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J0Al1
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PostPosted: 20:44 - 11 Feb 2007    Post subject: Internet Dating? Reply with quote

I have a friend that thinks it's great. Personally I just got pestered by odd people.

Anywayz - was wondering, what are your experiances?


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PostPosted: 20:58 - 11 Feb 2007    Post subject: Re: Internet Dating? Reply with quote

Monkeypie wrote:
Whilst one of the 'hot' topics for the week seem to be spunk, erections and bum's. I thought I'd find out what people think of internet dating?

My only epxeriance . . . . . . .

Chatted online . . . got phone number . . . . . chatted on phone . . . almost arranged a place to meet.

Then my sences got the better of me and I asked my Dad if he knew this guy (Dad knows alot of people and this chap was local). I, of course didn't tell him my reason for asking. Dad's responce was STAY AWAY, he is NASTY!

So, that was it. I won't try it again.

However, I have a friend that thinks it's great. Personally I just got pestered by odd people.

Anywayz - was wondering, what are your experiances?


I was seeing a girl I met through BCF funnily enough so internet dating can be good. Want to be next?

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PostPosted: 21:10 - 11 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wouldnt waste me time with specifically dating sites.

I registered on a biker one ages ago, but only cos the owner of the site wanted me to jazz it up with my witty comments when it first opened, to draw people in (before it was successful enough to become a pay-to-join site) and she gave me free membership.

Mind you, I didn't do much once I went on there, anyway. Forgot me nickname and login details fairly promptly, so I didnt get on there much, to be the witty cosmopolitan boulevardier-ess (?) I have been known to be in the past.

I still get the odd "wink" from members on that site, but I can't get in now cos I ain't paying to get on any website, least of all a dating one. So all those biker romeos I must be missing out will have to find a two-wheeled heroine elsewhere.

Besides. I have mr hellkat. What more does a girl need?

But if I didn't ... I can't say I'd go on one specially to find the "love of my life". If I can't find him in a pub like almost all the others (although I did find one just lurking about in the street gazing at me like a lovesick puppy, LOL) ... then there's no point looking online for him.

Got enough problems with the men I've already had in me life, and their remarkable tendency to reappear just when I am getting over them. Rolling Eyes

I don't need begging desperado needy types as well. Sick
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PostPosted: 21:18 - 11 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

Internet's a great way to meet people accidentaly. If you go looking for it, god knows what you will find.
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PostPosted: 21:20 - 11 Feb 2007    Post subject: Re: Internet Dating? Reply with quote

Joe wrote:
I was seeing a girl I met through BCF funnily enough so internet dating can be good.


Its different meeting people on a similar-interest website, as opposed to specifically a "dating" website.

People are less desperate on sites where you all just have the same sort of interests, cos you all just meet up and get matey with the same interests in mind, and sometimes you discover you like somebody more than you realised. I've got several mates on different sorts of websites depending on my various interests, and although I did date one briefly from a meeting on the internet, I prolly wouldnt rush to do it again. There's usually fall-out amongst forum members if you split up. Seen it time and time again. But it works out for lots of people. Depending on how childish or internet-frenzied they are, of course. Rolling Eyes
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PostPosted: 23:29 - 11 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have dated a few from internet dating sites.

Its a bit different from meeting girls in the real world as you already know they are looking for a bloke. Internet chat is both of you comfy at home so you can both relax and it doesnt matter too much, inhibtions are a bit lower. Once you get to know them, you meet up. You then either get on or dont.

Once you get over the differences and learn how to make a success of it, its quite good.

Some people would meet girls anyway, if thats not you, internet dating is pretty good,
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PostPosted: 01:45 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

Never went looking through Internet sites. Was already spoken for when the interwebby thing took off.

But...........

Throught the net, I've kept in touch with people I would have otherwise lost touch with and in the meantime, met a shedload of new mates.

But...........

It's so easy for people to misrepresent themselves on here. I never believe what people say on here til I can meet them face to face (as HK knows Thumbs Up )

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PostPosted: 10:04 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

colin1 wrote:
I have dated a few from internet dating sites.


I've always thought you were the internet dating type!

Colins dating video script.
Hi everyone my name's Colin, obviously.
*point to name tag in day-glo vest*
I'm a male, looking for a female to cook and clean for me who doesn't have a job and has no desire to speak to any other male ever as I aint half the jealous type.

As you can see I don't shower all that often, putting yourself in such a situation where you could easily drown is a bit too extreme for me to be doing more than once a month, as for hair cuts, sharp implements, near my head under someone elses control, not on my watch.

So if you fancy coming round and eating a meal with your fingers (a knife and fork, in a womans hand, in my house, yeah, ok) then send me your MSN, a/s/l and a photo of your self and we can talk about the ground rules and set up the prenup before we meet.

This is colin, signing off.
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PostPosted: 10:30 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

I only ever met one person from the net, and I am still with him 5 years later!

We chatted for about 2 months solidly before we met. I was nervous about meeting him, but it all worked out good Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 10:36 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

Statted talking to my GF on the 'net.
Still with her a year and a half later. I was nervous about meeting up with her but we got on great online and it was even better face to face. I never thought I'd be the kind of person to meet a girl off the net but glad I did Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 11:21 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

These sites must be so short of women, they have given me free membership back! You get a free month trial. Still wont use it.

