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Dave McCool
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PostPosted: 21:40 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Ladies and Gentlemen... Reply with quote

I am a bike mad, but sadly car-driving student.

I do a fair amount of motorway miles between my home and my university (Colchester and Brighton), and I'm starting to see a disturbing pattern emerging among bikers.

I make a point of checking my mirrors 2 or 3 times before changing lanes, and fairly regularly while in slow traffic, so I'm usually fairly quick to spot filtering bikers. With a love of bikes, and a realistic view of traffic flow, I also always make a very delibrate point of getting out of the way, this behaviour encourages other car drivers to do the same, and also allows you lot to feel safe that I'm not going to side-swipe you.

However, in the last month (about 500 motorway miles, far too many in traffic) not one of you, and I mean seriously, not even one has waved or nodded a thankyou. Not even the slightest gesture.

Now I'll continue moving out of your way, but all of this probably not doing your public image too much good...

It's only a suggestion, but cheer the hell up! It's crappy for everyone, but you'll be through a long time before us!
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PostPosted: 21:46 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I always wave when people move out of my way on the bike, but maybe only half of bikers wave when I'm in the car and shift over. No big deal though, eh?
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PostPosted: 21:49 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

No, not really a big deal at all, just a bit annoying when you've made an effort to get out of someone's way...
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PostPosted: 21:51 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Perhaps, not being a rider you would not understand why this is the case.

Sometimes (not always) drivers do unpredictable things. Sometimes from behind the handlebars of a bike it looks like the driver is doing something unpredictable when in actual fact they think they are helping.

Sometimes you realise a driver is moving out of the way but cannot wave because you're concentrating on avoiding the myopic driver in front of you who hasn't moved.

Sometimes you realise the driver is moving out of the way, and you /have/ got time to wave, but it would be dangerous to take one hand off of the bars (if you hit cats eyes for example).

Sometimes you're in a bad mood.

Sometimes you nod but the driver doesn't notice.

Get over yourself. Obviously we aren't worthy of your time and effort because we dont' wave.

Frankly it comes across as a bit sad.

riding a bike isn't exactly like driving a car, and often takes a /lot/ more concentration, particularly when overtaking and avoiding cars.

If you are truly bike mad then perhaps you should know that.
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PostPosted: 21:51 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Being a younger rider (16) i was unsure when filtering, and usually never thanked anyone because i was far too busy concentrating (and usually people object to my filtering). However some kind bloke let me in thismorning so i gave him a nice thumbs up - its not that we're ignorant, we're just looking out for drivers who may not be as considerate or as willing to let us go ahead.
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PostPosted: 21:51 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I give a wave when I can and when it's safe, but to be honest if I did it to every car that shifted over a bit I'd never have my hand on the bar. Wink

Though the ones that quite obviously go out of their way will always get a wave, whenever possible.

You might find that as the season draws to a close, and the fair weather/weekend riders pack up for the winter, the wave ratio rises again.
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PostPosted: 21:53 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Re: Ladies and Gentlemen... Reply with quote

Dave McCool wrote:
I am a bike mad, but sad car-driving student.

It's only a suggestion, but cheer the hell up! It's crappy for everyone, but you'll be through a long time before us!






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PostPosted: 21:56 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I always try to wave if its obvious that the driver has delibrately moved out of the way, other gestures if its obvious that they are blocking the way.

Its not always possible, for instance I might be travelling a bit too fast to want to take my hands off the bars, but I guess thats more likely with overtaking, not your true filtering.
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PostPosted: 22:01 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I do realise that it takes a fair amount of concentration to filter through traffic on a bike, and to be honest I wasn't having a go, but this last month I've actually been surprised by this, because in my past experience this hasn't been the case; nearly all of the bikers I've let past have thanked me in some way.

And I don't really need to get over myself, like I said it's just friendly advice, if car drivers start getting annoyed with this then they won't bother letting the next bike through...
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PostPosted: 22:06 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

To be honest, whilst I agree that politeness from bikers is something to be expected, a good deed should be it's own reward.
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PostPosted: 22:07 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm surprised Marjay, you seem very defensive?

Anyways, I think Dave's comment is valid. It doesn't take much to be polite and (for the most part) in traffic it's pretty obvious when a car is moving over for you. I always try to show appreciation for this.

