Ideas For A Job

chickenstrip · Super Spammer Joined: 06 Dec 2013 Karma :

I'm looking for something with flexible hours and low stress levels for a while, whilst my father breathes his last in a nursing home, and the resulting pressure of sorting out his house and financial affairs etc threatens to use up all the free time I have.

A stressful time, and my current job is not helping, as they're piling more and more work on us (I went to a 4 day week to reduce some of the stress and physical fatigue, but I reckon I've got enough workload now for a 6 day week!).

Think I'll end up shelf-stacking at a local supermarket probably, which is ok for a while, but wondered what others would consider?

Don't have much in the way of qualifications, and experience since leaving the RAF in 1992 is all motorcycle trade, mostly working on parts/accessories counters, but none of that near here.

Any suggestions?

Tracey Suntan-King · World Chat Champion Joined: 10 Nov 2012 Karma :

Hi, sorry to hear things are tough. Could you afford to take some time out and not work at all for a few months? That could be good for your stress and free up all your time to be with your Dad as well as get his affairs in order.
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Omega · Crazy Courier Joined: 07 May 2009 Karma :

Take a few weeks off and see if you still feel the same. That step back is sometimes enough for your mind to get on top of things. See your doctor if necessary for time off with stress or whatever.

The work they're "piling on" might suddenly seem like nothing when you're given some breathing space. I think some people brush off mental "illness" while others are happy to scream and shout depression/stress. You need some time out for good reason mate. Go for it and then see how you feel afterwards.[/u]

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andyscooter · World Chat Champion Joined: 30 May 2009 Karma :

having just been through the same work problems and having a dad with cancer i sort of know were you are coming from

see the dr tell them you are struggleing to concerntrait at work due to other things going on in your life

they will sign you off straight away and the company cant do a thing about it

when you are ready to start back the dr can give you a note to go back on redused hours

mine did this for a while

because the company i worked for wouldnt employ anyone to help me at work the dr kept signing me off

i was off three months and in that time found another job which i love and am earning more money
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P.addy · Red Rocket Joined: 14 Feb 2008 Karma :

Sorry to hear it mate... Sad

c_dug · Super Spammer Joined: 04 Sep 2007 Karma :

Sorry for your loss, I hope in six months time you can look back on now as a particular rough patch that you managed to work through.
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Aff · World Chat Champion Joined: 05 May 2011 Karma :

Sorry to hear buddy, hopefully everything works out.
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hellkat · Super Spammer Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Karma :

Sorry about your dad, chickenystrips xx

Maybe the fact that you expected him to last longer might help as a catalyst for you to consider changing your job anyway. Sounds like the one you have is far too stressful.
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andyscooter · World Chat Champion Joined: 30 May 2009 Karma :

sorry for your loss

sure that wasnt there when i wrote my post Shocked

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tony_d123 · Nitrous Nuisance Joined: 08 Apr 2007 Karma :

This is one of those times when you re-evaluate what is important to you. I had a similar experience a couple of years ago and decided to change my work/life balance.
The only advice anyone can give is think carefully and don't make any quick decisions. What can be too busy one week can be a welcome distraction when everything has settled down.
Good luck in whatever you decide Smile

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Tracey Suntan-King · World Chat Champion Joined: 10 Nov 2012 Karma :

Sorry to hear about your Dad. Take care Nick xxxx
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Clanger · Stirrer Joined: 27 May 2004 Karma :

Gosh, really sorry to hear.

Maybe some compassionate leave from work will help you clear your head. Speak to your boss, explain you need this time and then perhaps when you get back you can decide whether or not this job is for you anymore...
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Nobby the Bastard · Harley Gaydar Joined: 16 Aug 2013 Karma :

Sorry to hear it.
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