So what do I do next?

[virus]

Ok so at the moment I seem to be at a stop in my life and I havent got a clue what to do.

Ive just failed college, I have no job, no savings and no girlfriend.


On the plus side, ive got the freedom to do whatever I want when I can afford it, and I have a few good mates nearby.


So what should I do? im lost as to what to do next.




Cheers
John
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stinkwheel Well I just had my hands up a pigs fanny. Which makes your concerns pale into insignificance.

[.....]

Go back to college and pass, get a job, get some savings and get a girlfriend.

[TUG]

as above really, thats what am tryna do.
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[Dragonfly]

if you cant be arsed with college again then do the rest of what Joe said. find job and many good things emerge from having money and meeting people. Its not the end of the world. Good luck.
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[plugger147]

Stop feeling sorry for yourself for a start, kick yourself up the arse and set yourself a goal.Girlfriends and savings are neither here nor there, they come along as life goes on.

Either:

1: find yourself a crappy job and be happy just getting by.
2:It's the right time to get into looking at college courses look at them.
3:pray you find that lucky job where you fit in and can go further.
4:find a fiddle that suits you for a bit while you decide.
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[st3v3]

Keepin yourself dead focused and really determined to reach a goal works.

So think of a realistic goal, like get a job. Whatever experience you have, someone somewhere will need ya, so find where and get sorted. As said, cash and socializing comes from it so before you know it you'll probs have the cash, new mates and a girl.

Plus there is college if you wanna go re-try that.

Winner.
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[weemo2007]

In my experience, you have to be at a low point before you can move on,,, sounds to me you are there, most importantly,,, don't let yourself go any lower.....

Firstly find a job no matter how sh**y it is, once you are earning you will move on to a better one...

Lean on your mates for surport, not your full weight, as you will piss them off....

The rest comes natuarlly, taking each day as they come, remembering and learning from this point in your life,,, cause hold onto your hat,,, it's not going to be your first low but the beginning of many highs...

Good luck
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[jimbothe]

First off, have a wank, you always feel better after that
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Sit down have a re think and re asses your life you may need to take some time out

I am going through a rough time at the moment it has been documented on here and is still goin on and will for a while longer

Yes I am still on the sick have been since last march 07 DVLA are still pissin about with my licence house still in disarray still needs major work might be finished by xmas I hope might even get bacjk to work this year if I am lucky

good luck with what you decide to do but stop feeling sorry for yourself as only you can do something about it

I dont have a man in my life but quite happy with that

[Benj]

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[trevoriv]

Far too much EMO in this thread.
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[TUG]

Same here marjay. Wish i would of lived instead of being a fuckin pussy. Am tryin now tho.
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[st3v3]

Ben you're younger than me........

Just do what you want now, f*ck the rest and live your life how you want, you only do it the once so why not make it count?
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Roger wrote: Women don't get damp for clingy puppies. Get some better happy pills, hit the gym & buy a medallion the size of a dinner plate. Job done

[virus]

Exactly what im thinking at the moment.

Im planning on making as much money as I can, building some stupid bikes, and doing some stupid tours on them.

Ill worry about a career and a house when if i make it to 25.



Cheers
John
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stinkwheel Well I just had my hands up a pigs fanny. Which makes your concerns pale into insignificance.

[tutton]

Apprenticeship to da rescue,
do some training
get some dosh

Go out on the pull for a slag.
Your set for life. haha
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[Stevep]

Find a job that gets you some reasonable money.

Then think long and hard about what you want out of life...talk to your friends, family, colleagues

Our son has tried several things he's now 21 and just fallen on the course he really wants through me talking to others and speaking to him...he's got the top marks of the year and loves what he's doing....hoping to go to Uni next year and really loving life....he has at last found what he wants to do!

Don't give up hope......what you want is out there....reach for it...

Pam
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[colin1]

[jimbothe]

[Pie-Roe]

Hey mate, just seen this post.

I personally was at the same point about a year ago, if a little younger than you.

I was a very high acheiver at school (primary) all the teachers sang my praise and I won a scholarship (sp?) to the private school in the area.

I didn't go, I'm from a normal background where people actually have to balance money and not throw it around, and my parents felt I'd get victimised/looked down on because I'd have to get public transport and not have a pool and a big house to bring my friends back. And they didn't want me to not experience 'real' education.

So I went to a decent grammar school, where in the first 3 years I was very much the same, getting straight A's and working hard. I got grade 6 saxophone in year 8. After that it went downhill. I just stopped caring. Fucked up gsce's and then the school let me contine to As because they beleived I would change.

I didn't. As soon as I went into year 12 I hardly turned up to school, prefering to piss around doing nothing, or drinking/smoking too much.

Left shortly after that and had a 12 hour job at weekends, which was alright. But it left me with nowt to do during the week, and I couldn't go out with friends because of work. So I got pissed off with that and generally thought that life was pointless. I was getting into debt from parents cause I'd drink away the money, or just spend it doing nowt. Didn't get to see any friends, and then the ladyfriend from my other post cheated on me the first time, that hit me quite hard. I stopped going to work and eventually got fired.

I had to sort it out.

What I did was

College. I applied to do a NVQ in catering and catering theory, got accepted, and got my certificate a week ago.

I got a job doing catering 35-45 hours a week, it's lower money than a job I would have got if I had done 25 a week, but it works out the same.

I think the important thing is to find something that will occupy your time,

Think of it like this.

If you have college (which you should go back to with a fresh mind)
thats what like 10-22 hours a week, 3 days?

If you can get a job which is 30 hours a week, even on low money, you will feel better because you have nearly no free time, and you will actually be getting tired out, thus sleeping better. You will save money, and then when you actually get some time off, you have it to spend.

At the same time you will be saving.

Look into bar work ( I think you are 19) at this time of year they are normally looking for people who want to work over the summer with an aim to replace people who are leaving to go to uni/gap year come september. Money is normally min wage or roundabouts, but it's a job.

I hope you get sorted soon mate.

Pyro
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