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Hetzer
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PostPosted: 22:19 - 23 Nov 2008    Post subject: So that's how it feels... Reply with quote

Last night one of my very best friends died. 65 years old, took a nap on the sofa and didn't wake up. Blubbed my heart out through the day on and off. My brother came around tonight and we tied one on in memory.

God bless you Dave, you were a totally diamond geezer. I'll see you again in due course mate. :salutay:
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PostPosted: 22:45 - 23 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

thats weak , sorry to hear it man

thoughts are with the family and freinds
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PostPosted: 23:04 - 23 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

chillpill wrote:
thats weak , sorry to hear it man

thoughts are with the family and freinds


Thanks Chill. Karma
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PostPosted: 23:28 - 23 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry to hear mate, that sucks!!
the worst part is knowing no one else understands how upset you are

All the best man
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PostPosted: 23:30 - 23 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry to hear that Hetz, one day we all end up equal, no matter what.
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PostPosted: 23:33 - 23 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

My sympathies Hetz, as you well know I am completely aware of how you are feeling.

Take care mate.
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PostPosted: 23:40 - 23 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Crying or Very sad sorry to hear that.

Also was 4 police men killed here at the end of my road and I was awake when It happened. They where burned in the jeep after it crashed. I was wuite disturbed by it. Although I didnt know them like your friend. Crying or Very sad
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PostPosted: 23:41 - 23 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know how you feel Hetzer.My brother(38 year old)died in his sleep 3 weeks ago.
It's so sudden it's hard to take in.

Well take care.

Paddy.
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PostPosted: 23:43 - 23 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
Crying or Very sad sorry to hear that.

Also was 4 police men killed here at the end of my road and I was awake when It happened. They where burned in the jeep after it crashed. I was wuite disturbed by it. Although I didnt know them like your friend. Crying or Very sad


I saw that on the news.

R.I.P Hetzer's friend.
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PostPosted: 00:42 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

R.I.P Hetzer's friend.

Sorry to hear it Hetzer Sad
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PostPosted: 01:07 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry to hear matey.
*man-style hugs with pats on backs*

/me does some bricklaying
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PostPosted: 01:57 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

The best way to go in anyones books is in your sleep.
It is better to go at 65 in your sleep than at 70 after a stroke at 65 and be spoon feed and in nappys for five years.
If your friend had a good life I would be happy for him. Thumbs Up

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PostPosted: 06:14 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks chaps.

Yes, definitely a most excellent way to go, just the timing was a bit of a bummer for his loved ones. Still, when ya gotta go...
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PostPosted: 07:28 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry to hear this mate. Thoughts are with his friends and family.
RIP Dave.
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PostPosted: 09:30 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Paddy Blake wrote:
The best way to go in anyones books is in your sleep.
It is better to go at 65 in your sleep than at 70 after a stroke at 65 and be spoon feed and in nappys for five years.
If your friend had a good life I would be happy for him. Thumbs Up

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I agree with this sentiment entirely.


My grandad was in a chair for 7 years, after being retired for 6 months, he had a massive stroke and it shut most of his brain down, he could move a bit and barely talk. He was 66 I think, and died when he was 72. I firmly believe he stopped eating on purpose.

One thing I now regret was not helping him to end it sooner, because I know that he was aware of everything. If ever I feel myself worrying about pointless fucking shit like work, or too much uni work, little family problems, anything that cant really be classed as serious, I think about him. And what he dealt with whilst we carried on our normal lives. And it breaks my fuckin' heart.


Am very sorry about your friend Hetzer, sounds like he meant a lot to you. The only plus, I suppose, is that he didnt suffer, and now doesnt have to deal with the credit crunch, the wiley bastard.

RIP. And wipe your make-up off your face Hetz, its running mate. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 09:38 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Went through the same a the beginning of the year so I sorta know how you feel Hetzer. It's probably still pretty raw for you at the moment but months down the line when my phone springs into life still my immediate reaction is that it might be 'H' on the other end of the line.

Not a day goes by without me thinking about my pal and how I miss calling him to inform him that my accident proneness has struck again. Last week I purchased a cordless kettle and had to return it 'cos there was no base in the box. As a disgruntled customer I strode up to the counter moaning about the weather and the fact that I didn't particularly enjoy making a special journey purely due to the ineptitude of the store in question. The woman took the box from me, opened it up, removed the kettle, opened the lid and pulled out a plastic bag with the base contained in it.

He’d have loved that ‘un Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 10:23 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's raw because I'm going to miss him like hell while I'm still here myself. I know he's 'up there' somewhere though. We used to do all-nighters talking about this shit, and other stuff. When I first met him (around eight years ago) he was afraid of dying but we talked that one through and his mind was put well at ease. The bastid is that he was in no way ill, even though he smoked like a chimney. I guess that's what makes it more of a shock, though it was certainly the best way for him and I take a lot of solace in that.

Well, it comes to us all and he certainly had a good innings.

Thanks for all the kind words chaps. Very Happy
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PostPosted: 10:54 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

All I can think to add to this is Sad .

My Father is 65 next year... Sad

But as people have said, if you could choose a way to go short of a heart attack in a brothel, then that could well be it.
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PostPosted: 10:57 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

I always think of "Three Score and Ten" as the basic entitlement. Anything less than that seems like a jip. Laughing
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PostPosted: 10:59 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ah, mortality Sad
Sucks, eh.

Thing is, the deaths of our friends, painful though it is, actually eventually gives us some insight into the fact that we're not gonna live forever ourselves. Tiresome but true.

All that we can hope for is that when we peg it, other people grieve as heartbrokenly for us as we do for our loved ones.

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PostPosted: 11:00 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hetzer wrote:
I always think of "Three Score and Ten" as the basic entitlement. Anything less than that seems like a jip. Laughing


Ya, but it evens it out for the old fuckers who stay perky and bright until they're 107.
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PostPosted: 11:04 - 24 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

107?! Fvck that! The minute I need somebody to help me take a dump I want out.
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