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ColdInsomnia
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PostPosted: 15:27 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Mates that ride like prats Reply with quote

So, having finally gotten a bigger bike (The lurvly divvy), I've managed to shift on the ol' TZR125.

I sold it to my mate.

Now... this mate of mine has been riding bikes for years... but off-road. He's been riding a lot longer than me in total, however I've been riding on the road for nearly a year now, and he has been OTR for a month or so.

In short - I'm worried about his riding. He does have a CBT, he's insured, taxed and everything but it's just his riding style is so dangerously aggressive.

He will do every thing he can do shave a few seconds off his journey. Only yesterday he flew across a cross-junction turning right, when traffic was coming from the opposite side turning left. Obviously they have right of way. None the less, he went straight over the junction to turn right and forced the opposite car (turning left) to slam the brakes, nearly making the car behind that one slam into it. There was only quite literally a few inches between my made and the car, he just rode away as if nothing had happened. I gave the driver a shrug and mouthed "sorry" and followed my mate again.

When I talked to him at the petrol station he told me what a prick he thought that driver was.

"What? That driver was in the right of way! Are you mad going across like that?"

"No, I was quicker than him going across the junction, he should have been watching for motorcycles."


...Needless to say it was pointless trying to convince him he was in the wrong. I even pointed out that if there HAD been a collision, he would have been found the one in the wrong.

It's not the only time that he's made my heart skip a beat by far. He undertakes on single-lane roads (Often barely missing parked cars), does dodgy overtakes past junctions and stuff.

I feel partly responsible since I sold him the bike that he's going to end up killing himself on. I've tried talking to him and getting him to tone down his riding but he just seems to maintain that as a biker he's always in the right.

Add to that that his father has told me if anything happens to his son then he's going to hold ME responsible (His dad is a pretty big guy).



What can I do to get him to tone down his riding? Is there anything I can do? Or is the only way he'll learn is by eating some tarmac?
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PostPosted: 15:31 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd go and tell his dad you're worried about the way he's riding before he does do himself in.
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PostPosted: 15:31 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is such a familiar story.

You've said your bit. if he isn't prepared to listen to his mate, then nothing more you can say will make him listen. Best you can hope for is that when he does finally come a cropper he isn't maimed or killed, and doesn't hurt anyone else.
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PostPosted: 15:41 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

If it's possible, take him into one of those bikesafe class. That normally puts sense back , i heard!
Yeah, let his dad know for sure that you feel sorry that you sold him the bike. Rolling Eyes

I ride to work everyday, and was overtaken by blue Ninja (old shape) today. I normally don't filter at more then +10/15 mph of the speed of traffic. But the guy, just flew past, even managing a wave at me 'cos I let him thru, and the way and the speed Shocked he was swaying in and out of lanes was frightening. I have seen him couple of times and am sure he wears proper jacket, but baggy trousers. As I don't know him, i can only wish him luck as I see him fade away in distance..
I would hv to go for a track day to get my aggression out and test my limit, but in day to day riding, I will do what i find sensible. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 15:49 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

ColdInsomnia,

Stop worrying about your mate.

He's had the TZR125 over a month now.

It will definitely self destruct sometime in the next few days.

End of problem.

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PostPosted: 15:49 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I need new friends; they are the opposite to yours - complete pussies who are shit scared to overtake even in the most safest of places. Neutral
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PostPosted: 15:51 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hotdog wrote:
ColdInsomnia,

Stop worrying about your mate.

He's had the TZR125 over a month now.

It will definitely self destruct sometime in the next few days.

End of problem.

Hotdog.


The way that he rags it around I swear I can see blood seeping out from the engine.
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PostPosted: 17:08 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would not take that from his dad, how is it your fault if he crashes. One of my dads mates said it was my fault that my mate crashed. I just took it on the chin cos maybe he was a little traumatised, but then a few weeks ago he tried blaming me again when it went through insurance. Needless to say he hasnt said it since my dad and brother in law had a "word" with him.
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PostPosted: 17:17 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Point him to this site : www.ogrish.com

Find Motorcycle accidents

Show him what he will look like when he comes off.


This site made me seriously change my attitude to riding, hopefully it will do the same for your m8.
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PostPosted: 17:34 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Personally I would let his dad know that you are concerned about his riding style. Then I wouldn't go riding with him again.
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PostPosted: 17:36 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Re: Mates that ride like prats Reply with quote

ColdInsomnia wrote:
What can I do to get him to tone down his riding? Is there anything I can do? Or is the only way he'll learn is by eating some tarmac?


