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Pie-Roe
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PostPosted: 23:16 - 08 Mar 2010    Post subject: Sorted Reply with quote

Hi all

Problem solved.

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PostPosted: 23:20 - 08 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

Doesn't matter that they share room etc, she should still pay towards.... if you're moving out then cancel the phone/tv licence/internet and take your TV etc, no point aruging about it if you're moving out... but I think you're definetly right that you should be paying less... but as you're moving out there's not much point arguing it now and future flat mates won't be your problem Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 23:29 - 08 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

I almost went into a houseshare where me and GF would have been sharing a room and general opinion we got from people (ourselves included) is that in terms of rent you should both pay less (but not 50% of the room as you still use communal areas) and bills split between all living there equally. I mean, heating the house benifits everyone regardless of what room you have or how many share it.

Sound like she is getting a free ride. Im starting to hate houseshares as they can become such a nightmare having the clean up after people or playing 'the waiting game'.

My GF lives with 1 girl and 5 guys and there all sound people but messy as so saturday morning me and her cleaned 7 peoples worth washing up so she could feel better about living there.

As said, you bang on with what you said but its two weeks I making enemies with people you live with never works out well.
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PostPosted: 23:36 - 08 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

I remember I got kak for having a mini fridge in my room at uni from one dickhead I lived with.

She used to have the electric heater on 24/7 with her window open, and shes giving me crap. The man who doesn't feel cold, ever.

Bah, point being is, people are dicks. You've got two weeks. Tell them you're skint and fairs fair, she could do with chipping in. If she doesn't, horde your shit in your room so they can't use it. Petty little victories Thumbs Up

This said dickwad from my flat never took the bins out, nor did her boyfriend. So I forced my gf to stop doing it, and we just sat and watch them fester. And then ignored the maggots and made her clean it up. Hilarity I assure you.

I'm waiting for the wedding day to tell her her boyfriend was caught down my local being done up the garry by a gay bloke I know Laughing
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PostPosted: 00:56 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I'm waiting for the wedding day to tell her her boyfriend was caught down my local being done up the garry by a gay bloke I know Laughing


See now that would be almost worth the effort of trying to be best friends with said bloke in the hopes that he would make you best man so you could drop that gem in front of the in-laws during the speech.

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PostPosted: 09:59 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

He has the upper hand as the legal tenant and if he wants her to live rent free thats his choice.

You could be really nasty and simply inform the landlord that he has been subletting... Shocked
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PostPosted: 10:59 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hang on, you sublet but are not on the lease? The phone is in your name? You pay the broadband and Tv license and chip in as well.

F3ck them mate, you give them a share you feel is valid the day you move out and you go, its not fair to be sat paying 50% of a 3 way.

I wouldn't, why should you, you all use the facilities. You should be paying 35% as its also a benefit that she is there but only if she is paying. You have your own room they share so them paying 65% seems right to me.

Not sure how they could disagree and if they come out with they should only pay 50% they can shag off.

Do they share the bathroom at the same time? The shower water? the seat on the sofa lol

I am being petty but you know what to do

Now do you have the balls to tell them to get f3cked

OR

You going to moan about it on a forum and pay up anyway like a b1tch muahahaha

Its over to you Karma
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PostPosted: 11:22 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

Take everything that is yours, suscribe for gay mail porn in his name. Put somebody elses underwear with a used condom (don't know how your going to get a used one and I don't even want to know) in their bedroom draw. Inject milk into the couch and shit in the corner just before you leave.


Job done.
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PostPosted: 11:56 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

Carl_steveo wrote:
Take everything that is yours, suscribe for gay mail porn in his name. Put somebody elses underwear with a used condom (don't know how your going to get a used one and I don't even want to know) in their bedroom draw. Inject milk into the couch and shit in the corner just before you leave.


Job done.


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PostPosted: 12:04 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is something you should have discussed the moment she moved in. So that you got your point across loud and clear from the off.

