Agree to disagree?

[Louise]

Hmmm difficult subject to really explain to everyone.
Due to most being straight and male on here ill direct the queston to you.
If your Mrs started to watch lesbian porn, would you mind?
No - is what im guessing?
Hmm having a right debate with the new girly and its getting a bit serious now.
Getting to the point she hates men in that way - never kiss/slept with one in her life.
Watching something last night I turned around and said 'He looks fuckable' which at the point I got the worse glare ive seen.
I then went on to say how most Lesbo porn looks fake and doesnt interest me at all - Id rather watch Hetro couples doing it.
Again she didnt say a word to me for ages.
I asked what the issue was and she asked if I was 'Bisexual' I said no. But I fancy some men, doesnt mean I want to sleep with them?
Dose that also make sence
If I were to say im bisexual she would end things with me right away - she hates men that much - so she has an issue somewhere.
What im trying to ask is - For a gay girl to 'fancy' men doesnt make me bisexual right? because I wont sleep with you bints
Hmmmmm im loosing myself on this already
Debate.

[iooi]

I guess your partner is feeling inscure.

If i caught the Mrs watching lesbian porn, i would not be bothered... Been married to long to let anything like that worry me.

Porn is porn, no matter what sex's are involved in it. It is just entertainment...

Same with other people, you can find attractiveness in both male and female, without having thoughts of jumping them
____________________
Just because my bike was A DIVVY, does not mean i am......

[Andy C]

I watch porn all the time, since i live in student house with my GF shes caught me wanking sometimes (doesnt go down well).

Porn is just porn in my view. Kind of agree with you about that. Just because tour watching other people have sex doesnt mean you want to have sex with them.
____________________
99 RS125 --> 02 SV650s --> 03 Speed Four --> 92 RXS100 --> 93 CB400sf --> 01 CB600f Hornet

[The Disapproving Brit]

You're probably asking in the wrong place. Straight women can appreciate attractiveness in other women without any sexual attraction. I don't see any reason why a gay girl couldn't do the same with guys.

Men are a different breed. See, where a girl will look at an attractive girl and think "she looks hot", men will generally see a stereotypical 'hot guy' and just think "what a cunt"
____________________
Current Bikes: 1983 Honda VF400FD / 2003 Honda VT750 Shadow
Bike Test Passed 18/03/09, Car Test Passed 14/05/13

[Skudd]

Does she use a dildo?
Thats a male substitute. Just doesn't have the man attached.
Is she trying too hard to be a lesbian, she is young and probably thinks lesbians hate all things male and can only like women. I would have thought even gay women would sometimes have the "natural" urge to copulate with a male or find a male trait attractive. ( most of the lesbians I know have either got kids or have been in a straight relationship at least once) .

Porn is porn, I don't like male gay porn but if my girlfriend watched it it wouldn't cheese me off, I have watched transgender porn and although it doesn't really float my boat it has aroused the old chap. Even when some drugged up eastern european chubby has tried to shove a horse/dog/pig up her crack it has had some effect. Like I said porn is porn. But if she doesn't like hetro porn but will watch lezzy porn with you and then act it out i know what i would be watching.
____________________
Famous last words of Humpty Dumpty. " Stop pushing me "
Petty Anarchists look at "1984".............. The Visionary looks at "Animal Farm".

[Tarmacsurfer]

Agree with Skudd. She sounds like most of the younger "scene" lesbians I've stumbled across, confuses lesbianism/feminism with misandry.

In terms of sexuality you may or may not be bi, only you will ever know. To be honest, sexuality is almost invariably a personal definition anyway. Whilst I'm pretty vanilla I can still look at an attractive bloke and see that they're attractive, doesn't mean I have any intention of jumping his bones though.

In my humble opinion, if you fancy it and want to fuck it then go for it. Only one thing matters and that's consent.

Genuinely surprised here, post has been up nearly 3 hours and no one has asked for video evidence or pictures of sexual practices as proof of your lesbian credentials
____________________
I'm immortal. Well, so far.

[Handsome]

A bloke I know through a mate is as gay as they come, but he fancies my mates wife, to the extent that he's told all of us he'd love to fuck her six ways from Sunday, apparently she's the only woman he's ever fancied......

