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PostPosted: 13:02 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: i only went and said id get rid of 'the' bike... Reply with quote

so im a dad now Very Happy - which is awesome.
but i am riding less and less. most days i have to drop the baby off at a child minders - so unless Kreiga are about to bring out a motorcycle baby carry back pack - im in the car. Sad

ive got a stunning 2012 Street triple R - ive kept it in pristine condition and now its just sitting there costing me money. The mrs has also just heard about a friend of a friend of friend (you know the story) whos been badly injured on their bike. So after many rows and battles i uttered those terrible words 'fine, i'll get rid of the bike'.
The mrs is very pleased with herself.

thankfully i was careful with the wording.. of course im not going to give up riding! Mwahaha Twisted Evil but the STR needs to go early next year.

so my question is.. if you were to get something cheaper than the 2012 STR, just as good looking, ideally as much fun. what would you get? the amount of riding i do is going to be less. so what would be a reasonably priced, 4-5 year old great bike?

Would you sell the STR, pay off outstanding finance and then go shopping, or are there good PX/swap deals to done?

someone tell me theres a happy ending to this.....
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PostPosted: 13:08 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would buy a cheaper and older Street Triple, maybe an '07 or something.
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PostPosted: 13:09 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sell the missus instead.
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PostPosted: 13:24 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd just say to her you intended to get a cheaper bike, but the hit you'll take on the value compared to the finance means you're not actually saving anything much at all.

Remember if you sell your bike, then use the money from that to buy another, you're still having to pay full whack for yours and the insurance wont be much difference unless you go for a 125 or something tiny...
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PostPosted: 13:47 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Have to agree with the above. If you have a fair wedge to repay on the STR it might not be viable to sell and get something relatively decent.

It all depends on how much you will have left after selling the STR, paying the bribe to the wife and then going shopping for a new bike.
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PostPosted: 14:22 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

TBH and I don't mind getting slated for this, as I've never had a bike as capable and fun as an STR or a big bike for over 5years, why do you need something that's big and capable if your a busy dad with far less time for riding.

I'd be enjoying being a dad and family life, and also freeing up quite a bit of money depending on the value of the STR that could be used for other things or more useful things.

If it were me, I'd be saying to the other half, well lets decide on how best to use the majority of the cash from the bike sale, but by the way I am still going to get something cheap to stick in the garage, mess around with and occasionally ride when I have spare time.

I'd say that £1500-2000 would get you a nice useable, fun and safe ridable bike that for the amount of use your going to get out of it might as well cost you less to buy and insure etc.

Or you could go <£1000 and buy an old project bike. I would expect that having the time to work on it much could be an issue, and you might just want to do the riding bit when you get an hour or so free, but having something old to rebuild and renovate could be just as satisfying if your that way inclined?

I'd like a bigger bike again at some point, I don't need one and won't use one for all year round commuting, but I'd be happy with something old and characterful, like an MK1 Speed triple that I've got a bit of a thing for these days, even though I say I must own a V-max one day.
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PostPosted: 14:53 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

stevo i reckon you're probably right.

id be quite happy with something a little retro that i can i take out for a cruise when the weather is fine. If only thruxtons etc werent so expensive!
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PostPosted: 15:04 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't think any bike will be as awesome as being a dad not even close!

But I bet there are at least a handful of different bikes in the under £2k bracket that if you thought about would be really great fun bikes to own and enjoy, and probably even more so when you know that even if/when your not riding very often your not tying up ££££'s just sat doing nothing in the garage except depreciating.

If you like the Triumph Thruxton, then what about making something else look like one that's a bit cheaper? I bet you'd get a nice thunderbird sport cheap that you could do the café treatment on, and it would probably be as much fun too!
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PostPosted: 15:33 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Simple. The missus has to go. You should know where your priorities lie. Laughing
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PostPosted: 16:50 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Re: i only went and said id get rid of 'the' bike... Reply with quote

footlong8 wrote:
The mrs has also just heard about a friend of a friend of friend (you know the story) whos been badly injured on their bike. So after many rows and battles i uttered those terrible words 'fine, i'll get rid of the bike'.
The mrs is very pleased with herself.



One thing to remember, her being a new Mum. Her protection instincts are at their highest and it's not just for the baby, it's for you as 'provider' as well. She wants to be sure her man brings back the Mastodon steaks at the end of the day. Laughing

Maybe give it biking a break for a bit till the babays a bit older and she will come round.

Or just show her your new life insurance policy and get another bike. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 16:52 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm guessing this whole "my wife told me to do "X" so I have to do it" is something you don't really understand until you're in the situation.

