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Moo.
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PostPosted: 16:10 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Friend Scared To Death - Psycho Living In The House Reply with quote

Looking for some advice for my friend.

She lives in a city up North and is a student, her boyfriend isnt a student so they both live in a house share with random other people, not a student house share. They're both early 20's

One of the other residents is a 45 year old drunk, who one night, thought it would be a great idea to get pissed, come back at half 1 in the morning and start having a go at them (my friend and her boyfriend) for not cleaning the kitchen.

This led to an argument, to him cutting his own hand with a knife, slapping them both across the face and claiming they assaulted him.

She called the police and they made him leave the house for the night, but she didn't press charges because she didn't know what would happen.

Another incident was one morning, he barged into their room, thinking the boyfriend had gone to work to start an argument with my friend. Luckily the boyfriend hadn't gone to work yet an another argument ensued.. Something about leaving keys in the bathroom (bull5hit argument?)

They have tried to contact the landlord multiple times, to no avail. Apparently the guy is supposed to be being moved into another house, but there are problems with that so hes actually still living there..

There no friends locally which she can go to, and her family is a few hundred miles away. Its all affecting her university work too.. taking a plummet.

Looking for advice on what she should do... Shocked
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PostPosted: 16:18 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

She should leave, isn't that obvious?
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PostPosted: 16:20 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kill him.
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PostPosted: 16:23 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ste wrote:
Kill him.


And GTFO
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PostPosted: 16:26 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

sickpup wrote:
She should leave, isn't that obvious?


I know this is the obvious route, but little cash limits options, he has little income and shes a student
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PostPosted: 16:30 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Moo. wrote:
I know this is the obvious route, but little cash limits options, he has little income and shes a student


Then they have to decide whether they are really at risk.

Or smack the shít out of him with a fence post so giving them a few weeks respite
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PostPosted: 16:32 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well if he's a nutter then you should be careful taking him on, you don't know what he might do, if he's gone apeshit and cut himself with a knife then the only sensible solution I can see is leaving quietly and on OK terms with him, then it won't be them he kills when something in his head snaps. Thumbs Up

Your title reads "scared to death", if she is indeed very scared then leaving is obvious whether it puts her in a little extra debt or not. Add it to the student CC.
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PostPosted: 16:42 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

covent.gardens wrote:
Well if he's a nutter then you should be careful taking him on, you don't know what he might do, if he's gone apeshit and cut himself with a knife then the only sensible solution I can see is leaving quietly and on OK terms with him, then it won't be them he kills when something in his head snaps. Thumbs Up

Your title reads "scared to death", if she is indeed very scared then leaving is obvious whether it puts her in a little extra debt or not. Add it to the student CC.


I think thats what stopped her pushing charges.. the unknown that maybe his head would snap and go cuckoo..

I've told her to get her parents help money wise to move out..

sickpup wrote:
Or smack the shít out of him with a fence post so giving them a few weeks respite


Neither have much strength in the arm department. What about a henry krank alarm on the door? He'd shit himself next time he opened it..
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PostPosted: 16:45 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are no other similarly priced rooms in shared houses nearby?

You say they can't get hold of the landlord but how have they been paying their rent each month if they can't get in touch with the landlord?
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PostPosted: 16:46 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why isn't the landlord doing anything, using words like "in fear of life" ought to prick their ears up. Can it not be escalated above the land lords head?

Also if money's tight, how can they afford to live there? There must be several other places similarly priced nearby.
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PostPosted: 16:58 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wafer_Thin_Ham wrote:
Why isn't the landlord doing anything, using words like "in fear of life" ought to prick their ears up. Can it not be escalated above the land lords head?



I wondered this, shouldn't the police be keeping an eye?

I'll definitely advise moving.. gets pretty bad in live when you're not safe in your own home..] I'm sure there are other rooms around, even the stress of moving has got to be better then a knife wielding maniac

Not sure how it works for them, but for mine at the moment is just sending money to a bank account..
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PostPosted: 17:33 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cant get hold of the landlord.....easiest and quickest way to get a response is stop paying the rent and put it aside, he will soon be in contact then you can raise the issue and give him the money owed.
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PostPosted: 17:47 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Result - Just view another house, moving out tomorrow Very Happy


Just gotta last the night now... Shocked
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PostPosted: 17:57 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Moo. wrote:
Result - Just view another house, moving out tomorrow Very Happy


Just gotta last the night now... Shocked


Coppers know he is a nut job that fucks himself up then blames others?

Kick the crap out of him before they leave, he has already cried wolf so who will listen to him.
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PostPosted: 21:06 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Best solution would be a tragic accident?
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PostPosted: 21:15 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Send up a couple of big blokes to have a quiet word with him and remind him they'll be in touch if he carries on?
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PostPosted: 21:31 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Perhaps she could consider upgrading her boyfriend to a manfriend?
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PostPosted: 22:24 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

where up north? If its close to me I'd happily pop round for a brew when hes kicking off Smile
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PostPosted: 22:33 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rogerborg wrote:
Perhaps she could consider upgrading her boyfriend to a manfriend?


You called ?
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PostPosted: 22:54 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

In order to offer any decent advice, we need to see pictures of her tits. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 23:53 - 12 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

GTFO would be the best solution.

Tons of house shares all over the UK on here: https://www.houseshare.com/
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PostPosted: 14:09 - 13 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Answer is simple. They need to move out...of the North...permanently.

Unless you want to make friends with a kestrel or buy a pork pie, there's no need to ever go north of Watford.
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PostPosted: 14:29 - 13 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

BigShow wrote:
there's no need to ever go norf of Watford the Thames.

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PostPosted: 18:20 - 13 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

BigShow wrote:
Answer is simple. They need to move out...of the North...permanently.

Unless you want to make friends with a kestrel or buy a pork pie, there's no need to ever go north of Watford.


Steady on lad.. Yorkshire pudding living in the south east here... I hear this shit a lot and its old.

On subject, move out.
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PostPosted: 20:56 - 13 Nov 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

BigShow wrote:
there's no need to ever go north of Watford.


You know, I always wonder why people think that London is the be all and end all of British society. I wonder if you could shed some light on this?
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