What a tool!

Anyway, what I'd suggest is, get him to follow you when you are out, rather than you follow him. Tell him at no point do you want to see him overtake you.

If he carrys on riding like you say, he WILL get knocked off / have an accident.

Ask him if he wants to learn the hard way or easy way.

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PostPosted: 17:37 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

That has some sick stuff on there, never really wanted to venture past the intro video. I would'nt recommend people to go on that site, even if you think your not botherd by them things you will be on there Sick Thumbs Down
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PostPosted: 17:48 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Now I read your warning, SoulRider...
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PostPosted: 17:57 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Make sure if you do ride with him, you take it at your own pace and get him to pull over and wait for you. He'll probably see that his crazy riding is silly, if all the traffic he just raced to get by, passes him by as he waits for you.

If he doesnt wait, dont ride with him. You'll only feel obliged to keep up, thus putting yourself in unnecessary danger.

Some of my riding mates ride faster than me and take more chances and I just let 'em go...
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PostPosted: 17:57 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I cant find motorcycle accidents Confused
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PostPosted: 18:08 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

You could always point him toward this forum and get him to boast about his latest riding triumph.

We'd soon take him down a peg or two!! Wink

On a slightly more serious note, I strongly suggest you go and have a word with his dad, not least because it will save you eating hospital food after your mate comes a cropper.

Maybe even overdo it a bit: "I've /told/ him about his riding, but he /just/ won't listen!"

The trouble with people like this is, too much testosterone and not enough brains. Its worryingly common in 16-19 year olds.
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PostPosted: 18:22 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

His dad sounds like a dick head as well. Thats pretty distorted thinking trying to blame you, and I would tell him that. His son chooses to ride a bike and you don't make is decisions for him. I would also tell him and his dad that he rides like a complete twat and until he changes you ain't going to ride with him as you don't like the sight of blood.
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PostPosted: 19:32 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

strag wrote:
His dad sounds like a dick head as well. Thats pretty distorted thinking trying to blame you, and I would tell him that.


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His son chooses to ride a bike and you don't make is decisions for him. I would also tell him and his dad that he rides like a complete twat and until he changes you ain't going to ride with him as you don't like the sight of blood.


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PostPosted: 20:17 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

john2 wrote:
I cant find motorcycle accidents Confused


I did and wished I hadn't. Saw a video of a woman pillion who got her scarf caught in the back wheel...it dragged her of the bike and she then got her head crushed by following traffic. Not a pretty sight.
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PostPosted: 20:36 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Re: Mates that ride like prats Reply with quote

Don't ride with said fool any more.

Tell his dad that he's riding like an idiot and is going to end up injured/killed, and so you're not going riding with him anymore.

Either his dad'll have a go at him and he'll change his ways, or darwinism will come into play.
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PostPosted: 21:33 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

CortezTheKiller wrote:
john2 wrote:
I cant find motorcycle accidents Confused


I did and wished I hadn't. Saw a video of a woman pillion who got her scarf caught in the back wheel...it dragged her of the bike and she then got her head crushed by following traffic. Not a pretty sight.

How do i watch these vids, i have a few friends who could benefit from watching them.
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PostPosted: 21:45 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

john2 wrote:

How do i watch these vids, i have a few friends who could benefit from watching them.


https://www.liveleak.com/view?i=080723e529

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PostPosted: 22:59 - 08 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

CortezTheKiller wrote:
john2 wrote:

How do i watch these vids, i have a few friends who could benefit from watching them.


https://www.liveleak.com/view?i=080723e529

https://www.liveleak.com/view?i=6098bceab1

https://www.liveleak.com/view?i=f88b80be06

Don't say I didn't warn you... Sick


HOLY CRAP!!!!!

And you didnt think to warn me!!!
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PostPosted: 00:10 - 09 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

https://www.liveleak.com/browse?all&q=motorcycle&page=5

this was what put me off the site, i can't go near that stuff, it makesme want to stop riding...... Sick

***WARNING*** DO NOT LOOK ON ABOVE LINK IF YOU DON'T WANT TO SEE BODY PARTS DETATCHED sorry about that, had to be warned...
it is not pretty site,
on another note i also found this first...
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PostPosted: 01:29 - 09 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

st3v3 wrote:
on another note i also found this first...
https://www.liveleak.com/view?i=4621560ec7


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