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Hetzer
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PostPosted: 14:26 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Ego. Reply with quote

There seems to be a general belief in spritual circles that if a person is able to totally negate their ego they reach Nirvana and are accepted back into god (or whatever).

Which would make sense, as to live in this world without any ego whatsoever would be totally pointless?

Discuss (if you like).
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PostPosted: 14:30 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

You need help.
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PostPosted: 14:43 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I do? How so?
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PostPosted: 14:46 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

ms51ves3 wrote:
You need help.


Entirely agreed.

Ego could mean so many things though. Self esteem is important to a point. The people we interact with are also important, and being of good character and not showing arrogance is important for many reasons. Over estimating who you are or being greedy, selfish and lusting / aspiring to what you can't have (power, money etc.) I guess is where ego starts to go all wrong. Especially if do have money or power, ego will be the destroyer of who you are.
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PostPosted: 14:48 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ok, so help me then. Laughing
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PostPosted: 14:50 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Without an ego you would slip out of society and no one would notice you.
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PostPosted: 15:01 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ego we need it, its helps push us forward. Its an energy.
It can be used honestly or dishonestly.

Web-chat isn't easy for me, i'm more a person to person kinda bloke. So can't enter in full to most typed discussions. Sad

Always interests me when people go through eureka moments and i'm glad Hetzer is enjoying his. Some people never have them or need them.


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PostPosted: 15:10 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

allymoss wrote:
Without an ego you would slip out of society and no one would notice you.


Not true. Because you're forgetting the super ego.

Id. Ego. Super ego. The three work together and that's what makes your personality.
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PostPosted: 15:16 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

flip wrote:
Id. Ego. Super ego. The three work together and that's what makes your personality.


Freud spouted such rubbish.


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PostPosted: 15:26 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's another scam.

A nation of people 'existing' on the absolute minimum and happy about doing so.

Advocation of non-violence... don't want to upset your karma by hitting someone back, do you?

A nation of people, just sitting.

Gives the ruling class a free-run to rape the GDP and live as kings.

Buddhism is the most relevant belief system still kicking around, but when you have a look at the process that occurs when conciousness enters a foetus... it's bullshit.

...and then you have to question the whole thing. But that's Buddhism and questioning it constantly is what it's all about.

I think it's impossible to rid yourself of ego. You would have to be monk-like... and quite frankly if it turns out I've only got this life to live and I've spent the cunt sitting down, without sex, without toys, without fun, I am going to be very upset with myself.

It would be alright for SOME to live without an ego, Buddhists rely on begging, but if we all did... I don't think life would be worth living. Ego is the engine, some of us have a 5 litre V12, others a 1.6 Diesel, a 50cc... some want it all and quickly, some chug along and enjoy the scenery, destination unknown. No ego would be like sitting in a tepid bath with your eyes closed forever.

I haven't really thought about any of this, It's either this or cbeebies.
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Harold_Shand's theory might be the best explanation.
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PostPosted: 15:29 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

How do you negate your ego? Can you negate your ego? Confused

If you switched your ego off what becomes of you?
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PostPosted: 16:06 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Re: Ego. Reply with quote

Hetzer wrote:

Which would make sense, as to live in this world without any ego whatsoever would be totally pointless?


I disagree.

If you get your ego out of the way it means you can appreciate things the way they are. You wouldn't consider them to be either good or bad, just netural.
You could be truly happy just to enjoy the feeling itself, instead of some other selfish reason. And when you'd be devastated, you wouldn't destroy yourself as the interpretation part would not be present. You'd just take it in as it is and move on once it's over.

But this's just a guess.
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PostPosted: 16:11 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here's the way I see it:
Without an ego in theory you wouldn't care what people think of you. But if you don't care, you'll end up doing things only for yourself, becuase you'll do what you want as you don't care what others think. This means you are a selfish little shit.
Having no ego is like having no soul. The ego is your drive. You want people to percieve you in a good light but there are different ways of going about it. Some people do it the nice way, by doing good things, and thereby aquiring a positive image. Some people will bully their way through life, taking charge and getting to the top, but this ultimately gives them a positive image due to their success.
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PostPosted: 16:29 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Whats ego ?
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PostPosted: 17:41 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

silky666 wrote:
Whats ego ?


Not what, where?
(As in 'Where d'ego'?)
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PostPosted: 18:58 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

FLUFFY BUNNY POST ALERT


If you keep posting normal posts Hetzer, I may have to start to like you. That is a Bastard trick to play on a person. Shocked
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PostPosted: 19:04 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah what's up Hetz? Has someone blackmailed you into being nice?
You're so calm and not violent lately, it's SICKENING! KANT! Laughing
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PostPosted: 22:07 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is a difference between self denial and denial of self.
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PostPosted: 02:21 - 12 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

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pyx_e: There is a difference between self denial and denial of self.


I like it 'cause it's true and profound Cool

According to Freud, the ego is that rational part of your mind that balances the desires of the id with the awareness of the super-ego; the id says "want that one", the super-ego says "But you know those ice creams will make you fat, and then people won't love you...". The ego says "Fat and happy, or thin and sad? Decisions, decisions...." And then make a decision based on whether you listen to your super-ego or id more...

The quest for nirvana could be seen as catering to the id - the fulfilment of all the id's desires along the pleasure principle... The ego is often thought of as where our minds really are, with the id being the animal wants and the super-ego being our socialised sense of self within a community, the ego is where we do our thinking, and where we make the compromises between id and super-ego: "I'll have ice-cream now, but go for a run tonight" - the well-balanced ego tries to compromise between the baser desires, and the guilt-inducing awareness of the opinion of others.

To me it seems a bit split personalityish, as if when we want an ice-cream, it's not a rational desire, but a product of the animal body we inhabit. And that the reason we don't do bad things is because our super-ego will punish us for 'breaking the rules'. It suggests that we can't make moral decisions based on morality and logic alone. Perhaps we can't. I dunno Rolling Eyes

As the posts show, the understanding/definition of what the ego is is still up for debate Neutral


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PostPosted: 02:24 - 12 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: 03:09 - 12 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Freed from desire Mind and senses purified

but freed from desire you have no drive

It's good to have a bit of drive and ambition, but its also good to be able to relax in contentment at the end of the day.

An on/ off switch would be handy.

Most people have their desires manipulated by others, the trick is, to find what you truly want and need.
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PostPosted: 11:05 - 12 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

colin1 wrote:
Freed from desire Mind and senses purified


Na na na na na na na, na na na, na na na
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PostPosted: 11:07 - 12 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi

I think I might describe a persons ego as the difference between their opinion of their worth and their real worth. As such it can be positive (when people have a higher view of themselves than reality can support) or negative (when people have a lower view). Most people have a strongly positive ego on most things.

Possibly the zero point on that scale is when they are at the point that Hetzer mentions.

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PostPosted: 11:42 - 12 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would define ego as a beast with two heads:

a) The need/desire to control/have control (of people and/or things/events etc).

b) The need/desire to impress others (especially those of the opposite sex).

Both of those components inhabit a very wide spectrum, and can be independant of each other per person. For some both are very unimportant, very important or one more or less important than the other. Age is an obvious factor.
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PostPosted: 16:18 - 12 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hetzer wrote:
I would define ego as a beast with two heads:

a) The need/desire to control/have control (of people and/or things/events etc).

b) The need/desire to impress others (especially those of the opposite sex).

So! Ego is a bad thing then ?
How would you describe someone that has both those traits ?
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