I actually find the vast majority of car drivers to be polite, as with bikes the minority (which do present a high risk to us, sadly the ultimate in some cases) give the rest a bad name. Even so, this will not stop me from saying thanks.
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PostPosted: 22:08 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

when i go out on my bike, and there is traffic on the ring road, i filter past it, see countless cars move over, and it not possible to keep riding your bike in a safe fashion and wave a sign of 'thanks' in each one's direction, but i do my best to thank as many as poss. The BIG bikes nod, although whether it is a car or another biker, it is not easy, your arm can even get achy! Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 22:10 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I always chuckle when, on an already plenty wide enough road, a car goes to such an effort to move over that they practically swerve off the road and into a hedge! Laughing
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PostPosted: 22:16 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Silver wrote:
I always chuckle when, on an already plenty wide enough road, a car goes to such an effort to move over that they practically swerve off the road and into a hedge! Laughing


that winds me up when cars practically mount the pavement to let you past, fair enough if ur obviously trying to get past but when ur just sat behind a car trundling along enjoying the scenery and a car brakes and veers into the pavement it kind of makes me feel guilty.

i do appreciate it when cars move over slightly to let you past pedestrian islands ect, i always try to put a thumb up as i go past dependant on the relative speed im travelling at.

equally the vans that move away from the kerb when im trying to squeeze past get a firm open handed slap on the side panels Smile

makes me laugh when people actually indicate, move over and stop to let you past then try and follow you Mr. Green
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PostPosted: 23:24 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Unless I have something more pressing to worry about, I always wave with my left hand if people move over on the left hand side, and give them a nod if they move over to the right out of the way (on dual carriageways). I'll usually also give them a wave if I've rejoined the flowing traffic in front of them and they've left a sensible gap between us.

It never hurts to be polite, just don't sacrifice your own safety in doing so.

Sometimes they move over so vigorously, it makes me feel compelled to go past them, even when it's not entirely safe (I'm a lot better at ignoring cars moving over to let me past when it's dangerous now though). If I can't be arsed I just drop back far enough to make it obvious I'm not going to and they carry on.

As far as vehicles indicating goes, I never filter past something if it's indicating anything. For all I know, they indicated left and actually intend to turn right. Confused
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PostPosted: 23:31 - 24 Oct 2006    Post subject: Re: Ladies and Gentlemen... Reply with quote

Dave McCool wrote:
I am a bike mad, but sadly car-driving student.


Don't take this and the rest of the reply in the wrong way, but if you were that bike mad, you'd be on a bike, so you're just another cager.

Dave McCool wrote:
However, in the last month (about 500 motorway miles, far too many in traffic) not one of you, and I mean seriously, not even one has waved or nodded a thankyou. Not even the slightest gesture.


Well, excuse the hell out of me. In the last month (about 1200 motorway miles) I've filtered past thousands of cars - if you think I'm going to give everyone a little Hand just for staying out of my way, you'd better sit down because I've got some bad news for you...

Dave McCool wrote:
Now I'll continue moving out of your way, but all of this probably not doing your public image too much good...


Oh dear, here's some more bad news - I don't give a fuck about what you think of bikers. All you need do is concentrate on driving safely and staying out my way. In return, I won't take your wing mirror or toe-slide down your car. It's OK, you don't have to wave in return for this special consideration...

Dave McCool wrote:
It's only a suggestion, but cheer the hell up! It's crappy for everyone, but you'll be through a long time before us!


I don't have the time or inclination to "cheer up" when I'm filtering. I'm too busy tring to second-guess which brain-dead nonce is going to be next to try and kill me by switching lanes without indicating while he plays with his satnav/phone/knob/passenger/ipod.

So, "bike mad" Dave, come back when you're a biker and then offer me advice on what to do when filtering, and I promise I'll put your name forward to be nominated as BCF's Official Waver At Cars Whilst Filtering. How's that?
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PostPosted: 00:22 - 25 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

No need to be so hostile towards him. It's just one cagers observation. It's possible you've not noticed a bikers thanks. Afterall, sometimes it isn't easy to make an obvious 'thanks'. I'll often slightly hang my left hand off the bars. But have no idea if the driver notices.

Personally. I hate when a car moves out of my way. 9 times out of 10, I've got plenty of room already, and a car moving a foot or more in their lane can be more worrying than anything.
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PostPosted: 00:39 - 25 Oct 2006    Post subject: Re: Ladies and Gentlemen... Reply with quote

Dave McCool wrote:
However, in the last month (about 500 motorway miles, far too many in traffic) not one of you, and I mean seriously, not even one has waved or nodded a thankyou. Not even the slightest gesture.

It's easily explained, a worrying amount of bikers consider that they own the road, thus thanking (or acknowledging) you for making their journey easier isn't something they think necessary or even polite.

It's weird, plently of bikes would wave if I moved over a bit when I drove a Megane, yet now I drive a big 4x4 that takes up more of the road so it is helpful to move over giving more road space and visibility for filtering bikes, very few bikers wave/acknowledge when I move to help let them through. Ah well, tis easy to see why plently of people dislike bikers and don't give a fuck about them. Rolling Eyes
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PostPosted: 01:10 - 25 Oct 2006    Post subject: Re: Ladies and Gentlemen... Reply with quote

bazza wrote:
Dave McCool wrote:
I am a bike mad, but sadly car-driving student.


