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Brod122 · Scooby Slapper Joined: 17 Aug 2006 Karma :

Right, to put it really simply (I don't like to bore) need some advice.

Got a friend, whos a hard ass to his GF Smile

His GF is nice, I got friendly with her, liked her personality, then after almost kissing one night she openly confessed to liking me in more ways than she should. But claims to love him. Fallback? meh.

I find her attractive mentally aswell as physically, but im not dying to be with her, if you get me Smile

. Maybe I only like her because its wrong? I've no idea.

Hes not that good of a mate, I've known him for ages, but im not that fond of him anymore. But hes still a mate.

So far I've gone with the whole 'good friend' routine, but if hes a b*stard to her, why should I?

:edit: They've been seeing each other 6 months, this has been on the table for 2-3, but she wont stop giving me ideas and I'm wondering if repressing my feelings is the best way to go out it.

Brod Smile

Any advice mucho appreiciated Smile

..... · Quote Me Happy Joined: 15 Jan 2005 Karma :

She's a mate's bird. Stay away. Simple.

Brod122 · Scooby Slapper Joined: 17 Aug 2006 Karma :

Thats my thinking so far, but recently (nothing to do with the situation) his attitude repulses me, his condesending attitude is borderling asshole. How long he will be a mate I don't know.

Brod Smile

Weedy · World Chat Champion Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Karma :

If you take the plunge now, he'll smack you in the face.

If you wait until he's not a mate, he'll smack you in the face.

If you wait until she breaks up with him, he'll find out she's started seeing you....And he'll smack you in the face.

It's a lose, lose situation Thumbs Up

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Speedy3 · Traffic Copper Joined: 13 Aug 2006 Karma :

1 Scuffle. Alot of sex.

Do it.

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Andy C · Tree Seeking Missile Joined: 26 Apr 2005 Karma :

If your prepared to screw your mates bird then you dont deserve to be his friend.

I think its one of the lowest things you can do to a friend Thumbs Down

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nick606 · World Chat Champion Joined: 12 Nov 2006 Karma :

i agree with andy

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yambabe · World Chat Champion Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Karma :

Bollocks to what the mate may or may not do, he doesn't own her. This is entirely down to the girl, and from what you've described i don't think much of her.

Trust me, if she really wanted you she would have finished with him and had you by now.

The girl is a prick-tease, she is leading you on and if you let it carry on someone is going to get hurt - probably you.

Walk away from the whole situation. If she dumps him and comes after you you win, and with a clear conscience cos you did nothing while they were together. But always remember, if she was going to do it to him with you she may well do it to you with someone else........

If she stays with him (she will btw) well there are a million and one other girls out there who are as good as her if not better, go get them tiger! Wink

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lozzypop1 · Certified MILF! Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Karma :

Ok - I'm impressed with that answer Jo Thumbs Up

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Gpz 900R · Nova Slayer Joined: 26 Jan 2007 Karma :

Agree with babyyam, this girl is bad news, nothing but a prick teaser, stay well away or you will end up with no mate and no girl, six months on and she's still with him says it all really.

Brod122 · Scooby Slapper Joined: 17 Aug 2006 Karma :

Aye

My thoughts exacly, I'll continue to forget about it all, I was just wanting the opinions of others on the matter, anyway I'm seeing the girl-in-questions friend atm which I like v much Embarassed

All is well!

Brod Thumbs Up

P.S He is a prick btw Laughing

It's what I liked about him when we were younger, I outgrew it I guess.

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plugger147 · World Chat Champion Joined: 13 Mar 2005 Karma :

Tell him he's being a prick, I have done in the past. Some people don't realise that they are doing shitty things until you tell them, if he smacks you get him banged up then give her one. Laughing

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killa · Won't Shut Up Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Karma :

I've been there and not asked anyone about it, followed my instincts *knob* did the bad thing, and everything fucked from there.

Stay away, if somethings meant to happen it will, but not in this way.
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xlizx · Scooby Slapper Joined: 17 Jun 2005 Karma :

Babyyam's right. She's massaging her ego by running to you. She clearly has no intention of leaving him, or she would commit herself to the idea of being with you. She's testing the water, and you'd be best off not involved.
If your mate IS such a bastard to her, have a word?

veeeffarr · Super Spammer Joined: 22 Jul 2004 Karma :

PUNCH HER TITS