Think it's ok meeting someone from a forum, it's a different approach (not that I ever have). Actually thats a lie, I did meet someone once (years ago) and we became friends, still keep up once in a blue moon.
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PostPosted: 11:27 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

The internet can "aid" relationships, but I think for solely starting a blossom relationship, I think it could probably be a bit haphazard, people mis-represent themselves on the internet.

I mean with my current long term girlfriend, we were doing exactly the same subjects in Sixth form and A levels, we knew there was something there, but were far too shy to obviously say anything in real life without the aid of a couple of Vodkas, of which i'd only take advantage. Laughing

So we got chatting on MSN, felt I could word stuff better as I am crap at speaking when shy, used the right words, told her I liked her, big gamble, but she admitted straight away that she liked me too and had done for ages. I remember the staying up til 3AM on MSN stage when we would chat about absolutely anything. Then we met up privately and found out more about each other, me being completely smitten cause I had thought she was fit since I was 12 so this was quite an accomplishment.

2 years on, living together, big future together and the internet did help. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 14:21 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shaun wrote:
colin1 wrote:
I have dated a few from internet dating sites.


I've always thought you were the internet dating type!

Colins dating video script.
Hi everyone my name's Colin, obviously.
*point to name tag in day-glo vest*
I'm a male, looking for a female to cook and clean for me who doesn't have a job and has no desire to speak to any other male ever as I aint half the jealous type.

As you can see I don't shower all that often, putting yourself in such a situation where you could easily drown is a bit too extreme for me to be doing more than once a month, as for hair cuts, sharp implements, near my head under someone elses control, not on my watch.

So if you fancy coming round and eating a meal with your fingers (a knife and fork, in a womans hand, in my house, yeah, ok) then send me your MSN, a/s/l and a photo of your self and we can talk about the ground rules and set up the prenup before we meet.

This is colin, signing off.


For someone that has such a major hit rate with woman Shaun, I'd suggest that you try it yourself some time...
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PostPosted: 14:43 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

Adam_P wrote:
For someone that has such a major hit rate with woman Shaun, I'd suggest that you try it yourself some time...


I have a custom title idea for you adam its "The voice of the uninformed". Wink
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PostPosted: 15:00 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

never had a problem with internet dating.. met quite a few really nice people off various sites..

it's usually pretty easy toweed out the weirdos before you meet them.

I like internet dating so much, I built my own site Smile

https://www.plentymorefish.com

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PostPosted: 15:13 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

Adam_P wrote:
For someone that has such a major hit rate with woman Shaun, I'd suggest that you try it yourself some time...


Shaun's got a girlfriend Wink
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PostPosted: 15:53 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

Only ever met up with one girl I spoke to in a chat room years ago (and I'm talking 8 or so years ago!!). She was ok, really nice girl in fact, only a bit older than me and was looking for the whole 'settle down' sort of thing, only I wasn't ready for any of that at the time so we went our seperate ways after a few months.

Thinking back, she had a smaching rack on her too! Laughing
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PostPosted: 17:03 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

my mate rob is meeting a girl from ireland next monday and she is staying over at his house for 3 days

he has been chatting to her on msn for a few months.

swapping pictures e.t.c Wink

i'll let you know how it goes.
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PostPosted: 17:15 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

feef wrote:
never had a problem with internet dating.. met quite a few really nice people off various sites..

it's usually pretty easy toweed out the weirdos before you meet them.

I like internet dating so much, I built my own site Smile

https://www.plentymorefish.com

Smile

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And as the owner, I assume you have have access to all the pics on 'PMF XXX'... You dirty pervert... Good man! Wink
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PostPosted: 17:19 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

feef wrote:
I built my own site


So you honestly reccomend it, you didn't just realise there was a lot of people out there lacking the social skills to leave the house and didn't just decide to cash in on it? Rolling Eyes
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PostPosted: 17:27 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

Annabella wrote:
Adam_P wrote:
For someone that has such a major hit rate with woman Shaun, I'd suggest that you try it yourself some time...


Shaun's got a girlfriend Wink


Mike doesn't count Annabella... Wink
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PostPosted: 19:36 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

i met my wife in a chat room 5 years ago we now have 3 kids so i would say the net can work for some people
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PostPosted: 22:45 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

I met someone online in Dec '95-Jan '96ish. We weren't looking for a relationship, it just developed. She was in the States. We met for the first time in April '96, A fiance visa was granted (the first in the NY British embassy based on the weight of emails and phone bills alone) and she moved here in the May. We married in the July.

We're still together, and as happy as we were back then.
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PostPosted: 22:51 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

Annabella wrote:
Adam_P wrote:
For someone that has such a major hit rate with woman Shaun, I'd suggest that you try it yourself some time...


Shaun's got a girlfriend Wink


finally

apparently he didnt just get laid, he had a connection ...

i hope there wasnt a short circuit
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PostPosted: 22:53 - 12 Feb 2007    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheShaggyDA wrote:
I met someone online in Dec '95-Jan '96ish. We weren't looking for a relationship, it just developed. She was in the States. We met for the first time in April '96, A fiance visa was granted (the first in the NY British embassy based on the weight of emails and phone bills alone) and she moved here in the May. We married in the July.

We're still together, and as happy as we were back then.


ahhh lovely
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