Don't take this and the rest of the reply in the wrong way, but if you were that bike mad, you'd be on a bike, so you're just another cager.

Dave McCool wrote:
However, in the last month (about 500 motorway miles, far too many in traffic) not one of you, and I mean seriously, not even one has waved or nodded a thankyou. Not even the slightest gesture.


Well, excuse the hell out of me. In the last month (about 1200 motorway miles) I've filtered past thousands of cars - if you think I'm going to give everyone a little Hand just for staying out of my way, you'd better sit down because I've got some bad news for you...

Dave McCool wrote:
Now I'll continue moving out of your way, but all of this probably not doing your public image too much good...


Oh dear, here's some more bad news - I don't give a fuck about what you think of bikers. All you need do is concentrate on driving safely and staying out my way. In return, I won't take your wing mirror or toe-slide down your <a href="https://www.bikechatforums.com/?=car">car</a>. It's OK, you don't have to wave in return for this special consideration...

Dave McCool wrote:
It's only a suggestion, but cheer the hell up! It's crappy for everyone, but you'll be through a long time before us!


I don't have the time or inclination to "cheer up" when I'm filtering. I'm too busy tring to second-guess which brain-dead nonce is going to be next to try and kill me by switching lanes without indicating while he plays with his satnav/phone/knob/passenger/ipod.

So, "bike mad" Dave, come back when you're a biker and then offer me advice on what to do when filtering, and I promise I'll put your name forward to be nominated as BCF's Official Waver At Cars Whilst Filtering. How's that?


OK, as to why I haven't got a bike, that's explained in the first line, STUDENT. Wouldn't have a <a href="https://www.bikechatforums.com/?=car">car</a> either if I hadn't been gifted this one by my grandad, and for the record I'm working my arse off to save up and get my bike licence sorted.

I'm not asking for everyone to thank every driver, pretty clearly that would be stupid, and if you actually bothered to read, you'd see I've already explained that.

As for threats to my <a href="https://www.bikechatforums.com/?=car">car</a>, seriously mate, get out more. If i suggested driving into any of you lot there'd be outrage, so leave that sort of stuff out...

You can claim you don't give a shit about what us cagers think about you, but at the same time if we all decided you were a bunch of useless tossers and not to do you any favours then your progress wouldn't be half as swift.

Seriously am surprised at the heated reactions to this, all it was was a point made based on the observations of someone with a different point of view to yourselves.

Some of you have reacted well, others are narrow-minded pricks.
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PostPosted: 01:37 - 25 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

i like to wave when someone does move for me but as others have said sometimes its not practical. especially in peak hour traffic,
just know we do appriciate your moving over to let us through, even when we don't show it.
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PostPosted: 03:14 - 25 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Feelin the luv in here boys.

Why is it that when someone has some input that others may not agree with, some feel the need to resort to personal attacks.
If you don't agree, then simply state that and move along.
You can express your differing point of view without turning it into a slinging match.

After all this is what a forum is about. People coming together with a common interest and sharing varied ideas and opinions.

While you may not agree with it, nor understand it the bottom line here is you have to accept it.


Dave as has already been explained there are a number of reasons why a rider can't acknowledge you assisting them filter through traffic and this may be something you are unaware of until you get your bike and experience it first hand.

I do agree that a little thanks can go along way though.

I feel similar frustration when I go into a service station and hold open a door for someone who is comin in behind me.
Only to have them walked right on passed like I'm not even there.
I dont do it for the thanks though, I do it because it makes me feel good. They can't take that away from me even if they are ignorant asses.

Well done mate for showing respect for other road users bikers or otherwise. There should be more of it.

You've never pulled over to let me pass but thanks anyway for those who you did do it for
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PostPosted: 08:37 - 25 Oct 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lets put it this way:

If I went on a car forum and asked why no car drivers let me out/wave at me/whatever, I'd have been told a lot worse than to get over myself.

Read Bazza's post, its a little harsher than mine but I agree with the sentiment.
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PostPosted: 08:58 - 25 Oct 2006    Post subject: Re: Ladies and Gentlemen... Reply with quote

Ste wrote:

It's weird, plently of bikes would wave if I moved over a bit when I drove a Megane, yet now I drive a big 4x4 that takes up more of the road so it is helpful to move over giving more road space and visibility for filtering bikes, very few bikers wave/acknowledge when I move to help let them through. Ah well, tis easy to see why plently of people dislike bikers and don't give a fuck about them. Rolling Eyes


Maybe thats because most 4x4 drivers drive like they own the road. Bikers are just tarring all 4x4 drivers with the same brush in exactly the same way you are tarring all motorcyclists with the same brush.
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