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PostPosted: 20:20 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Gay Marriage Reply with quote

I believe that marriage should be between a man & a woman.

I do not believe that a same sex marriage is positive if children are involved.

I believe that Cameron is only looking for the gay vote by endorsing this change in the law.

These are only my personal opinions.

I hope that there may be some constructive /enlightening debate about the above?

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PostPosted: 20:29 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Seems to be a bit of an upsurge in the interest of the more taboo subjects of late.

I suppose to add my two penneth, Not that I give a proverbial nats ass, but marriage by definition is a descendant of religious institution? So by that right then gay marriage is not permitted. Therefore a same sex couple should not be wed (as far as I am aware, bible innit). The landscape is obviously a little different in modern (soon to be past) times with marriage adopted outside religion (why?).

So I guess in a long about way I'm saying its really not anything to do with the government, go pester the church(es).
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PostPosted: 20:48 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Straight or gay, marriage is a mug's game.

But if I have to have an opinion; gay marriage is fair and well and seeing as all areas of religions/cults/spiritual beliefs are loosely defined and have multiple interpretations and are selectively followed then there is little reason why something like marriage should be exclusive to hetrosexual partnerships.
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PostPosted: 20:59 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gays aren't natural, it shouldn't be promoted and they certainly shouldn't be having kids - ie: natural selection should weed it out as a negative mutation that doesn't help the species. However by that rationale blow jobs aren't natural either as they don't help procreation so we should get rid of those too Shocked

Having said all that, personally I don't have a problem, I see everyone as they are and not dependant on whichever bucket they've been categorised in, if they're a cunt then I treat them as such. All the crap like Lenny Henry saying TV is 'too white' and people claiming we should have 25% women in director positions - seriously I mean WTF, why do people even see any difference between people, they're trying to reduce segregation and be PC but they're being xxx-ist just by enacting a PC standpoint!! Treat everyone equal no matter what, with the possible exception of disableds who should have a certain level of help to do things that ableds take for granted.
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PostPosted: 21:19 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Re: Gay Marriage Reply with quote

Drax wrote:
I believe that marriage should be between a man & a woman.


If you don't like gay marriage, don't have one.

If two adults decide they want to be legally bound, it is not hurting nor affecting you in the slightest - apart from 'your beliefs' which should again stay your business, as otherwise you're saying you are unwilling to accept others viewpoints as being valid.

Tacking on 'if children are involved' is a cheap trick.
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PostPosted: 21:25 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I too think marriage is a mugs game.

I think that there should be equal "legally shit" for gays and straights in terms of next of kin rights, etc etc.

Is there anything specific that the new "gay marriage" provides for that the "civil partnership" did not? It seems pretty fickle to be gunning just for the word "marriage".

In regards to the religious side of things, a church (of whatever faith) is a private club/association of individuals. If you want to be part of the club, you have to obey the club rules. If the club rules say "no homos allowed" even to the point of specifically stating such in the rulebook, then it would seem disrespectful to protest and kick up a fuss and say "let me in! It's not fair!", furthermore why would you even want to join a club when you are fundamentally not welcome?

By all means start a new denomination of church (god knows there's enough already) and have gay marriage there, it's your club - you get to write the rules!

I'd especially be against the notion that govt's could compel churches to marry gays, church shouldn't be able to tell the govt what to do and vice versa.
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PostPosted: 21:39 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Marriage isn't anything to do with religion any more though, I had no religion at all at my wedding, it's just a legal contract.
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PostPosted: 21:40 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

50 years ago it was illegal to be actively gay, now this has come to pass!

It seems a very fast transition, doesn't it? A good example of the power of mass media.
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PostPosted: 22:40 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Divorce is not recognised by the Catholic church, or many other religions, yet that still happens in conventional legal marriage. So using a marriage as a religious argument is flawed if you accept divorce.

I don't see what peoples problem with gay marriage is anyway, it's just a further progression of acceptance and equality.

