Venting required...

Banned · World Chat Champion Joined: 29 Jun 2009 Karma :

i dont think players and liers have the sensitivety or can be bothered to post like the op has.....

steve

Mummyxxx · L Plate Warrior Joined: 23 Jul 2009 Karma :

I was only goin to post one message, simply for information purposes, but I thought I'd just say that yeah, i was INCREDIBLY stupid and naive- insanely so. I REALLY should have trusted my instincts and totally stayed away from the guy, but when you're in a situation, it is totally different from looking in from the outside. This guy played me from day one, he's studied psychology, and knows exactly how to control someone. i was vulnerable and gullible, and because of this, I have done the worst thing imaginable, and that is to put my children at risk.
I doubt I will ever forgive myself, and will spend the rest of my life trying to make it up to the kids.

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Mummyxxx · L Plate Warrior Joined: 23 Jul 2009 Karma :

Yeah. As you guys can PLAINLY see, even after partly admitting his guilt, he STILL can't tell the entire truth.
I have been advised by my solicitor not to have any more contact with Dave, even though i need vital information from him...
Like I said, as you can see, it makes no sense whatsoever that Dave has stopped all the bills etc. when he has no bills to pay!
It's crazy, but not as we know it.

Banned · World Chat Champion Joined: 29 Jun 2009 Karma :

pathectic thread now, cant be assed with it attall.....

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ncrn · World Chat Champion Joined: 24 May 2006 Karma :

This is why I will never post anything massively personal on this website, it seems far to likely to blow up in ones face as shown here Laughing

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Howling TerrorOutOfOffice · Super Spammer Joined: 05 Dec 2008 Karma :

This thread is sad in more ways than one.

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Howling TerrorOutOfOffice · Super Spammer Joined: 05 Dec 2008 Karma :

Following on from Monkeypie..If you can keep the CSA out of it then all the better.

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Mummyxxx · L Plate Warrior Joined: 23 Jul 2009 Karma :

Well, that would be the best option, but as you've prob noticed, Dave wants to make this as hard as he possibly can for us, cutting off bills when he has no need to, after (See his original post) he said he would not do that for the kids sake.
I went to Dave's work today, just to inform them what had REALLY been goin on..
Just to let you guys know, on a positive note, the kids & i have had the best evening together that I can remember.
We sat down to eat together (Dave would never do this as he refused to eat any veg or salad, so I had to cook a separate meal, or he'd just eat crisps on the sofa).
I talked to all the kids individually about their day, even though we'd been together the whole time, and we laughed for 2 solid hours, listened to music, and read stories.
Even my Daughter, who's taking this the worst, couldn't stop laughing Very Happy

st3v3 · Super Spammer Joined: 16 Oct 2006 Karma :

Mummyxxx, I think you are taking things out of all proportion here; My family has recently been torn completely apart by a series of unfortunate events which nobody in it could control or rectify, I honestly don't think a slight breach of trust like this warrants you sayong you have such emotional scarring and general distress and it's not you seem too concerned about the/any effect on the kids; IMO - Get a grip. Karma

Dave(technophobe) I don't understand why women say some stuff, twist the truth but fuck man, grow a pair and stick up for what's right. If yo ho's are lying get them put straight and don't have your name dragged the mud unnecessarily. Rolling Eyes

L - maybe you aren't helping the situation, you may be the 'new best friend' but it doesn't appear as though you have much right being too involved here, lot's of shit was going on before you were involved so I'd be keeping my contact/involvement to a minimum.

Bearing in mind I'm assuming there may be some truth to this thread. Confused

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Clanger · Stirrer Joined: 27 May 2004 Karma :

I can't believe this thread has held my attention all the way through...what an epic adventure, it's like reading a book...I'll log on later to read the next chapter...

The 'He said she said...bullshit'...pass the popcorn Bonny Laughing

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J0Al1 · World Chat Champion Joined: 25 Nov 2006 Karma :

Flip · Super Spammer Joined: 28 Feb 2004 Karma :

This thread would have really livened up the welsh section. Sad

Mummyxxx · L Plate Warrior Joined: 23 Jul 2009 Karma :

Wow!, I'm amazed to come home & find that Dave hasn't posted anything new or tried to change anything on here. (He's now staying with his Dad so he can use him for his computer).

This, hopefully, will be my last post on here Very Happy

People sayin for me to 'put things in perspective', well yeah, are there situations worse than this to be in? Of course there are! No matter what, there's always someone worse off somewhere; BUT, to say, that 3 young kids, having to suddenly loose a parent (remember here that you guys have only seen a small part of what he's said/done), then them finding out that he's not even a good person- on top of that, he's cutting off their potential electricity, tv and phone, and possibly causing them to loose their house, when he has no need to do that, with their Mum not being able to give then proper attention to make up for any of this, as she needs to deal with the after-math, police and social aervices, is NOT a small tragedy, is totally insane!

Will we survive? Yes! Course we will, will it affect the rest of our lives? Totally.

There a LOT of questions I would LOVE to ask Dave

-Do you REALLY have a bad back? You always REFUSED to see a doctor about it..

-Did your Dad REALLY hit you & throw you down the stairs when you were a kid?

-Were all your ex's complete psychos??

But, as you will know, there would be absolutely NO POINT since he's admited to both L and I that he's a compulsive liar..

Telling L not to get involved, when it was actually Dave's choice to GET her involved, is a little ridiculous tbh - I'm just glad she found out sooner rather than later.

If Dave stays on this site, then i wish you guys all the luck in the world with him (and all the other potential sites he could be on, under any username - now I know why he has multiple e mail addys, and why he uses Baph or Baphomet, which is another name for the Devil).

Howling TerrorOutOfOffice · Super Spammer Joined: 05 Dec 2008 Karma :

Ooo i just had to step in 'ere.

@Mummyxxx You will be better off without him, but so will he.
Quit this pointless slagging.
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Mummyxxx · L Plate Warrior Joined: 23 Jul 2009 Karma :

We didn't start the fire.

st3v3 · Super Spammer Joined: 16 Oct 2006 Karma :

As a grown women, give up the childish remarks.

You need to work to sort this out for the kids. It's an unfortunate situation not a tragedy FFS.

The KIDS are the VICTIMS here; stop fucking around shouting/arguing and resolve this for them. Rolling Eyes

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Mummyxxx · L Plate Warrior Joined: 23 Jul 2009 Karma :

Sorry, but HAVE to reply to that one.- actually, it's Dave who got her involved and kids aren't stupid, I'm not goin to defend him after what he's done (All I've been able to do is put it in as nice a way as possible) I've just told the youngest one that 'Daddy's gone on holiday'. Remember, he did all this himself, he knew FULL WELL he'd loose his family if I got to read any of the things he'd been putting!

Anyway, back to lookin after my kids & puttin our lives back together.

bacon · World Chat Champion Joined: 09 Jan 2009 Karma :

my mum would tell me and my bros that my dad didnt love us because hes with his whore...

i was 13 and i told her she was talking shit and she shouldnt say things to upset my younger brothers because i thought i was mature enough to take it.

The mother (or father for that matter) should never try to make their children hate the other, its sick and fucks you up in the head. believe me from personal experience so i hope you arent saying things like that to your children

i wish you all the best, things are never simple, and your children should be your number one priority. take it easy