Well my dad left again.

[warped one]

Well my father has left again.

I'm used to this it has hapend many times over my life. But this time more than most I'm as you could say in charge of the house. The only people are in her are my missus and my mother, now as man of you from "normal" backrounds may say

"your mm is in charge now."

May I my mother has no idea of what it means to be a responsible adult, through outmy life I have put up with many of things that mde me think was normal like beatings on humiliation.

But my brother and sister have left me to sort out this mess as per usual. but after all this, and this pain and abuse my father endures through prodominantly knowing that his mother is dying and walking out, after my whole life not knowing what was happenng next (for new member i have mental problems) for this night, te only person in my whole life who I respect so much as too die for at a willing wish has walked ou on me, and call me stupid and give me negative karma for not saying my mother loves me for I know she does but please tell me how I should behaive too, this as this shll may unfortunately be my last post.

Cheers

Warped

P.s. I'm 19 and trying to sort out a 49 y.r mother along wth my own problems
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amnesia - Never in the history of usernames has one been more accurate. Warped indeed. You sir are a fecking oddball.

[strag]

Stop drinking. At 02:49 you post you tube vids about R1 V Busa then this?
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[warped one]

I also must say my father wasd the only person who could control me
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amnesia - Never in the history of usernames has one been more accurate. Warped indeed. You sir are a fecking oddball.

[strag]

Try taking control of yourself, if he keeps buggering off you are on a loser.
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[Phoenix]

You'll make a great man of the house, up at half 4, pissed off your skull and talking bollocks, go to bed.

[faddius]

Maybe this should be in auntie bcf?
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[Dragonfly]

Well as everyone pointed on getting pissed isnt going to solve anything apart from give us a cofusing post.

As for saying your mother dosnt know responsibility, your 19 and dont sound like you know it either. You are an adult! You should be independant by now and have moved on if the beatings where so bad. Sorry if that sounds harsh But you really have to step up here no moaning or whinning because your only 19 and have to go through this. Poeple have been through it younger and managed to battle on without getting pissed and feeling sorry for themselves.

No it isnt fair that you should but thats how life is. I owned my own house when I was 19 ffs!and was out of my parents when I was 17.

I cant understand the last paragraph of what you said, sorry.

Just be strong, stand up and do whats best without getting pissed and crumbling away while being bitter at other people. if your mums dying then then this is not the time for pointing the finger at your dad or siblings, look after her if you have to.
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Muzza on Binge:
He's too busy beating the everloving shit out of Lizzie to notice this thread has taken a turn down Drama Avenue and stopped off at the popcorn shop.

[Drew]

I get the feeling 'Silky' doesn't like 'Warp' but maybe he should learn something about the karma system

Rating the original post 'off topic' (in 2 separate posts) is not really a clever thing to do How can the original post be 'off topic'

Just a little tip for Silky....

This post is Off Topic:
Use this reason when a post has nothing to do with the thread it's posted in, for example if somebody starts talking about their pet hamster in a thread about piston rings.



ps, this post is 'off topic', so you know what one looks like

[JakeyR]

[colin1]

Hang in there.

Try and be there for your mum without it taking over your life.

At about your age, my mum was going through a difficult time and I wasnt really there for her, and just shut out the problems hoping she'd sort herself out in time.

She didnt, so I guess maybe I should have given her a bit of tlc at the time.

At the same time though, you still need to not lose sight of your own life an goals.

Try to dig deep and find some inner strength so you can deal with the problems rather than running away into a bottle or whatever.
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