Gay marriage doesn't affect anyone except the gay people getting married...
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PostPosted: 22:45 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

tbourner wrote:
Gays aren't natural, it shouldn't be promoted and they certainly shouldn't be having kids - ie: natural selection should weed it out as a negative mutation that doesn't help the species. However by that rationale blow jobs aren't natural either as they don't help procreation so we should get rid of those too Shocked

Having said all that, personally I don't have a problem, I see everyone as they are and not dependant on whichever bucket they've been categorised in, if they're a cunt then I treat them as such. All the crap like Lenny Henry saying TV is 'too white' and people claiming we should have 25% women in director positions - seriously I mean WTF, why do people even see any difference between people, they're trying to reduce segregation and be PC but they're being xxx-ist just by enacting a PC standpoint!! Treat everyone equal no matter what, with the possible exception of disableds who should have a certain level of help to do things that ableds take for granted.


We should have 50% if that's their argument. But that's the wrong argument.

If they are the better candidates for the job then there shouldn't be anything wrong with 90% of director positions being filled by women. If the men are the better candidates then that should be the same.

Part of the solution has added to the harm... you can't ask a female interviewee if they are going to have children. For a big company with lots of profit it isn't an issue covering maternity leave. But smaller companies with a handful of employees that is breaking even, having to cover maternity leave could seriously jeopardise their finances, so it appears a lot of them may take the safe bet and hire a man to avoid such maternity leave issues. Equal amounts of paid maternity/paternity leave might prevent that issue.
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PostPosted: 22:48 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

OW! MY TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE! IT'S BEING UNDERMINED!
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PostPosted: 23:12 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

minority of people are made much happier by something that costs me nothing and affects me even less Thinking
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PostPosted: 23:31 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can't understand why bigoted dinosaurs are getting so uptight about gay marriage.
Personally, I can't see any problem with allowing freaks to share the same privileges that normal people enjoy.
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PostPosted: 23:36 - 29 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I just don't get how some folk can get so excited about trying to maintain the delivery of fairly tales.
Religion is man made, so man can decide to act in whatever fucking way he/she chooses. We decide the "rules" by which we are governed.

Where it becomes an issue in my eyes, is where there are legal ramifications. So in terms of marriage, there are (or were) tax benefits and mortgage benefits etc to the classification of marriage. So it seems entirely right to allow same sex marriage.

In terms of the "family unit", who gives a fig if its a man and a woman, or a man and a man, or two women and a man. It's the environment the child is brought up in that its important. I daresay there are some terrible hetrosexual couples (and likely terrible homosexual ones too). The makeup of the family is not important, its how it functions that is.


Having said that, it's quite clear that the recent storms and flooding was down to the gays.
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PostPosted: 01:02 - 30 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: 09:23 - 30 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ben-B wrote:
Divorce is not recognised by the Catholic church, or many other religions, yet that still happens in conventional legal marriage. So using a marriage as a religious argument is flawed if you accept divorce.

I don't see what peoples problem with gay marriage is anyway, it's just a further progression of acceptance and equality.


Yeah, it flawed kind of like how when paedophilia in the Catholic church is always brought up to criticise it (and rightly so), but it's not just paedophilia, it's also faggotry isn't it?

It always make me laugh how egalitarians make the argument that if a gay acheives something it's always because they're a gay and isn't that great? But if they do something bad it's not because they're a gay, oh no, it because they're a bad person who happens to be a gay.
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PostPosted: 09:31 - 30 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm pro equal marriage, just like I'm pro free speech, pro right to bear arms, and so on. I am slightly concerned though that the rights focused on are those desired by the left, whilst those of the right are ignored, and that isn't right. I would have preferred to see the gay marriage bill go through Parliament with something for each side in it, gay marriage certainly, but also an in/out referendum on the EU.

Drax wrote:
I believe that marriage should be between a man & a woman.

I do not believe that a same sex marriage is positive if children are involved.

I believe that Cameron is only looking for the gay vote by endorsing this change in the law.

These are only my personal opinions.

I hope that there may be some constructive /enlightening debate about the above?

