Am i being unfair/harsh??

[Andy C]

Ok, my pelvic rack is soon to be off and the orginal date was 19th June. However after the nurse saw it we got this moved to 12th June (day before my 18th) and the GF is coming over that night so we can wake up my bday together.

Since she has been so good though all ive put her though i thought i wouldnt tell her and keep it secret and suprise her to make her happy as i havnt made it easy since april if that makes sense.

So when i was going into college all last week i was very carful what i said to everyone and what date is was coming off (i get asked a lot) and the poeple i did tell i make sure they knew my GF didnt know so still be a surprise

Anyways, it was my prom last night (9th June) and was feeling really down as didnt think i looked good in a tux with the rack on and knowing how good GF would look thought it was sh*t i would be like disabled and all that. So we get to her house and parents all talking while we waited for limo.

So my GFs dad says in front of my dad and GF, "Andy, whens the rack coming off??" to which my dad butts in and says "Oh it coming off this monday" I gave him a shocked looked so say "shut the f*ck up!" and he says it again. This has really got to me as:
1. I sat him and my mum down and told them i didnt want her to know as havnt been able to do anything nice for her since it all happend.
2. He says i should have reminded him before we got there as it was obvious he would have forgotten

Luckly my GF says she didnt hear but now knows ive got something planned and this has messed it all up loads. I also felt my dad is only saying sorry so we can forget about it. He also lied to my mum and said i never told him but she remembers when i did.

I said i cant forgive him anytime soon, am i being harsh or just reacting as anyone would? He has done loads for me since the crash and do appriated but has messed everything up so much i just dont know weather its justified or not.

Comments please!
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[colin1]

people cant be relied on to keep secrets
if you want something to be kept a secret you cant tell anyone, as if you do it wont be a secret for long.

If a few people know and a few dont, you can expect the people who know, to remember who are the other people who are allowed to know and who arent.

sorry this one got out tho
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[Rookie]

It sounds like a perfectly innocent mistake, just an annoying one. Don't worry though, I expect your GF will be just as touched that you went to all the trouble of making it a suprise for her in the first place.

[Andy C]

[christof]

Just let it go, life's too short.

When you're waking up with your bird I don't think it'll matter much to you then, so don't leave a cloud hanging over your old man until then.

[Vin]

He made a mistake like all people do....even teenagers.
From reading the various posts it seems that your parents have been mega stars over the past couple of months.

[hellkat]

Wot Siggi said.
Couldn't have put it better myself.


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