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PostPosted: 16:53 - 05 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Is it so impossible to accept that a 19 year old might actually want to go out and have a laugh?

I made a good go of it, and we had some very hard times, but i just realised i missed going out with the optimism of something fun happening, and the ability to talk to girls without thinking you were being a cunt.
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PostPosted: 20:37 - 05 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

babyyam wrote:
You need to think like a woman.


Piece of piss.

Rule 1: The bloke is always in the wrong.

End of rules.
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PostPosted: 21:32 - 05 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

bazza wrote:
babyyam wrote:
You need to think like a woman.


Piece of piss.

Rule 1: The bloke is always in the wrong.

End of rules.


Surely its think without any logic or accountability.

Damn emotional bints.
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PostPosted: 18:44 - 06 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

ooh babyyam is sooo on form this weekend. Very Happy
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PostPosted: 21:17 - 06 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

No, Babyyam is just old and has teenage/twenties sons (3 of) to advise on relationship problems on a regular basis! Wink

'spose I should be flattered that they can talk to me really huh? Laughing
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PostPosted: 21:31 - 06 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

babyyam wrote:
No, Babyyam is just old and has teenage/twenties sons (3 of) to advise on relationship problems on a regular basis! Wink

'spose I should be flattered that they can talk to me really huh? Laughing


Yeh. Im glad there are people like you on here who dont just take the piss but actually offer real world advice.

There are also some very soppy shites on here whose advice is frankly, laughable.

Well, i made the fun error of linking hazel to this in a slightly heated conversation. Pretty sure the worry about how to let her know to back off without losing her as a mate has been made well and truly redundant.

The only thing still annoying me is she thinks im a cock for breaking up and then (and bare in mind i waited till i got home before doing any shenanigans) having casual one nighters with a few girls back home (who id already slept with might i add) so meant nothing.

Then shes suddenly decided (after telling me she loved me earlier this week) that she should get back in the game. By going forth and looking for a bf. I really dont know why it bothers me so much but it does.

I guess its just becoming abundantly clear that whilst i did loathe the commitment and eggshell walking, i really liked being with her.

See kiddies, this is why we avoid relationships like the plague. No good ever comes of them in the end. And you're just left feeling like you've just been torturing kittens in a childrens playground.

See i can understand her mates hating me now, but why the hating of me before id even done something wrong? I know im a bitter cunt, but how the hell does that logic work?
A relationship doesnt work, bloke ends it as amicably as possible, bloke becomes kitten torturer.

Oh well, fuck it. Im used to the kitten torturer image anyway.

Like i say, this is why i dont believe in optimism. Everything goes very very wrong.

Life is a wheel. Feel free to rise up on my spokes says the wheel, but dont complain when you get cast back down. Good times pass but so do the bad. Mutability is our tragedy, but it is also our hope.
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PostPosted: 21:35 - 06 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Then shes suddenly decided (after telling me she loved me earlier this week) that she should get back in the game. By going forth and looking for a bf. I really dont know why it bothers me so much but it does.

Seem's you both confused each other and are both perhaps unsure as to where you would have liked it to go. From what I've read you should be trying to work out what you want more than what a partner want's, seem's your working through this in your own slightly haphazard way.

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See kiddies, this is why we avoid relationships like the plague. No good ever comes of them in the end. And you're just left feeling like you've just been torturing kittens in a childrens playground.

You admitted yourself you rather enjoyed the situation of being in a relationship, the trick is then perhaps how to continue the relationship with someone where the end does not appear.
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PostPosted: 21:44 - 06 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Reuben wrote:

You admitted yourself you rather enjoyed the situation of being in a relationship, the trick is then perhaps how to continue the relationship with someone where the end does not appear.


Like i say, she was (is) perfect for me.

Just not right now.

Now i want to go out, get drunk, and get ugly sweaty bunny sex off random girls.

It pleases me.

And you are right, i did enjoy it. For a time. She admitted herself that when i started seeming more distant she got more clingy and it was a vicious cycle. I was getting distant as i missed my space i guess.

Ive always got on with girls better then guys, and when you ARE behaving, it gets somewhat irksome to keep dealing with the raised eyebrows whenever you mention a girl mates name.

Maybe in a year or two. I think its actually a genetic thing. Some guys do relationships (as do their brothers), some dont.
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PostPosted: 23:08 - 06 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

bonny_ricardo wrote:
[See i can understand her mates hating me now, but why the hating of me before id even done something wrong?


