Really lost it with my neighbour! totaly OTT

[Ribenapigeon]

I really lost it with my neighbour. I came home and found he had moved his caravan in such a way it blocked my security camera that watches over my shed where I keep my bike. So I knock on his door and point this out and ask if he can move it back a couple of feet. He says no as the blossom from a tree is falling on the caravan and he's worried it will mark the caravan. At that point I absoliutely explode! I mean really over the top swearing and calling him an idiot etc. I feel so stupid about it.is because of work and i've taken it out on him. The thing that really worries me is this could have happened at work, with a client even and then I would really be up shit creek. I did go back and offer the guy an apolgy and understandably he didn't want to speak with me. Hopefully I can mend things over the next few days. Maybe write an apology letter as well. It was crazy though and the irony is I work for a charity.

[Eddie Hitler]

I know it shouldn't have made me laugh, but reading that did. .

I'm sure an apology and a few beers will sort it out.

[Clanger]

Slip a simple apology note into his door, and suggest a face-to-face in the near future and leave it at that. When you do the face-to-face thing you can explain why you were so stressed...and why its important that your camera has access to your garage.
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[ScaredyCat]

Cover his caravan in blossom....
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[Commuter_Tim]

Fuck him, his logic is retarded.
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[Ribenapigeon]

[Tracey Suntan-King]

Seriously, you have enough insight through your work that your reaction this evening was out of character for you and that there must be a cause outside of anything anyone else has done.

I noticed your earlier post about your charity, which seems to indicate a level of frustration at work which could be causing you to be stressed.

FWIW my advice would be to think about anything you can change/raise at work or tackle in another way, to stop your stress level getting worse. It's no good for you! Or the people round you.

Take care

Marg Proops
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[CaNsA]

Don't suppose you caught the rage on a security camera?

If so.... YOUTUBE!

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[Llama-Farmer]

Good job you don't live next to the Wolf

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[Clutchy]

Daaaaamn, if I went to the doctor everytime I shouted at someone I'd barely have any time left in the day to shout at the other people!
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[Ribenapigeon]

[stevo as b4]

I've felt similar with stress at work, and managed to mainly keep it bottled at work and with the people I work with. Trouble is as soon as you leave work and anything goes wrong or someone acts unreasonable towards you or is rude, you can end up easily going off on one!

I've had a few road rage incidents on the way home from work in my fully livered works van, I'm not at all proud of it, and I consider myself a very steady considerate driver too. But the last time a guy in a Golf cut in-front of me, and caused me to have to swerve and brake very hard, I totally lost it, and in heavy traffic too. I went straight through a red light and was quite prepared to use my 3.5T van to run him off the road. I managed to calm down after less than a mile, but I was angry with myself then for driving like a total tosser right up behind him and trying to barge past busy rush hour traffic to make a point.

I had to take 2-3weeks off work last year with stress and went to the doc twice, mainly for a note, but he decided I needed anti-depressants and even after this and another health problem was sorted out, I've found it a right bastard trying to come off them.

[Ribenapigeon]

[Llama-Farmer]

[Visitor Q]

If I were you, I'd let it lie.

You've already tried to apologise. He is still doing something you'd rather he didn't. Leave it as it is for now.

As for time off, just pull a sicky (whooping malaria, green monkey disease, armed insurgency of the bowel... who cares) for a day or two. Or get a doctors note with something vague.

As said though, parting somebodies hair for being stupid is one of life's few pleasures. Just don't do it too often ( )
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[dydey90]

Can we have a paint diagram of caravan, bike, camera and tree locations?
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[Marmalade]

Maybe I should pre book weekly appointments for my regular calling of the bloke next door a nosy interfering old cnut.
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[unluckyluke]

Stress is for bridges my friend. Now get someone to steal his caravan and as a peace offering say you'll let him have the cctv footage