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It's a simple choice:
1. Marriage for all
2. Marriage for none

Take your pick. Personally I think the happiest people in a marriage tend to be the lawyers who steal everything. Why did Cameron do this? It's hard to say. Dave is extremely liberal, so it's possible he genuinely believes in and supports it. The other possibility is he just did it before the Europen court of human rights ruled that it must be allowed. Gay marriage enjoys very strong public support so it was going to happen eventually anyway.

As for the children argument, that's a very slippery slope*. What about a woman or man who cannot have children?

* (racism?!?).

tbourner wrote:
Gays aren't natural, it shouldn't be promoted and they certainly shouldn't be having kids - ie: natural selection should weed it out as a negative mutation that doesn't help the species. However by that rationale blow jobs aren't natural either as they don't help procreation so we should get rid of those too Shocked

Having said all that, personally I don't have a problem, I see everyone as they are and not dependant on whichever bucket they've been categorised in, if they're a cunt then I treat them as such. All the crap like Lenny Henry saying TV is 'too white' and people claiming we should have 25% women in director positions - seriously I mean WTF, why do people even see any difference between people, they're trying to reduce segregation and be PC but they're being xxx-ist just by enacting a PC standpoint!! Treat everyone equal no matter what, with the possible exception of disableds who should have a certain level of help to do things that ableds take for granted.


Don't you see the irony of typing on a computer keyboard and complaining about unnautral things? Two naked men having sex is more natural than a man typing on a computer keyboard.

I strongly disagree with special treatment or quotas for any group. Firstly because it's unfair which provokes envy and hate of the specially treated group by the normal majority, and secondly because it's unfair on the specially treated group as their achievements are cheapened. It's not even necessary, UKIP has achieved around 50% women candidates and has women in no1 and no2 spots on candidate lists, using a free vote and no all women short lists, something the others (esp Lib Dems) seem to be unable to do. The Conservatives had Thatcher pre the modern extremist PC era. What the Lib Dems who lead the diversity equality multi-culti crap have achieved is to sexually abuse the women in their party. The irony, it is strong here.
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PostPosted: 09:55 - 30 Mar 2014    Post subject: Re: Gay Marriage Reply with quote

Drax wrote:
I believe that marriage should be between a man & a woman. Why?

I do not believe that a same sex marriage is positive if children are involved. Why?

I believe that Cameron is only looking for the gay vote by endorsing this change in the law. Possibly but the same really applies to the way they go after any votes from any sizable section of society. Politicians are whores.


I hope that there may be some constructive /enlightening debate about the above? You haven't exactly thrown anything enlightening into the mix here yourself by not, at least, explaining your opinions.

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My personal opinion is that the only thing stopping gay marriage was some morally dubious religious hooey, and if you're religious then you're probably not going to want to marry same sex anyway so it's not going to affect you. If you aren't religious, why the bloody hell does it matter in the slightest?

To be fair I've never understood why non religious people even bother going to the trouble of a church wedding any more when the only thing that should matter to them is in the eyes of the law.

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PostPosted: 11:07 - 30 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe it is natural, maybe were continuing to evolve and this is a necessary step. Or maybe it's natures way of slowing down the overpopulation.

I do agree on the civil partnership being enough ( straight or gay ) other than for those with a religious bent.
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PostPosted: 11:40 - 30 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Heh, bent.

The best bit for me is that - despite the laughable assurances from Whitehall - cultists will be obliged to sell their binding spells to Adam and Steve as well as Adam and Eve now. Praying
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PostPosted: 11:53 - 30 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

don't see why not
I was married in a church to keep the Mrs happy, but I do not recognize religion so does that make my marriage a sham ??
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PostPosted: 12:05 - 30 Mar 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I understand why homosexual couples want to gain an equal status in society, but also I think it's hilarious that they so desperately want to be part of this massive cult tradition as if it's something really important and vital to their lives. What I mean is, I think the institution of marriage is utterly archaic and anyone who so urgently wants to achieve the status of 'married' is just a blind follower of the status quo. To me it's the same as children crying to get the latest toy just because all their friends have one. They just want to fit in and follow the crowd instead of thinking about things for themselves.

What is marriage anyway, really? People shouldn't be arguing to join in, they should be fighting for its abolition, in my opinion. It's just an exacerbation of deeply rooted cult dogma.
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