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PostPosted: 21:55 - 14 May 2009    Post subject: lettin her know... Reply with quote

I hate ladys, just so hard to understand, theres a new one i wanna get to know a bit better and let her know i like her (like her Wink) but shes a bit shy, so im not sure how to go about telling her, or sparking off something i can link that onto if you get me, I thought of asking her out for a drink until i thought where the feck am i going to get served that isnt a skanky place i wouldnt want to take her anyway?
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I will have to find out if she likes it up the garry
much love Laughing
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PostPosted: 23:17 - 14 May 2009    Post subject: Re: lettin her know... Reply with quote

tutton wrote:
a skanky place i wouldnt want to take her


You mean up the garry? Confused
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PostPosted: 23:20 - 14 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

i love threads like these. they provide ammunition should we get into an internet argument in the future.
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PostPosted: 01:35 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Re: lettin her know... Reply with quote

tutton wrote:
I hate ladys


You're gay - find a man.

Happy to help,
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PostPosted: 11:23 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am a little confused, is this lady a 'lady'?

Would you not get served because you are too young? cuz that would make a bit mroe sense Smile
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PostPosted: 14:02 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah too young to get served, id get ID'd.
stu - ur a cunt, so fuck off out this thread iiite.
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PostPosted: 14:10 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Re: lettin her know... Reply with quote

tutton wrote:
I hate ladys.......blah blah blah...but shes a bit shy............


She's not shy, she just doesn't like you or want to talk to you. Leave her alone you sex pest! Laughing Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 14:11 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

maybe i should put my penis away before trying to speak to her Mr. Green Doh!
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PostPosted: 14:44 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

tutton wrote:
Yeah too young to get served, id get ID'd.


so maybe ask her out to somewhere that doesn't serve alcohol?

restaurant meal perhaps? (note: by restaurant i mean somewhere that has a menu that you hold in your hand rather than pointing at a "number X meal" picture on the wall)

*shrug* just thinking that if you actually like her and want to get to know her (as opposed to just wanting to rub Mr. Nudge round her insides) then not trying to get her drunk and pliable on a first try might be a winner?

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PostPosted: 14:46 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

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*shrug* just thinking that if you actually like her and want to get to know her (as opposed to just wanting to rub Mr. Nudge round her insides) then not trying to get her drunk and pliable on a first try might be a winner?

I want to do both Laughing
hmm thats not that bad a idea,
cheers will have a think about that..
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PostPosted: 15:01 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

karoshi wrote:
restaurant meal perhaps?


Good shout, plus in my experience if you go to an independent (not pizza express etc.) restaurant type place then you're more likely to get served if underage - Italian places are esp good for this sort of thing, and usually have a fairly easy to drink house red which eliminates the daunting prospect of choosing a wine from the list. Equally though, there is no pressure on you to buy booze in a restaurant either mind. Dunno what it's like down in Engerland, but up here in Jocksville you can legally buy beer when you're 16 if it's with a meal - there's a reason we have high rates of alcohol related illness here Laughing !

That said, it's a lot harder to take someone for a casual dinner than it is for casual drinks, so she may think you're coming on fairly strong. On the flip side though, if she agrees you know she's probably fairly keen!
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PostPosted: 15:07 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

The more i think about it, the more i cant think of how it can be off the cuff kind of thing to say, as id have had to plan it all out get a table etc Laughing
Which will blatently be trying to hard....
hmm
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PostPosted: 15:18 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Try something like: Hi, would you like to go out to dinner with me?

Crazy, wild, but it just might work?
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PostPosted: 15:20 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tiny bit too upfront isnt it? Laughing Question Wink
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PostPosted: 15:23 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

if you cant bring yourself to even talk to the girl, then save yourself the embarassment and self hatred of an evening full of awkward silences, and praying the food arrives soon so you can fill your face and leave.

we've all been there...
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PostPosted: 15:25 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can talk to her, just dont think it would feel right jumping in with a "formal kinda meal" yet. seems too full on if im being honest.

But i do like your recollection of events, rather fruity Laughing
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PostPosted: 15:26 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

tutton wrote:
Tiny bit too upfront isnt it? Laughing Question Wink


What did you have in mind? Giving it to her in code? Trying to be subtle about dinner?

"Hi, yeah, so, I love food. Really? You too? Wow! We have so much in comment! So, listen, I've got this dinner planned, cos I love food, and wondered if you wanted to try some with me? No, not like a date, well, yeah..."
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PostPosted: 15:27 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

God what an embarassment to romance you are.

Grow some balls and ask her out FFS, the worst thing she can say is no.
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PostPosted: 15:30 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

tutton wrote:
Tiny bit too upfront isnt it? Laughing Question Wink


Could be, but depends on what you want. If you want to date her, it's not - like I said, if she says yes you know she's keen, if you get knocked back she's not interested in dating you. End ex.

On the other hand if you just want to get to know her a bit better as a friend before straight up asking her on a date, this is probably not the way to go. However, if you wanted to go down this road I would have to say that you should grow a pair. Chances are if she's not interested at the outset then she wont be interested a month down the line, unless you could totally charm her senseless 'as a friend', but then again this is would be pretty creepy too...
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PostPosted: 15:31 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ouch dissed by jon b. fuck...
and well, like said a drink can be casual no booking of tables needed, unlike this food idea....
and i was thinking of the 2nd idea Embarassed Laughing
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PostPosted: 15:36 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ha. Shame folder.
Dear Auntie BCF is like shooting fish in a barrel.
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PostPosted: 15:37 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can look back at this in years to come and think, god its good i didnt take their advice on their, otherwise doing her up the poop shute on first date might of ended me up being battered by her old man Laughing
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PostPosted: 15:42 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah cause every girl goes to their father "I dumped him because he broke my sphincter". Neutral
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PostPosted: 16:00 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I knew her daddy before i knew her.
but i see your point Laughing
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PostPosted: 17:39 - 15 May 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Honest right, just put it to her straight, when you next see her/phone her, tell her you want to see more of her, or want to get to know her better, there's no point beating around the bush so to speak. Be up front, the whole friends before relationship never really works.

Worst she says is no, but in all tbh, who wouldn't turn down a free meal? Even if it does mean sitting with you while she chows down.

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