The side lets me down.

[craigie b]

[MementoMori]

Well, thanks a lot for all your replies so far, they've all been pretty interesting and most have restored my faith in the strength of men and women these days, although I do generally spend time with people my age who don't have the same insight as older people.

[colin1]

im not sure this is the right forum if people talking crudely disgusts you.

if a thread has not work safe or NWS on it, dont look, you will be horrified and appalled

and if you are a female and post a pic of yourself, people will discuss whether or not they would do you. those who like you may express it crudely, and those who think your appearance is not to their taste will be even worse

and even the females will have no sympathy for you if you get upset (poor bindy just wanted a bit of reassurance after being dumped)
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[MementoMori]

[Cookie!]

[craigie b]

I've been considering this thread for a day or so and there was somethng bothering me which I couldn;t quite put my finger on so I didn;t bother trying incase I was misunderstood. But here goes.....

[nrml76]

[Sephiroth]

I'll third it.

[zaknafien]

Fourthed.
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[colin1]

i dont think there is any reason to assume that skinny birds arent real or are stupid and cant hold a conversation.

However I did make this daft assumption with someone on a course I was on. Even tho I thought she was slightly unpleasantly anorexic, she was great to talk to and clever. So I felt an idiot for assuming without thinking about it. I only realised my mistake quite late on in the course tho.
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[zaknafien]

Just like to add so there's no confusion I'm not agreeing with the stupid bit I'm agreeing with curves being far better than skin and bones.

Nothing worse than seeing ribs.
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[lozzypop1]

[colin1]

i dont mind ribs, but thighes which seemed to be thinner than my arms were a bit disturbing.

Im probably exaggerating but you get the idea.
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[craigie b]

The ethiopian look does nothing for me

[anders]

[xlizx]

But some girls can't help being skinny though! Just because a girl is thin doesn't mean she's anorexic or starves herself, or whatnot. I'm a size 6, my waist is 24 inches, and I eat more than my bloke does. I used to have eating contests at all-you-can-eats with my friends, don't anymore because I don't have time
I get infuriated by people assuming a thin girl is a self abuser who makes herself throw up and that. I used to be in a class of larger people, all girls bar one, and all they talked about was the diets they were on and how they were going...then it was 'what diet are YOU on, Liz? Oh wait, you don't need to, because you're thin already!'. People can be so spiteful, and it seems to be larger people who obsess over their weight rather than skinnies.
Looks does't always mean there's nothing in your head...I'd rather be known for being intelligent and good at what I study than being attractive, looks only last a few years then you get saggy or fat, and wrinkles set in....unless I get senile dementia and start doing loopy things that is

[WavyGravy]

I've yet to meet a woman who is 100% happy with her body, very few allow you to leave the light on during fun stuff! lol

There are beautiful thin women and stunning larger women, thank goodness that in the real (non advertising) world there are men who appreciate all types. As a man, to limit myself to those that had immediate 'wow' factor would mean a much less rewarding life, far more interesting than their looks is their reaction on knowing my dining room is full of bikes!
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[anders]

[colin1]

[colin1]

[WavyGravy]

[senna_f4]

Just my 2 ,

Adverts/media rarely represents reality.

In real life dominance depends more on dependence; for instance

1. If you & boyfriend go for a meal/drink if you always buy 50% of all times, expect equal powers, buy like 0% and generally you loose your say, overdependence, like to your parents for example(when a kid).

2. Same thing for rents, school fees for kids, etc 50%/50% is the best way out if you want equal footing, otherwise in real life people will gain dominace from dependence.

All men have different taste in women and vice versa, for instance I dont like any woman, but a broad likes of my taste is;

1. Not Fat or too thin.

2. I HATE piercings, a sure turn off for me (one pair of earings looks OK to me) all the lip stuff etc disgusts me. (I find people like that imature)

3. At least as intelligent as me.

4. looks aren't the most important thing but I wouldn't minda girl who looked like this,
https://www.vidasworld.com/

5. Character, you can have all this, but if you aren't understanding, forgiving person, I would despise the person, that is my own self.

6. Ability to give and take

the list goes on.

Like I said, the looks arents number one, but the person (character) is in any long term relationship.

I am sure every one here would have a differnt taste

What I say is go and live life as you like it.

DON'T let anyone take away the best part of you in order to conform to their beliefs, that is be yourself and hope for the best.

Hope it helps
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[colin1]

[Flip]

*Scratches sack and wanders off to get another beer*

[Reevo8]