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tatters · Exxon Valdez Joined: 05 Jan 2004 Karma :

Completey ended it with my girlfreind tonight after almost 9 months together, we were in happy loving relationship right up to the 27th of march were she suddenly told me over the phone that she did,nt love me any more and that l had done nothing wrong and that it was all her fault etc, up to tonight from then she would never answer my texts or calls and was never at home and now she has said she nevers want to see me again and l,m to get fu*cked (plus other colourfully words) all because l kept calling her phone during this time and spoke to her dad.

What that has make this much more painfull to me is not the fact she would,nt speak to me in person but that she knew l was going to propose to her this year and sell my fireblade to go towards the deposite on our first home.

Not feeling too good at the moment. Thumbs Down

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Dazbo666 · World Chat Champion Joined: 06 Jun 2004 Karma :

Sounds as if for whatever reason, she's not ready for the commitment that's required??

Dunno what to say really... "time is a great healer"? but I'm sure that's not much of a consolation at the moment.
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thegubner · World Chat Champion Joined: 25 Mar 2007 Karma :

Its fucking shit aint it Sad

on the plus side you could spend the money from ring/wedding and selling blade on a new bike for yourself Thumbs Up

It does get better though pal, time is the best healer and all that old chesnut,

keep ya pecker up and find yourself some local slags to while the time away Very Happy

Chriss · World Chat Champion Joined: 07 May 2005 Karma :

Chin up, if you wanna go for a ride/drink or something, give us a shout! You're just down the road (70 miles worth of A2) from me! Smile

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tatters · Exxon Valdez Joined: 05 Jan 2004 Karma :

fredsredhat · Traffic Copper Joined: 11 Sep 2005 Karma :

afraid its the old Time is a good healer cliche mate. It is shit and it might feel like the end of the world but just give it time. go out, get pissed. well in self pity if you have to, go shag some slags like has been said. you wont feel like this forever. chin up mate Thumbs Up

stinkwheel · Bovine Proctologist Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Karma :

At least you found out now before you were totally committed. Better that way really, saves a hell of a lot of problems further down the line.
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michael j · World Chat Champion Joined: 14 Jan 2006 Karma :

Tough break, mate.
I didn't meet my mrs until I was 30. You've got all the time in the world to meet someone else. You're a decent bloke, you'll be alright. You've just got to get out there and put it about. Thumbs Up

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peppa pig · Scooby Slapper Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Karma :

I know its not much consolation at the mo, but somewhere down the line you will meet someone really fantastic and only then will you realise that this happening was probably for the best.

Hope you feel better soon.

ps and at least you found out before you sold the bike.

..... · Quote Me Happy Joined: 15 Jan 2005 Karma :

At least it's happened now instead of when you had sold your bike and bought a house together.

Unlucky dude - time heals and all that.

nrml76 · Brolly Dolly Joined: 05 Nov 2005 Karma :

Without meaning to sound offensive, I think you have escaped from financial and emotional disaster eventhough it doesn't seem that way now. The right partner will come along. This experience will make you cautious about whom you commit to. It might make the difference between a successful long term relationship and divorce in future.
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Odie · World Chat Champion Joined: 24 Jul 2004 Karma :

At lease you still have the fire blade. Thumbs Up

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Andy C · Tree Seeking Missile Joined: 26 Apr 2005 Karma :

yea that sucks man, but like been said least you know what shes really like now than later. someone that turns like that isnt worth your time Thumbs Up

Just try and keep busy and try and find some "fun" along the way Thumbs Up

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Sephiroth · World Chat Champion Joined: 09 Apr 2006 Karma :

Anyway summer is decending upon us and everyone knows that summer isn't for girlfriends. Wink

*Slightly less serious note but it's got a hint of truth in it!*

Hope you feel a bit better soon.

fire · World Chat Champion Joined: 06 Feb 2006 Karma :

pwntifex · World Chat Champion Joined: 23 Aug 2006 Karma :

Ignore the above post.
Never get back with an ex. It only ends in tragedy.
Move on and good luck matey. Thumbs Up

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J0Al1 · World Chat Champion Joined: 25 Nov 2006 Karma :

Sorry your hurting, but from what you have said, she is no where near ready to marry anyone with bahaviour like that.