Assuming I did understand this phenomena, then I would say getting an old project bike for little money is a good way to go. There seems little sense in going through the hassle of paying off the finance on the Triumph and then selling it just to then go and buy an inferior bike...
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PostPosted: 17:21 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tell her you will get rid in the summer when the values rise......she may have forgotten by then.
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PostPosted: 18:42 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would keep the bike.
You might just end up buying trouble with a cheaper bike.
When you have a nice reliable one its best to keep hold of it.
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PostPosted: 19:39 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Drinking wine costs money and, according to a female breast cancer consultant at our local hospital, increases the chance of getting the said disease. Ask her if she's going to give up booze if you give up bikes.
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PostPosted: 21:15 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

the mrs barely even drinks unfortunately! im the one with all the vices in this family!

food for thought. thanks. first stop if to find out what finance is outstanding. second stop. ebay.
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PostPosted: 21:58 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is why I can't see myself ever getting married.
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PostPosted: 22:09 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Am I missing the point, but if the issue is safety then why is a cheaper bike going to make a difference? And if the issue is money,how is losing a big stack on a financed bike going to be a saving?

I would try to agree a comprimise, wait until you have paid off the STR and hope she forgets it by then. If not, it still sounds like a "I fear for your life" scenario which is a different argument altogether. For the record, I got my first big bike around the time my son was born, my wife is a big worrier but has never suggested that my bike could be a health hazard!
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PostPosted: 22:26 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

stevo as b4 wrote:
I don't think any bike will be as awesome as being a dad not even close!


That sir, is a matter of opinion.
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PostPosted: 22:31 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Re: i only went and said id get rid of 'the' bike... Reply with quote

footloose wrote:
...the STR needs to go...


I just threw up in my mouth.
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PostPosted: 22:36 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know it's easy to read someone else's situation and a post and talk big about what you'd do in those situations, so here goes...

My response would be "No I'm not giving up riding motorbikes or selling the bike I love. As a compromise I will cut down on it, but I'm not giving up. It's a passion of mine, and although it's not as high up the priority list as you and our child it still means a lot. If you can't handle that, tough. That's just the way it is."

Obviously this is harder to say if you're married rather than just in a cohabiting relationship but why kowtow to the missus? If you're doing your best as a provider I don't see why you shouldn't have something that brings you joy for your troubles, but then there are women out there who will systematically bend a man to their will, spending years nagging him out of the things he enjoys because they're not in service of her or beneficial to her. Not saying she's one of them, but still. Why do something that you'll probably resent her for later. She's the mother of your child and presumably the one you love the most but that doesn't mean she's the boss of you, right?
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PostPosted: 22:53 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Re: i only went and said id get rid of 'the' bike... Reply with quote

footlong8 wrote:
So after many rows and battles i uttered those terrible words 'fine, i'll get rid of the bike'.
The mrs is very pleased with herself.


I've never understood this.

Sure it's fine to sell a bike that is costing you a lot in finance and insurance etc. No harm in getting something a little older and cheaper to run if you've got less time to ride now but why say you will sell the bike in the first place? No doubt she will think you meant give up biking despite how clever you think you've been with your wording. She knew about your biking going in to the relationship so it's not fair to ask you to stop now.

I've seen the same thing with a few of my friends in long term relationships. They always end up pining after bikes and end up resenting their partners because of all the stuff they're "not allowed to do any more".

Sod that.

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This is why I can't see myself ever getting married.


I'm typing this one handed with my 5 week old daughter on my arm asleep while my wife is in the other room looking into how to officially import my bike to Germany so I can get it back on the road. Further, my wife was fully supportive of my competing in my first motocross race two weeks before she was due to give birth.

Getting married isn't the problem, marrying the wrong person is.

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PostPosted: 23:07 - 13 Dec 2014    Post subject: Re: i only went and said id get rid of 'the' bike... Reply with quote

KLR600 wrote:
Getting married isn't the problem, marrying the wrong person is.

That's precisely on topic. The bike isn't the problem here. This is a Dear Auntie BCF /thread.
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PostPosted: 00:53 - 14 Dec 2014    Post subject: Re: i only went and said id get rid of 'the' bike... Reply with quote

footlong8 wrote:
so im a dad now


And we all thought you were firing blanks.
Well done mate.

footlong8 wrote:
The mrs has also just heard about a friend of a friend of friend (you know the story) whos been badly injured on their bike.


Here's a story for her.

Some women die during childbirth, some go ballistic with postnatal depression and kill/eat the child then commit suicide but yet you both had a child regardless of the dangers...


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PostPosted: 01:04 - 14 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

Op is scared of bike and is trying to blame the wife Wink
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PostPosted: 02:05 - 14 Dec 2014    Post subject: Reply with quote

stevo as b4 wrote:
I don't think any bike will be as awesome as being a dad not even close!

But I bet there are at least a handful of different bikes in the under £2k bracket that if you thought about would be really great fun bikes to own and enjoy, and probably even more so when you know that even if/when your not riding very often your not tying up ££££'s just sat doing nothing in the garage except depreciating.

If you like the Triumph Thruxton, then what about making something else look like one that's a bit cheaper? I bet you'd get a nice thunderbird sport cheap that you could do the café treatment on, and it would probably be as much fun too!


+1 B1H end thread. Very Happy
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