Now it looks like sour grapes, and they won't be able to get their head around it. I suspect you might end up losing a mate over this whole situation. Well unless of course he 'see's the light', but for the moment he will be thinking with his dick.

My suggestion would be to cancel everything in your name, now. Pay your third. And leave as soon as possible. And leave them to it. He will soon change his tune when he has to organise everything and pay for everything!!!
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PostPosted: 12:12 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've been on the other end of this. My girlfriend moved into a house and I had no where to live at the time. I paid the deposit for the house for all of them and my girlfriends share of the rent. They were skint so I bought them furniture and gas and electric. A takeaway and a crate of lager. I stayed there for a couple of nights helping them move in. I was then told to leave because I wasn't allowed to stay there. Which I thought yeah thats fair does, so I explained to the landlord who returned all my money, took my furniture and me and the girlfriend left and got a house ourselves. They were left in the shit having to pay a deposit and having no Tv or furniture all for the sake of letting me stay there another week or so.
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PostPosted: 13:57 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

You should have been splitting it 3 ways from when she moved in. You didn't, you're moving out in two weeks, do you want to cock up your friendship over a few quid now?

Friendships can go sour very quickly over things like this.
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PostPosted: 14:20 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was in this situation myself there where us and 2 had (effectivly live in partners) live in Partners. I thought live and let live I doesn't that bother because I liked the partners, I couldn't be bothered with the hassle.

Then one of the girls started giving me shit because my laptop is always on and I flipped.

Literally Screamed mentioning the fact, she always has her heating on I never do, she always has her on TV I never did, her boyfriend was staying here most of the week rent and bill free and a few other things. I told her this didn't bother me and the only way I would consider turning my laptop off was if her bloke paid rent and bill and she turned her heating down and she stopping leaving her tv on. To which she said "well if you're going to be like that" Laughing
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PostPosted: 14:40 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

Robby wrote:
You should have been splitting it 3 ways from when she moved in. You didn't, you're moving out in two weeks, do you want to cock up your friendship over a few quid now?

Friendships can go sour very quickly over things like this.


To be fair, our friendship was kinda lost as soon as we started living together and I realised he has no respect for me, money or any of my things, and puts his needy immature freeloading girlfriend above me, and more importantly above his family.

I'm not fussed about losing the friendship, he doesn't go out, talk to me or socialize ever. They just sit here on their own, doing nothing.

I presumed we would be splitting it three ways, our last set of bills was 40 quid, and I just gave him 20 quid because she'd only been in about 3 weeks.

He just texted me asking what I'm doing about paying council tax. As far as I'm concerned being a full time student (technically) I don't pay council tax, and as he can't declare I'm living here, it's his problem. I'm getting the feeling I might just let slip that he's subletting, smoking and has damaged the flat.

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PostPosted: 14:53 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

pyroforlife wrote:
I presumed we would be splitting it three ways, our last set of bills was 40 quid, and I just gave him 20 quid because she'd only been in about 3 weeks.


Ah well, this will be a new lesson learnt, never presume anything, especially with friends. Get stuff talked through immediately and written down...it may seem a little anal initially, but it will stop things getting out of hand further down the line.

I wouldn't bother stirring (says me Laughing ), but tell him straight about the council tax and it might be an idea to remind him about the sub-letting bit, if he pushes it further.

If possible start moving your stuff out now...(secretly) so on your final day you can tell him to get stuffed and be gone!
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PostPosted: 14:55 - 09 Mar 2010    Post subject: Reply with quote

Let it ride, as said above you are on short time. Smile nicely and make sure that nothing is still in your name after you leave.

It's never worth being petty with mates, and to be honest she doesn't sound like a real person - so just catagorise her as your mates pet. You wouldn't expect a cat to pay the rent. Wink

I shared for years with a couple of really good mates, we had a blast when we lived together, but after we went our various ways it was a couple of yearw before we wanted to be in the same room again.

The Council Tax isnt your problem it is his, so explain it to him
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