Womens intuition? Laughing
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PostPosted: 02:22 - 07 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

babyyam wrote:
bonny_ricardo wrote:
[See i can understand her mates hating me now, but why the hating of me before id even done something wrong?


Womens intuition? Laughing


Whats with the sudden oxymoronic statements love Laughing
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PostPosted: 04:29 - 07 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

girl logic is non-rational but it does make sense. you just cant reason with it

for example

a girl will row with you over one thing, but actually she is annoyed with you about something else that she is either not aware of, or that she doesnt want to mention. The irritation of this other thing will make her annoyed with you, so she will apparently over react to other triggers.

Your mistake is to dispute the reaction to the triggers, when its the underlying situation which is what she is rowing with you about or raising eyebrows or whatever.

do not ever try to reason with a girl. it is pointless. Either placate them, or dont placate them.
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PostPosted: 11:18 - 07 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I read this that you took this girl off a guy, who treated her badly because he only spent a fiver on her present.
you then realised you didnt want a relationship and dumped her, only to then realise your mistake.


now you are regretting what has happened. thats karma mate, and just maybe you will stop treating woman with no respect.


I doubt it, but it does give you an insight in to how some of your 'conquests' have felt in the past Karma
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PostPosted: 16:15 - 07 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

kwaker6r wrote:
I read this that you took this girl off a guy, who treated her badly because he only spent a fiver on her present.
you then realised you didnt want a relationship and dumped her, only to then realise your mistake.


now you are regretting what has happened. thats karma mate, and just maybe you will stop treating woman with no respect.


I doubt it, but it does give you an insight in to how some of your 'conquests' have felt in the past Karma


Not really. When i say took. I mean showed her what a complete cretin he was and how unhappy she was with him. The guy didnt even let her go out for her 21st Neutral

Even without me shes better on her own, and she knows that now.

Christ sake shes never enjoyed sex before me either (Sounds like bragging but its true).

It scares me that guys like him still exist in this day and age Neutral
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PostPosted: 15:41 - 09 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

PUNCH HER TITS

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PostPosted: 22:13 - 09 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

bonny_ricardo wrote:
he got her a pool simulator, pre-owned, still with the preowned £5 label attached for HER BIRTHDAY!


That was hilarious! A pool simulator! Thanks for that Bonny. Can't offer much advice I'm afraid, but I'm a true believer in 'honesty is the best policy'. I think maybe you should tell her that.
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PostPosted: 22:19 - 09 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Evans wrote:
bonny_ricardo wrote:
he got her a pool simulator, pre-owned, still with the preowned £5 label attached for HER BIRTHDAY!


That was hilarious! A pool simulator! Thanks for that Bonny. Can't offer much advice I'm afraid.


I must admit, i have a list of things to take the piss out of him the length of my arm, and that pretty much sums up the whole thing in a nutshell.

Anyway, things are getting a bit interesting with hazel, so im playing it abit by ear now.
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PostPosted: 04:52 - 10 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

ok he got her lousy presents, but he didnt break her heart
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PostPosted: 08:50 - 10 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some random advice.

"Three's a crowd" is a teeny-bopper attitude. Unless you plan to suck face in public all night then surely more the merrier - you're all mates having a laugh. Making nights out with your girlfriends exclusive sends a very strong message that YOU are defining the parameters of an exclusive relationship. So putting up with their mates and invite yours out too (she's probably feel she's 'putting up' with them too), is healthy.

You're not good at arguments if you think it's a matter of "winning" them. That's more of a dictatorship than a relationship. So what? well, this attracts needy, clingy women. Very Happy
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PostPosted: 13:57 - 13 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

God damn I miss being 15.

She sounds like my last fuckbuddy. Keep well away. Mental stability is not present.

Keep shagging around, it seems to suit you and you enjoy it. Settle down into a relationship when you find a girl worth settling down into a relationship with.

And spend more time with the midget, midgets are more fun. Is it a japanese midget?
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PostPosted: 19:59 - 13 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well im back out with her Shifty

Under the proviso when she annoys me im going to be incredibly blunt.

Seems to be working so far.
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PostPosted: 01:48 - 14 May 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

im not sure this is gonna make u a very nice person
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PostPosted: 03:33 - 16 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just as a matter of interest, that lasted until i came home for summer.

Just incase anyone had bets on it or something.
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