Constant harassment

Fairies attack · Banned Joined: 21 May 2011 Karma :

Right just a bit pissed off right now, this is a long story, which to be fully understood has to be told from the start.

I had this mate when I was younger.Knew him since we were both 3year old. Inseparable, first girlfriends were also best friend like we were, always going on holidays with each other family and stuff like that when we were younger. Anything that happened to one of us was dealt with by both of us, and so on. But whenever he had a drink, he would get agressive with people who were smaller than him, which I would usually step in and stop him, since we had, had many fights and he always came out on the floor, and I wouldn't let him back up until he had calmed down.

Now 2years ago I was planning a holiday for a few mates to Cornwall, one dropped out so naturally I asked this lad to step in, and he said yes, he was going in my mates car and I was on my bike. Everything was good until we went out on the last night we were there. It started off all right we were having a laugh, but I noticed he was trying to keep up drinking with me and my other mate (both big drinkers) and soon enough he was getting agressive with people in clubs, and since we was on holiday we decided to stop the night there and go back to the camp site, where at least we could keep an eye on him. And sort out any trouble if it arose.
When we got back me and my mate decided to have a beer, and I got one out for us. My pissed up other mate, decided he wanted one too, and after us telling him that he was too drunk and should go to bed, he agreed he would after he had, had this one. So we gave him one. About 5minutes later, me and my mate decided we couldn't be bothered to have our beer and left it on the table and went back to our own tents to, sleep off the booze ready for going back in the morning.

About 5minutes later I heard the lad being sick in the stream that run past my tent, and eventually fall over into it. When he got out I told him to go to bed and sleep it off. He opened another beer, and then was sick again and again. I told him to go to bed. Then everything when quiet. I thought he had gone to bed or fallen asleep on the bench we had. The all of a sudden he had jumped on my tent and was proceeding to punch me in the face whilst knelt on my shoulders and zipped in my sleeping bag. My mate in his tent called the police after he threatened to smash up my bike and his car. They arrived and carted him off, to the nick and in the morning we was told by the site owner we were banned from the site. So he got left in Cornwall, as we had to make our way home.

That was 2 years ago, and since then everything I thought had been sorted out, and all was good, we weren't talking to each other but it was sorted out in the few brief conversations we had.

Since that day, his older brother, and brother in-law (both live in my village) have had a big chip on their shoulder against me. From taking a swing in the street, to full on punch up in someone's front garden and once or twice out in town. Even to the point of his dad knocking my bike over in town at the taxi rank right in front of me.
Now these are grown men and every time they have decided to have a go, I have duly obliged since obviously i'm not going to stand there and take a beating.

But one thing that has really got to me is someone has been messing with this lads car, and since he lives behind me and their family have a big grudge against me. So naturally it is me that has done it despite him being a known paedophile, since he is 20 and with a 14yo.

So on to last night.
I our Slam cmae round to my house for a quick slurp and smoke. We walked to the shop for a some smokes and beer. Whilst we was in there I noticed this lads older brother, who when we was outside the shop decided he wanted to talk to me. Basically ascusing me of messing with his brother car. To which I kept my calm since having slam with me, and told him that a lot of things had been happening in the village recently with break in's and cars been vandalised, which is true, and there are flyers up in the shop warning people of this.
Any other time I would have been more than happy to wrap a can round his face, since that is what he is after. But since I was with slam and he doesn't like confrontation I kept it cool. Since he didn't get a rise out of me, he turn on Slam and started asking him questions.

I know the older brother is a lot bigger then me, but after a fair few scraps with him I and he knows I am not afraid of him whatever the outcome is. The brother in law is a different matter since he is a well known smack head, and very trigger happy.

What would you do in my situation?

Fairies attack · Banned Joined: 21 May 2011 Karma :

I must add this is the last thing my family needs, after my gran dying recently and my sisters ex boyfriend turning into a stalker, so naturally my family is on edge, and this is the last thing I want them to be subject to.

Rogerborg · nimbA Joined: 26 Oct 2010 Karma :

tl;dr

Root cause: you live in a inbred chav sink estate.

Solution: move to a different inbred chav sink estate.
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J4mes · World Chat Champion Joined: 18 Mar 2011 Karma :

I wouldn't have rung the police after one of my mates got drunk and tried to fight me. Thumbs Down

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Rogerborg · nimbA Joined: 26 Oct 2010 Karma :

I knew I should have left "hillbilly reneck" in there. Inbred probably covers it. It's a small pond problem either way.

The other solution involves a spade. Remember, dig the grave first, you don't want to rush it.
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bazza · World Chat Champion Joined: 27 Aug 2004 Karma :

I'd suggest the BCF BBQ route, but no fucker would turn up...
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ZRX61 · Victor Meldrew Joined: 05 Nov 2003 Karma :

Invite em all back to Cornwall & throw the entire fucking lot of of em down some abandoned mine shaft.
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sulphur · Trackday Trickster Joined: 01 Oct 2010 Karma :

Why not confront the original "mate" and ask him why the fuck his brothers are holding a grudge and continuing this shite..

Failing that, the handiest brother, give him a right good pasting, one he'll never compare to and warm him to stay the fuck away.

Also, a nice set of dusters could be your best investment for a rumour of packing a deadly right hook Wink

Carl_steveo · World Chat Champion Joined: 23 Jun 2008 Karma :

One of my best mates whos been a friend for a long time is an utter cock in drink. I'm a cock in drink, infact alot of people are cocks in drink. My mate is about half a foot smaller than me and not a fighter at all. However give him a few drinks and he will square up to anybody. Even with me a few times which is daft because we are good mates.

You have a few choices. One sort any grudges or troubles with your mate and his brothers by talking. Fighting with them isn't going to change anything.

Other option is, if your being accused of messing with his car then why not sort that problem out for him. I don't mean find out who's messing with it, I mean steal it and burn it out. If he hasn't got a car nobody can mess with it, if it can't be messed with you can't be accused of it.
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Fairies attack · Banned Joined: 21 May 2011 Karma :

Cheers for the suggestions guys.

I have spoken to the lad that owns the car. And he said his brother has some problem with me despite he fully accepts it was acceptable for him to be left in Cornwall after what he did. He even offered me the me the £100 for the tent he ruined when we was was there.

I guess it will have to be sorted with his brother , which I guess he won't give up until he finds the slightest speck of evidence, like me living in the same street.

The funny thing is the lad who's car it is, actually said thank you to me, since I go for a walk most nights about 3am, to check if anyone is around my area and up for breaking in. And he understands if I was going to fuck with car, I wouldn't let the tyre's down, I would slash the side walls since it would mean he would need new tyres.

I am not bothered about the brother since he can be calmed with words, it is the brother in law, I am scared of. After more than a few fights with him, I know he is more than happy to pull a blade to get the advantage. And at that point I am not afraid to say I will either hit him and then run like mad, or just run.

Rogerborg · nimbA Joined: 26 Oct 2010 Karma :

Have a proper friendly talk to him while you're both sober, find a common interest, do each other's hair and synchronise your periods.

Move away, or never show your face in public again.

One of you ends up dead or crippled.

I don't see a 4th option.
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