Why do women always end up picking the wrong guy??

alliamc · Nearly there... Joined: 04 Jun 2003 Karma :

I have a history of picking the wrong guy, or the wrong guy picks me and I just go along with it! I got dumped two days after Christmas for reasons I can't say, after I had been devoting all my time to him and he did f*ck all back for me (very frustrated in many ways right now!!), it just seemed so unreasonable... so anyway, I'm probably going to end up with another bad choice of man, how do I cure this annoying disease that most women seem to have??
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Itchy · Super Spammer Joined: 07 Apr 2005 Karma :

Craig's list has an interesting take on this

https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/lax/483318927.html
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..... · Quote Me Happy Joined: 15 Jan 2005 Karma :

Amateur, everyone knows you dump the girl before Christmas to save buying a present.

Itchy · Super Spammer Joined: 07 Apr 2005 Karma :

Is it me or do I hear Bonny Ricardo lurking?. Laughing

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alliamc · Nearly there... Joined: 04 Jun 2003 Karma :

..... · Quote Me Happy Joined: 15 Jan 2005 Karma :

I don't get why people hate being single?

I quite like it, go out, have a laugh, play the field a bit.

Alli, you're a good looking girl, go out and enjoy yourself.

Itchy · Super Spammer Joined: 07 Apr 2005 Karma :

Hold on a sec..... this sounds rather familiar.

So really you had a short relationship , it ended as you were incompatible with each other in one way or another , its called dating , and hell you are only 23 and judging by the fact that most of me peers got married and settled around 26-27ish there is plenty of time to find another.

Go look for another ,

Happens to us all , count yourself lucky they initiated it and are willing to let go , earlier this year I got stalked and it was highly unpleasant. Also that the relationship didn't go massively deep , ie joint mortgages and indetureship like that.

However as the saying goes, becareful what you wish for , you might get it.

EDIT

It'd be the wrong guy if he treated you badly beat you and or constantly undermined your confidence etc, otherwise its a case of incompatability.
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alliamc · Nearly there... Joined: 04 Jun 2003 Karma :

Fair enough, gotta get used to being single... and it was a year and a half with this guy.
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st3v3 · Super Spammer Joined: 16 Oct 2006 Karma :

I don't know what to say other than:

I saw your pics from the competition on maxim(I think) and your a fairly fit gal, I'd be spending some time partying or just generally getting out/socialising, this recent split don't mean you have to wait for the next man to come along, time to have some fun and see what takes your fancy when it takes your fancy, there's millions of blokes out there, being single has double the pro's being taken does. Now..... Get out there and let your hair down. Thumbs Up

P.S, If your already a partying little rebel then your simply not trying hard enough. Laughing

I haven't been in a relationship as such for about 2 years and although I'm getting to the stage of finding myself near one, it's great fun to be able to do what you want when you want. Karma

Life's a bit of give and take. Wink

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I honestly dont believe you can have a long term stable relationship with a virgin.
My first ex was perfect in that she'd had one previous ex who was shite... that was a good set up Very Happy

The second ex was a virgin, and whilst you think thats all well and good, it takes longer to 'train' em, and you know they'd start getting wandering eyes in a year or so anyway.

Best they get a couple of shit shags under their belt before Thumbs Up

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scorps · World Chat Champion Joined: 29 Jan 2007 Karma :

The devoting yourself comment makes me think you may be a little clingy with blokes possibly, but its difficult to know obviously, you are very attractive, do you contribute much in the way of grown up conversation or do men see you as a bit of eye candy to hang off their arm, we cant really tell you what to do when we dont know what you are like, maybe your far too intellectual and intimidate men? if you cant say why youve been dumped then it must be bad,

My 24 year old daughter has just told me to tell you this.

single is great fun, be yourself and never fawn after your bloke, be nice to them but dont make them your world. decent men want someone to talk to not just shag if the brain isnt stimulated then things dont last in the trouser department,
go out have fun and remember that you dont need to be part of a pair to feel complete apart from shoes obviously Very Happy

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h00dwink · World Chat Champion Joined: 04 May 2006 Karma :

You're in the right location to be a Winnah no? Come for a ride on the 6th. That should take your mind off things a bit.
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Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Go out and have fun as other people have said.

Also is it just me who keeps falling for girls who have bf's, every girl im attracted seems to be attached in some way. Not had a proper relationship since i broke up with my long term ex in July 2006.

Maybe im destined to be single.
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Harold_Shand · World Chat Champion Joined: 07 Jun 2004 Karma :

It's because you have no self-respect.
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Harold_Shand's theory might be the best explanation.

pwntifex · World Chat Champion Joined: 23 Aug 2006 Karma :

Not being able to hack the single life immediately sets alarm bells ringing for most guys.
Tend to find it's a pretty accurate indicator of low self-esteem, which is hardly surprising in an allegedly attractive girl.

The fact that you seem to 'pick the wrong man' time after time seems to indicate that the base problems lie at your feet and not those of your prospective partners.

Being allegedly attractive leaves you in a bit of a quandary in that, generally, unattractive/unconfident men will fall over themselves to do your bidding, and will put you on a pedestal so high that it is inevitable that you will fall off (at which point they'll kick you to the kerb before you can say 'Christmas'). I'm not sure whether your reasons for avoiding attractive men are valid; it sounds as if you avoid them because self-confidence in a partner scares you, as your shattered self-esteem makes it impossible for you to believe that anybody happy with themselves and unlikely to feel as if they need you to make them complete would want to be with you.

Congratulations and that.
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_Will_ · World Chat Champion Joined: 16 Jan 2006 Karma :

As Roy from IT crowd says ''All women love a bastard''

For reasons unbeknown to me women choose blokes who treat them like shit then go on about how they can never find a nice guy.....usually to a nice guy who takes the time to listen. Neutral

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TUG · World Chat Champion Joined: 12 May 2007 Karma :

I'm a nice guy and my gf picked the right guy imo, i look after her when shes ill, give her back rubs and listen to her when shes upset, we know each other so well now. I started talkin to her for about 6 months on msn before we met up and we hit it off big time. you gotta take things slow. Whats the point in rushing stuff when you live for so long? I couldnt be happier with my gf, and i'm glad we just talked and flirted so much before we made our decision to build a relationship.
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oddkid · Nitrous Nuisance Joined: 16 Nov 2006 Karma :

Don't lump me in with this generalization. Personally i have strong belief in soul mates and finding the one perfect partner that completes your soul. I found mine and i certainly sure as hell don't have any urge to sleep with anyone else.

So not all men are the same Alliamc, you just got to keep looking for the right one!
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