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Louise |
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Louise World Chat Champion
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Posted: 05:23 - 19 Nov 2006 Post subject: Opposites attract ?! |
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As some of you are aware I am dating a copper. (female )
We are what the title says to be honest.
1) I am English
2) She is Greek (white) but half British from the Mother,
3) I love drinking, mainly when I've finished a busy cooking shift
4) She drinks little and oftern
5) Im the one that is normally plastered
6) I gamble my money
7) she saves
8) I am argumentive
9) she rather go to bed
10) I like a 'good' seeing too
11) she likes to be kissed more then sex.
We have been having a 'few' probs in the past..............
Me and my drink ect. (she dose not understand to be honest)
We have been together for 3 years. I do love her, I really do, but little things make me wanna end it. We have so much in common, yet so much that differs from each other.
I, to be honest dont know what to do, Josh (my 2 n half y/o) knows Kat to a 'T' and will always know her.
Yet, if i bring someone else into his life, it will confuse him to hell.
TBH i am stuck, I dunno what to do.
I am on the way to be a Firefighter, She is a copper.................... and its known that 'we' dont get along........
I dunno what to do............ do I keep going for the sake of Josh, as he knows Kat............
Or do I just forget her and carry on with MY career and hope he gets on with it???????/
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BigChris Spanner Monkey
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Posted: 10:04 - 19 Nov 2006 Post subject: |
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talking as a married man here, you firstly need to work out in your mind if the relationship is worth fighting for. If not, get the hell out now and stop wasting everyone's time.
If you do, then the key is to be able to sit down and talk with her how you feel, but more importantly allow her to discuss how she feels to. From this you can then try and agree on doing things that dont irritate each other. What you've mentioned to be honest, really are little petty things. If drink ruined my relationship, as a man, everyone would think I was an alchoholic.
Above all, talk to each other. No not talk, but talk. Tell each other what pisses you both off, what you enjoy, etc. Really get to know each other so that you're not constantly at each others throats.
Now finally, lets see a happy pic of you both? |
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Irezumi aka Reuben Carrot Top
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Posted: 12:30 - 19 Nov 2006 Post subject: |
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Your discussing a personal relationship issue on a public internet forum that I beleive your other half reads?
Also it's spelt does, not dose.
Edit: I think you've ballsed it up if she read's this thread, so your issue may be resolved. |
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Louise World Chat Champion
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Posted: 16:26 - 20 Nov 2006 Post subject: |
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Has she ever asked you to change your ways, and if so, in what way?
Me and my Mrs are different, in some ways too. Everyone has their differences. You either accept it (if you can) or get out, it just depends what they are!?
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JodieWodie Reflective Banana
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Posted: 17:53 - 20 Nov 2006 Post subject: |
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Dump er
She sounds a bit boring
Staying with someone for a kids' security is daft
Kids adapt REALLY quickly, trust me
When my kids dad and I split up my daughter completely forgot him, (he is a waste o space, doesn't acknowledge her at all)
She was 5 at the time
The younger the kid, the lesser the effect
From reading your post you need more:
someone who will roger you senseless
someone who will go out for a drink and a good time with you
someone to have a good row with (then make up sex)
someone to have a bit of a flutter on the gee gees with
I would concentrate on your career and kid, and see if 'Mrs' Right turns up
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Posted: 17:24 - 22 Nov 2006 Post subject: |
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Hello Louise
Some people are ignorant about things they have no idea you need to go some where to talk like a restaurant and don't hit the sauce just talk to each other about what you want out of the relationship and decide from there. But the main thing is to talk to each other and always say you love her. Hope that helps
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Louise World Chat Champion
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Posted: 23:43 - 22 Nov 2006 Post subject: |
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Are you serious??? Dude, do you pleasure yourself? Of course you do, your male
Im not going to een go there but alot of commen sence should do the trick, If not google it.
Thats how I learned
We go eat all the time out, more so then in (no wonder im skint)
But im popping up to see her soon sowill do all of the above |
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ncrn World Chat Champion
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Posted: 21:28 - 23 Nov 2006 Post subject: |
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Hotdog wrote: | Can't say I agree with you.
Anyone who hasn't got a good chance of successfully bringing up their children in a normal nuclear family with good positive male and female role models has no business having children at all. |
what the fuck are you on about?? You don't need to live in a nuclear family to raise a child, in fact in my experience this causes more problems than good.
Hotdog wrote: | There is enough dysfunction in society and the world in general without breeding more. |
do the world a favor and castrate yourself then
Hotdog wrote: | Save lesbianism for where it's meant, in the bedroom as an extra to keep your man happy. |
its not just an extra to keep a man happy, its how people are, some people choose to date members of the other sex, some choose those of the same sex, in the end it makes no difference at all, so, please stop spouting bullcrap.
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 17 years, 160 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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