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| Pie-Roe |
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 Pie-Roe World Chat Champion

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 Posted: 23:16 - 08 Mar 2010 Post subject: Sorted |
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Hi all
Problem solved.
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Doesn't matter that they share room etc, she should still pay towards.... if you're moving out then cancel the phone/tv licence/internet and take your TV etc, no point aruging about it if you're moving out... but I think you're definetly right that you should be paying less... but as you're moving out there's not much point arguing it now and future flat mates won't be your problem  ____________________ Current Toys: 06 Yamaha WR250F | Nissan 350Z GT | Tech 4 Homes |
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 Andy C Tree Seeking Missile

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 Posted: 23:29 - 08 Mar 2010 Post subject: |
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I almost went into a houseshare where me and GF would have been sharing a room and general opinion we got from people (ourselves included) is that in terms of rent you should both pay less (but not 50% of the room as you still use communal areas) and bills split between all living there equally. I mean, heating the house benifits everyone regardless of what room you have or how many share it.
Sound like she is getting a free ride. Im starting to hate houseshares as they can become such a nightmare having the clean up after people or playing 'the waiting game'.
My GF lives with 1 girl and 5 guys and there all sound people but messy as so saturday morning me and her cleaned 7 peoples worth washing up so she could feel better about living there.
As said, you bang on with what you said but its two weeks I making enemies with people you live with never works out well. ____________________ 99 RS125 --> 02 SV650s --> 03 Speed Four --> 92 RXS100 --> 93 CB400sf --> 01 CB600f Hornet |
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| Visitor Q |
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 Visitor Q $25 whore

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I remember I got kak for having a mini fridge in my room at uni from one dickhead I lived with.
She used to have the electric heater on 24/7 with her window open, and shes giving me crap. The man who doesn't feel cold, ever.
Bah, point being is, people are dicks. You've got two weeks. Tell them you're skint and fairs fair, she could do with chipping in. If she doesn't, horde your shit in your room so they can't use it. Petty little victories
This said dickwad from my flat never took the bins out, nor did her boyfriend. So I forced my gf to stop doing it, and we just sat and watch them fester. And then ignored the maggots and made her clean it up. Hilarity I assure you.
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 No More Names ...... Spanner Monkey

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 Posted: 23:40 - 08 Mar 2010 Post subject: |
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As you moving out, the horse as bolted as it were, if you like him then just move out and on with your life, if he and she are skint most of the time then that matters to his decisions, if not he's took the piss a bit and you should remember that what you would not of done to him ...
Edit: also it might be her fault ....  ____________________ Flip Wrote: You're a bloke, you don't need kids. You need a vehicle, someone to shag, a dog and a shed. AKA Cuntdudes life and ambition ... A ++
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 iooi Super Spammer

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He has the upper hand as the legal tenant and if he wants her to live rent free thats his choice.
You could be really nasty and simply inform the landlord that he has been subletting...  ____________________ Just because my bike was A DIVVY, does not mean i am...... |
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 Neorion World Chat Champion

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Hang on, you sublet but are not on the lease? The phone is in your name? You pay the broadband and Tv license and chip in as well.
F3ck them mate, you give them a share you feel is valid the day you move out and you go, its not fair to be sat paying 50% of a 3 way.
I wouldn't, why should you, you all use the facilities. You should be paying 35% as its also a benefit that she is there but only if she is paying. You have your own room they share so them paying 65% seems right to me.
Not sure how they could disagree and if they come out with they should only pay 50% they can shag off.
Do they share the bathroom at the same time? The shower water? the seat on the sofa lol
I am being petty but you know what to do
Now do you have the balls to tell them to get f3cked
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You going to moan about it on a forum and pay up anyway like a b1tch muahahaha
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Valid views, but the main point now is he's moving out very soon, which renders the right or wrong into insignificance, it's only how he views them now, given the considerations that matters really, although he could still on principal tell them where to go ...  ____________________ Flip Wrote: You're a bloke, you don't need kids. You need a vehicle, someone to shag, a dog and a shed. AKA Cuntdudes life and ambition ... A ++
DOD Wrote: It was very interesting - the desolation of some of the areas of that city is quite remarkable. Shows what terrible town planning can do. |
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 chris-red Have you considered a TDM?

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I was in this situation myself there where us and 2 had (effectivly live in partners) live in Partners. I thought live and let live I doesn't that bother because I liked the partners, I couldn't be bothered with the hassle.
Then one of the girls started giving me shit because my laptop is always on and I flipped.
Literally Screamed mentioning the fact, she always has her heating on I never do, she always has her on TV I never did, her boyfriend was staying here most of the week rent and bill free and a few other things. I told her this didn't bother me and the only way I would consider turning my laptop off was if her bloke paid rent and bill and she turned her heating down and she stopping leaving her tv on. To which she said "well if you're going to be like that"  ____________________ Well, you know what they say. If you want to save the world, you have to push a few old ladies down the stairs.
Skudd:- Perhaps she just thinks you are a window licker and is being nice just in case she becomes another Jill Dando.
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 Pie-Roe World Chat Champion

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| Robby wrote: | You should have been splitting it 3 ways from when she moved in. You didn't, you're moving out in two weeks, do you want to cock up your friendship over a few quid now?
Friendships can go sour very quickly over things like this. |
To be fair, our friendship was kinda lost as soon as we started living together and I realised he has no respect for me, money or any of my things, and puts his needy immature freeloading girlfriend above me, and more importantly above his family.
I'm not fussed about losing the friendship, he doesn't go out, talk to me or socialize ever. They just sit here on their own, doing nothing.
I presumed we would be splitting it three ways, our last set of bills was 40 quid, and I just gave him 20 quid because she'd only been in about 3 weeks.
He just texted me asking what I'm doing about paying council tax. As far as I'm concerned being a full time student (technically) I don't pay council tax, and as he can't declare I'm living here, it's his problem. I'm getting the feeling I might just let slip that he's subletting, smoking and has damaged the flat.
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| pyroforlife wrote: | I presumed we would be splitting it three ways, our last set of bills was 40 quid, and I just gave him 20 quid because she'd only been in about 3 weeks. |
Ah well, this will be a new lesson learnt, never presume anything, especially with friends. Get stuff talked through immediately and written down...it may seem a little anal initially, but it will stop things getting out of hand further down the line.
I wouldn't bother stirring (says me ), but tell him straight about the council tax and it might be an idea to remind him about the sub-letting bit, if he pushes it further.
If possible start moving your stuff out now...(secretly) so on your final day you can tell him to get stuffed and be gone! ____________________ Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter won't mind - Dr. Seuss |
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 Kal World Chat Champion

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 Posted: 14:55 - 09 Mar 2010 Post subject: |
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Let it ride, as said above you are on short time. Smile nicely and make sure that nothing is still in your name after you leave.
It's never worth being petty with mates, and to be honest she doesn't sound like a real person - so just catagorise her as your mates pet. You wouldn't expect a cat to pay the rent.
I shared for years with a couple of really good mates, we had a blast when we lived together, but after we went our various ways it was a couple of yearw before we wanted to be in the same room again.
The Council Tax isnt your problem it is his, so explain it to him ____________________ Kal...
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