advice needed

colezxr · Traffic Copper Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Karma :

so theres this girl, i met her a couple of months ago, she rides aswell, and is doing her bike test soon. we went to brands hatch together for the bsb and ever since we have become really good friends. but i have always liked her from the first time i saw her. she has a bf but she is not that serious with him, and he seems to be a twat.

recently i havent been able to stop thinking about her. even the one place i can always find some peace and quite (on my bike), i still cant get her out of my head. and my mate who i often see has said that he and a few others have noticed that i havent been the same lately.

so now i really wana tell this girl how i feel about her, but i dont know wether she feels the same way about me, and i dont wana ruin our friendship. she has been giving me alot of mixed signals and i just dont know what to do anymore.

please if anyone can help me or if u can just shoot me and get it over with please do. Thumbs Up

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TOM M · World Chat Champion Joined: 18 Mar 2005 Karma :

Tell her

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Dazbo666 · World Chat Champion Joined: 06 Jun 2004 Karma :

Easily sorted, tell her or we'll shoot you as requested.

Seriously though, if you don't say anything you'll end up wondering "what if".... and IMO life is too short to be asking "what if"

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Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Exactly, go for it. Thats what i did. Girl at work i like, she's single came over to printer near me and just went for it, " I think your gorgeous please can i have your number"

That was monday, already snogger her and yeah ............... Thumbs Up

go for it, worse she can say is no.
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lozzypop1 · Certified MILF! Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Karma :

What can I say??? Confused

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Squiffy_The_Wombat · Brolly Dolly Joined: 21 Jun 2006 Karma :

definatly say something or its going to play around in the back of your head till you loose the plot (if you already havent).

Plutonic relationships are pretty rare and this is certainly not the case here, thus, your unlikelly to loose any long term friendship with her if you get a negative response.

As for what to say, theres a million and one lines but everything depends on the girl dude, you just got to be yourself, truthful and realistic, youve got nothing to loose!

Just my 2pence anyway!
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colezxr · Traffic Copper Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Karma :

thanks i think i know what i have to do, i gotta go tell her. shes got four weeks training starting next week when she is only gonna b about for the weekends and then she will probley just b seeing her family.

Karma

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killa · Won't Shut Up Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Karma :

Make an effort to support her doing the test etc, give her encouragement and advice on parts she might be lacking confidence.
Even though she might not need it, in someway you'll brain wash her into thinking you helped in the end, and if you do that, you'll get your willy wet. Cool

Sorry about the last bit, you'll do alright.
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quacker_boy · Cuddle Bitch Joined: 06 Sep 2005 Karma :

I'm there as well, i told the girl i liked i liked her...and it went down pretty well actually we hang out a lot and we're really close (sunset lit walk down the beach and staying there till 5 in the morning kinda close) Razz

and she thinks i'm really cute and sweet and easy to talk to etc...

She's still going out with her bf and keeps claiming she 'loves' him, what a fat load of bollocks that is! He's a compulsive liar, even to her and he really treats her like shit at times.

Unfortunately, this guy's my mate as well so if i was to tell her the shit he's been saying about her, she'd think i'm a jealous fuck and all that, but hey good things take time so who knows it'll work out.

Sorry for the Hijack, point is, tell her otherwise you'll never know
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colezxr · Traffic Copper Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Karma :

yer she has told me alot of her secrets, and i have helped her with her uturns, and even went to fix her bike on monday, it was leaking fuel, but i just found that she had never let the overflow pipe out befour. but i did get sympathy from it as i sliped with the pliyers and burnt my arm on the exhaust.

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colezxr · Traffic Copper Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Karma :

yer i did have to fix her bike again yesterday, had to clean her carbs out for her.

but i chickend out of telling her Embarassed

. but ill have some drinks later and tell her. atleast i probley wont b seeing her for two weeks after becouse she has got her training and im going away with my mates next weekend. Thumbs Up

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quacker_boy · Cuddle Bitch Joined: 06 Sep 2005 Karma :

I'm warning you now Cole, do it, before i can actually be rat arsed to fly all the way back, shove your face into hers and scream "FUCKING TELL HER NOW YOU BASTARD!" Very Happy

There'll never be a good time to do it mate, but the sooner you'll get it done, the better you'll feel , trust me.
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colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

i think rather than telling her, flirt with her until you know she feels the same way too, and then make a move on her, maybe hold hands or something get a bit touchy feely.

if she likes it you are in, if she backs off you need to flirt a bit more

if you just tell her how u feel, before you have got her to feel the same way, you risk losing her

make her feel good, tell her how great she is etc

girls dont want a guy to fall in love with them, they want a guy who they can fall in love with
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Andy C · Tree Seeking Missile Joined: 26 Apr 2005 Karma :

yea go for it and if she says no then say something like "ok, well i still want to be friends"
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colezxr · Traffic Copper Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Karma :

right thanks for that guys, i think that il leave the rohypnol for now. (maybe try that later).

had a long weekend and managed to get it out of my head, but im seeing her next weekend becouse im away this weekend for a holiday with my mates. but maybe have the chance to phone her when im drunk and say it then, atleast i can just say i was wasted and didnt know that i said it. then a excuse not to stop drinking. Thumbs Up

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