It's just one of those things, tell her to get over it, tbh it sounds like she's trying to hard to be gay, I'd ask her if she's insecure about being so...
____________________
Previous Bikes...Honda NSR 125 RR...Kawasaki Zephyr 550...Suzuki SV 1000 S...Yamaha FZ8...Current Bike...Suzuki GSX-R 750...

[Dragonfly]

If you fancy men and are lesbian but only sleep with girls then your still lesbian not bi sexual. You just appreciate beauty on both sides. I am not a lesbian but say some girls a good looking, girls are allowed to do that anyway.

Its the start of a relationship you both are not going to be exactly the same, would be boring if you where. There small things that make or break you, except and carry on or go. Like little signs I call them.
____________________
All the breast.
Muzza on Binge:
He's too busy beating the everloving shit out of Lizzie to notice this thread has taken a turn down Drama Avenue and stopped off at the popcorn shop.

[J0Al1]

My question is. . .

Is there a difference between fancying someone and finding someone attractive. . . ?

I think there is. I see good looking men and women, but is quite rare for me to actually fancy (feel funny) about someone

I'm totally straight, but there is one girl at work who I think has a lot of sex appeal. If I were a man, I'm be after her number.


She has to accept you for what you are, or it will never work.

Maybe, she just needs a little more maturity, but perhaps you could be a little sensative about the subject now.

[Drew]

[Drew]

[The Disapproving Brit]

Of course it could always just be the typical girl reaction. Y'know, the one we get when we get caught staring at another girls arse.
____________________
Current Bikes: 1983 Honda VF400FD / 2003 Honda VT750 Shadow
Bike Test Passed 18/03/09, Car Test Passed 14/05/13

[Phoenix]

[cheesyleps]

Gay room-mate at college had a very similar fight with his boyfriend. Boyfriend found straight porn on his laptop and started accusing him of having an affair with a girl.

The guy doing the accusing was inherently quite an insecure person (was rejected by his family at a young age etc.) and that was his first gay relationship.

Similar situation with your missus at all? Or just a typical female over-reaction?
____________________
"Son, some day you will make a girl very happy, for a short period of time. Then she'll leave you and be with new men who are ten times better than you could ever hope to be. These men are called Sailors."

[Tarmacsurfer]

[DEN MONKEY]

I think she is insecure and is projecting her thoughts and emotions on to you.

I also think just because she has had an issue with men before doesn't necessarily make her gay, it just makes her scared of men.
So maybe somewhere in the back of her mind she fancies blokes but just can't come at them.

There's a difference between liking the same sex simply because you do and being scared of the opposite sex.
Sounds like she's with women because her situation leaves her with a distinct lack of options.

I remember having a chat with a gay co-worker and I pointed out a big pair of tits on the bird walking across the street. I then made a point of saying ooops I kinda forgot who I was speaking to.
He said, no mind I can appreciate a good pair of tits as much as the next bloke, I just don't wanna play with em.
Ok, so maybe not quite as much as the next bloke but it's same same to your situation.

You're fine but I think she needs to see someone .
____________________
meh

[Fortuna]

Hmmmm,
It's a bit like us turning to our wives and/or girlfriends and saying "that blokes fuckable".

[J0Al1]

[DEN MONKEY]

[J0Al1]

[Robby]

She's female, so she's mental. Punch her tits, then get a bloke to do her in the garry.

[sickpup]

When she's lounging there one night after a bit of hard scissor sister action with the double ender listening to Melissa Etheridge you may want to point out that Ms Etheridge while in a hot tub with various other naked women publicly stated she would have Brad Pitts baby, he promptly sent her a vial of his love juice.

On the other point your new toy needs to get over her hatred of men (misandry) and accept there are a lot of us in the world, that or join the Lesbian Avengers.

[jack_zxr400]

you can thing someones hot or sexy or w/e and not want to have sex with them

doesnt make you bi
____________________
Previous Bike: ZXR 400
Current Bike: R6
Test Date: 8/8/2008-PASSED

[Rottweiler]

sounds like your bi and if you have shagged men before that further backs it up, you could of said he was good looking but you said he was fuckable hence you wanted to or would shag him.
____________________
were: piaggio nrg..ybr 125
now: cg 125

[colin1]