to accept the way it has been, or if you want to move on. If you now realise that you love him more than you realised, maybe you should go back on your ultimatum and try to undo the damage your letter did and get back what you had.
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[lozzypop1]

[xlizx]

I'm sure you're much better without him. Men can be real pigs sometimes. Go out and find someone nice, don't jump straight in there and give it all away, get to know him and then see if he's the guy for you. I've made too many mistakes in the past jumping feet first into something that wasn't the 'real thing', and you just end up trying to compensate and make up for something that was never right in the first place. Need someone to chat to, just PM me, I like givning advice...can't vouch that it's 'good' or what people necessarily want to hear, but thought I'd offer anyway