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PostPosted: 16:00 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Girlfriend had a miscarriage... Reply with quote

Her period finished about a week and a half ago, and a few days ago she started bleeding heavily. She went to the doctor already pretty sure what was up. What we didn't know was it was 6 weeks old and the period came anyway...
She's on the pill so we never thought this would happen. A bit shocked but it hasn't really hit me yet I think. Mixed feelings I guess...
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PostPosted: 16:03 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Aren't you like 12?
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PostPosted: 16:06 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm 19 and it's not really the time. Fuck off
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PostPosted: 16:06 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

count yourself very fucking lucky.
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PostPosted: 16:13 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

unfortunately, bcf isnt often the best one to turn to at times like this

glad i didnt have to deal with anything like that at your age

it might be a good idea to start using condoms just to be on the safe side
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PostPosted: 16:14 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm not sure if you're happy or sad about this, but I'd be fucking elated.

Shaun and Matt, Thumbs Up . Both managed to avoid any references about a solid punch to the ovaries.
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PostPosted: 16:16 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shaun's comment may have been insensitive, but you did curiously post this in random banter. If you're 19 maybe you should only have a planned infant, as you're probably not ready for an accident.
Friend of mine recently had a kid while his missus was on the pill. Either wear a condom as well as the pill or have a coat hanger handy.
Since you have mixed feelings at the moment I won't respond either way. Thumbs Up Don't let it put you off fucking mate!
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PostPosted: 16:24 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

robby wrote:
I'd be fucking elated


Same here, I'd be celebrating like I just lost my virginity with a porn star.
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PostPosted: 16:29 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe he used the sex wee by mistake. So easy to get confused at that age.
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PostPosted: 17:10 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lol at my ex. She's still stirring shit up after being with her new boyfriend for almost half a year Shocked I think she never got over me cause she's been trying to ruin my new relationship...
Of course I'm happy I don't have to go through with being a father at 20! It would ruin my life. Just a bit messed up though thinking my would be child died..
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PostPosted: 17:26 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Svedebo wrote:
a bit messed up though thinking my would be child died..

She had a period ! thats all.
Big girls do that about once a month.

Now enjoy the easter weekend ... the sun is shining and we all own bikes Smile
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PostPosted: 17:41 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

turn that frown upside down
https://www.lukechueh.com/images/paintings/paintings-whole/The-Miscarriage.jpg

cook it Twisted Evil
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Kickstart wrote: Hi I tend to agree with Matt. All the best Keith
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PostPosted: 17:45 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Svedebo wrote:
Just a bit messed up though thinking my would be child died..


You must be suicidal after every wank then.
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PostPosted: 18:22 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not a good idea to put this stuff on this forum. Especially since half the users are wankers and don't have girlfriends

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PostPosted: 19:05 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

MinhDinh wrote:
I love youuuuuuuu hellkat


Oh you think saying that will avoid you getting abusive ratings do you.

Noooooooo.
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PostPosted: 19:29 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry for you, but at the same time you must be pretty relieved that a) you're not going to be a dad yet, and that b) at least your swimmers do their job! Laughing

One thing people should know is that the pill is almost entirely effective at stopping this sort of thing happen if taken in EXACT accordance with the guidelines given - the problems start to come when people miss pills (taking 2 the next day doesn't work), when the person is ill and throws it back up or through some other interaction with a medication they are taking. It may be worth double checking everything is Kosher with your misses - I'm not for a minute suggesting that you go in all guns blazing and ask her if she had forgotten to take etc. especially at this sensitive time. It is good to be aware that under certain circumstances extra caution is needed and obviously if you know when interactions are likely to happen, to implement a bit of common sense with extra protection as and when.

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PostPosted: 19:42 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

To be honest, some things are best kept to yourself

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Girlfriend had a miscarriage...


Like this.

Not everyone who comes on BCF wants to know. Besides it's hardly something that warrants posting over the internet for all to see.
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PostPosted: 20:16 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry to hear about this but I think its maybe a warning to be more careful if you dont want children at your age. Its a horrible thing
for any women through and maybe you should be thankful that it was 6 weeks and not further on where its more difficult, labour is involved then.
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PostPosted: 20:19 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shaun wrote:
MinhDinh wrote:
I love youuuuuuuu hellkat


Oh you think saying that will avoid you getting abusive ratings do you.

Noooooooo.


TBH, I think I'm at a stage in my life where I have to accept you as another human being, rather than just think of you as a creepy housemate, who sniffs russian chicks thongs when they are out on friday night. I know you do so don't deny.

Plus go and get a girlfriend so it doesn't offend you. That way I won't get bad karma from you Smile
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PostPosted: 20:27 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

MinhDinh wrote:
TBH, I think I'm at a stage in my life where I have to accept you as another human being, rather than just think of you as a creepy housemate, who sniffs russian chicks thongs when they are out on friday night. I know you do so don't deny.

Plus go and get a girlfriend so it doesn't offend you. That way I won't get bad karma from you Smile


The russian female in my house is hot, you'd sniff her underwear if you had the chance.

Oh and I don't want a girlfriend, they demand like attention and stuff, annoying.
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PostPosted: 20:29 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

mooserx wrote:
To be honest, some things are best kept to yourself

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Girlfriend had a miscarriage...

Like this.

Not everyone who comes on BCF wants to know. Besides it's hardly something that warrants posting over the internet for all to see.

Bollocks. Some people find posting on fora of this nature (where in the majority of cases anonymity is King) a very cathartic experience. If it helps to alleviate the pain or purely provides an emotional release then why shouldn't someone be able to post details of their personal life?

Unless I'm missing some kinda hidden meaning, in this instance 'Girlfriend had a miscarriage' pretty much gives you as much information as you need in respect of the post content - if you didn't want to read it you didn't have to click on the thread title, you coud've moved onto such BCF Gems as 'I love you Hellkat', 'Two Girls, One Cup, (no sugar)' or the ever popular 'What do those green blobs mean?'.
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PostPosted: 20:56 - 03 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Next thread
"I just had a banging shit"
Will be posted in the next 15 when my turtle finds his way out.
Maybe i should call it
"My turtle has drowned down my toilet?" Laughing
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PostPosted: 01:22 - 04 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

mattsprattuk wrote:


I know you spent like an hour and a half finding that pic but it was fucking worth it.
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PostPosted: 01:36 - 04 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Had this post been in "Aunty" ... I might have considered posting opinions/emotions about the subject (having been there myself)

But seeing as how you chose to post it here, and people chose to turn it into a daft thread, I see little point.

The only relevance really is the "my would-be child died" ... which is, I have to say, a difficult thing to contemplate, whether through miscarriage or abortion, and depending whether you would be interested in parenthood or not, it only becomes relevant to you. Many is the time when I've thought "gosh, that was a heavy/late period, wonder if it was an early miscarriage - if so, thank fuck!" and other times when I've thought "Damn, what was that? Kinda woulda liked a bawling squalling pissing shitting chundering helpless bundle of wrinkles right about now/with/without the father's help or knowledge."

So yeah ...

Dunno.
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